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The Questions …Compassion for Sex Traffickers? Part 2 - Past Life Roles

Sun, 29 Mar 2026 20:16:34 GMT

Quote for Reflection: “When Shakespeare’s character, Jaques, in the play ‘As You Like It’ spoke that, “The world’s a stage and we’re all actors,” there were no truer mystic words that resonated to me about the healing journey." ~Judy

Past lives

As a former clinical hypnotherapist, I can easily trance myself to other ‘past’ moment experiences or simultaneous realities in doing this for years. During past trances through my Higher Self or 3rd person observer, I have journeyed to those ‘past’ experiences where I played in scenes where I acted in the perpetrator roles.

To say the least, not all of those events were aligned with the highest and best intentions, motives or actions. I saw myself act in ways that made me shutter, cringe, and cry in the present. I would never think I could be so cruel, inhumane, and objectifying as in some of the memories I remembered from other historical times.

For clarity, this is NOT why I went through being trafficked and abused in this lifetime on a spiritual level. Karma doesn’t work like that. It isn’t a punishment or an eye-for-an-eye mentality. Further explanation is in Chapter 1 of Book 1 of the ‘Moving Beyond Revised’ series.

Each time after I remembered, I was asked within, “What did you learn from that lifetime?”

I would ‘see’ what I decided, gained, lost, and learned. This was before ThetaHealing® Technique, so I was already delving deep in ‘innerstanding’ my motives and finding compassion and forgiveness for the ways I acted towards others and myself.

I stopped doing past life work for a few years until I went through an integration/fusion process in having lived with having had many Inner alter parts due to dissociative disordering. I felt that my concentration needed to be on the Inner child work and to keep it within this lifetime. It was a good decision for me at the time, because in this present life’s experience, it’s easy to want to bypass what is so horrific and unbelievable.

NDEs and Divine Justice

In many having many NDEs (Near Death Experiences), they remember that Souls are asked what they wanted to learn from their earthly experiences, and where they felt they didn’t learn it. This is from the angle of the feelings and experience from the others who they harmed. This is an aspect of Divine Justice after dying.

This actually means that how incarnated Souls affect other beings through their misaligned decisions, actions, and harm of others were all ‘noticed’ on a spiritual level. That can be quite an intense realization particularly in the awareness of being witnessed by Beings of Love and through that All-That-IS energy. Yet there was no judgment like what we might think. Souls are always learning. ‘Outside’ this Earthly Third Plane of Existence learning isn’t by punishment unless that is what the Soul wants to create in their unforgiveness of themselves.

In remembering my childhood NDEs, I didn’t want to come back. Children are not asked to ‘look’ at whether they have hurt others. They are just loved and blanketed with Unconditional love by other Light Souls.

The Light beings and Masters, like Yeshua, would show me why it was necessary to return, how my absence would impact a great deal of others who were counting on me, including future generations of my family lineage. This was not very consoling to me as a child as I could hardly bare to live with the tremendous amount of abuse that was being inflicted. Leaving my body to go ‘home’ had become much easier and more comforting than remembering what my mission was.

I was also told that I had a spiritual team to help me, some in form, and I would make it. I needed to remember that I volunteered to make a difference and felt I could do this journey through the Darkness in bringing a deeper awareness to humanity.

I have friends who remember me from in-between times, and who remember asking me if I thought I could do my mission in form. It seems easy when you don’t have a physical body and are surrounded by Love…like a brief thought. But those body suits sure create a ‘weighted’ and separated way of experiencing one’s earthly stage costume and role.

This Love becomes like a perpetrator

Divine Creator energy, that Unconditional Love that is part of all of us and through everything, gets the wrath by many. This Love becomes like a perpetrator.

Why is this?

Many feel that God/Creator abandons, rejects, disappears, punishes, hurts or betrays us. OR that we were (and still are) waiting for this Unconditional Love to save us.

During my earlier healing process, I can’t tell you how many times I yelled and raged at God/Creator for allowing all the shocking memories to surface and in de-structuring the limited reality of my denial. It’s a huge mind/time warp to experience much of one’s childhood spliced together with most of it missing that actually happened. I’d walk into a scene of my life, the next hours or days went missing, and I’d remember being at the next scene that put things back together somehow. Nothing seemed out of place. Hollywood editors couldn’t have done it better.

As a child, I waited every year to die on Yom Kipper because the rabbi taught us in Sunday School that God would write us in the Book of Living or Dying. If we weren’t good, we’d be in the book of death. And the rabbi was a sexual perpetrator and trafficker. How convenient!

Being ‘good’ was keeping the rabbi and his cohorts’ abuse as a secret and separated from my conscious mind. I created unconscious beliefs thinking they were true, that God would kill me, and this is somehow connected to Love. What else does a child do but go outside herself to find the supposed answers that would keep her alive and piece life together to appear ‘normal’?

No one taught me that I am always connected to Love, or that God is really pure Unconditional LOVE. And what meaning would it have given to me at that time when Love meant abuse then? Many of the perpetrators claimed they loved me as they abused and passed me on.

So this Divine Love energy was perceived through the wounded Inner child part/s. The distortion was also passed on through the indoctrination that many of us experienced from our ancestors, cultures and religions as well.

This Unconditional Love energy is also experienced as separate from the self–the guy in the sky with a thunderbolt like Zeus, any patriarchal male god, an authority figure (which often relates to our parents, guardians and abusers), and/or the Supreme judge of another’s freewill.

All of these identities, beliefs and programs are not what I consider ‘Truths’ in spirituality. The beliefs and memories block what can be experienced as Divine Love. There are also virtues that are needed like faith and trust to be practiced.

In blaming God/All-That-Is/Unconditional Love, this kept me experiencing the Divine Energy outside myself, just like the wounded child. That is how most people think about this Love. I was losing focus on what spirituality was really about. I wasn’t reaping the healing at a deeper level. It felt heavy and harsh. I felt positioned in the victim spot and feeling alone even though I had many dissociative parts inside and loving friends on the outside.

Played the roles

I asked myself often in my process: “How many times have I played the roles of the persecutor/ perpetrator in other lifetime experiences (past lives/ simultaneous experiences)?” I have recalled well over 350 experiences, so I’ve played a lot of polarizing roles.

In this lifetime, I’ve asked, “How many times was I put in the most heinous positions in being forced to make decisions which entailed either abusing others in order to survive, or be hurt or killed myself?” ‘Sophie’s Choice’ is often a reoccurring theme in trafficking.

“Can I forgive myself for my choices or those lack of choices at that level of consciousness then–as a child, as a teen, as a young adult–even though I had a Dissociative Disorder that kept amnesiac barriers in my mind so not to remember?” Toxic shame can run very deeply in witnessing and forced participation.

“What makes me unforgivable to this Divine Unconditional Love or to myself?”

Unforgivable or Loved?

As I continued my work through ThetaHealing® Technique after integration of my parts, and in really feeling a stronger connection with All-That-Is more consciously (rather than dying), I realized that nothing makes me unforgivable to this Divine Unconditional Love!

Even when I projected on and raged at Divine Creator, I was LOVED.

Even when I got in my own way…my old beliefs and memories about myself, when I felt shame so deeply that I thought I’d shatter more from whatever core I had. I was LOVED.

In experiencing myself as having been totally dehumanized--of feeling I should be in an abyss, a void, away from everything and everyone, of being nothing/non-existent--I was LOVED.

Even when I couldn’t recognize or feel I could receive this Divine Love, I was LOVED (and am loved).

What a landing to now know that I am part of this LOVE, so there was no way I wasn’t being LOVED.

This Divine All-That-IS has no requirements for me to acknowledge my own birthright in being part of this LOVE. I trust this completely now, but it sure was a process and many years to get there within myself.

That is also why those who trafficked me are forgivable even if they don’t heal, or ever acknowledge what they did to me or are doing to others on this earth. It’s their Soul choice to learn in difficult ways too, if they want to.

Why do I mention difficult? What is the possibility, on a spiritual level, that their tortuous acts are a belief program that they have to devaluate themselves in their actions to find their true power and essence? Or let other energies possess them to know that Creator is already part of them?

Redirect the Play

By not identifying as staying in the drama or trauma of my past, I was able to redirect the ‘play’, dropping the curtain (the veil, the illusion), and leave the stage multiple times that was created to teach me to complete the lessons, add virtues, and evolve my Soul to the next level. When there are many repressed memories, it takes a while to close down each scene of the play.

When Shakespeare’s character, Jaques, in the play ‘As You Like It’ spoke that, “The world’s a stage and we’re all actors,” there were no truer mystic words that resonated to me about the healing journey. This was a really big shift for me. It helped to rearrange things much faster.

Next month, I’ll discuss stopping the planetary abuse and trauma, peace of mind through forgiveness and what that entails, separation of perpetrators from society, and the non-dualistic spiritual principles. This will finalize the questions from the Part 1 of this blog series about having compassion for traffickers. Stay tuned!

With deep care in humanity’s choices to create a new paradigm,

Judy

More on this topic Compassion, Trafficking and the dynamics of forgiveness in Book 3, Chapter 20 of Moving Beyond Revised

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The Questions …Compassion for Sex Traffickers? Part 1

Thu, 26 Feb 2026 22:43:25 GMT

Quote for Reflection: “The word courage comes from the French word 'coeur', which means heart. True power proceeds not from force, but from love." ~Alan Cohen

The Questions

Questions were asked to an online group of people I was participating with a few years ago. The group was supposed to have a spiritual focus…at least that is why I thought I was being asked to join initially.

These were important questions, ones that all of us could spend some time contemplating. For me, any response to such deep questions would need to come from one’s truth/personal experience and heart. All else would-be opinions or unhealed/unprocessed responses which need discernment. There would need to be a pause to feel into myself, asking within if others’ responses resonated with spiritual principles and virtues that I hold sacred.

The questions were around Compassion:

Could we have compassion towards those who are guilty of sex trafficking?
Are they worthy to be given compassion?
Knowing about what happens in sex trafficking, what would we do with those feelings in order to demonstrate compassion to those who offended?
Should we not even consider compassion?
What is the morally ‘right’ thing?

Considering that only one person had sex trafficking as part of their childhood experience in the group, me (though no one knew this initially), I found it very interesting in the kind of responses that came from this ‘spiritually-minded’ group.

Punishment

The responses were about the other participants’ need for punishment and revenge. It reminded me of the path of spiritual warrior archetype from the 5th Plane of Existence (Plane of Duality).

I had great hopes that what I was about to share with them would be able to be received. Only one or two got it though. The other responses were typical of what I consider the ‘confusion of mainstream humanity’.

What I read from them was an eye-for-an- eye mindset, lack of hope, lack of trust in humanity, lack of possibilities, and no vision of restorative justice. They shared:

“We want this to stop… bring back public hanging.”
“They can’t be rehabilitated.”
“The guilty don’t have compassion so they don’t deserve it either.”
“Hog tie them.”
“Medieval torture.”
“When I get them, they would plead to be hanged.”
“’Forgive them’ and then cause them so much pain and anguish they wish they were dead.”
“Put them down like a dog who bites.”
“Death penalty”

Honestly, I totally understood why they said all of this and where they were coming from. In the distant past, I had similar sentiments and actually experienced these deep agonizing thoughts to my core, of lashing out, revenge and wanting physical annihilation.

Sex Traffickers Exposed

It was shared by most of group through their comments, that they wanted the sex traffickers exposed. I was fine with this, but there’s a lot more that this kind of response involves. Depending on who exposes and who is involved, when the exposure happens, and where it’s done, is there personal cost to one’s life? There are other questions that needed to be asked as well.

When sex traffickers and offenders are heads of state, popular political, religious or public figures, police and governments involved, world-renown doctors and scientists in respected medical facilities, admired teachers, famous Hollywood & TV personalities, or Royalty, how often are those they victimized even believed?

I can easily say that it’s only recently that these exposures have happened where the media reports it to soon after suppress it in the past. There has been either sensationalizing and/or victim-blaming.

What about staying alive if those who were trafficked name their abusers? For many, if they don’t gather with others who are also speaking up and hiring lawyers, it could be difficult territory. I’m sure you’ve heard that some deaths of those who had gone public were determined to have ‘committed suicide’ after, with little investigation by police or lack of reporting by the major press outlets. Gratefully, we are seeing a big change happening now.

Survivors Speakers’ Bureau

I was on a Survivors Speakers’ Bureau in the early 90’s. I was asked to share about the abuse I had remembered at that time on a well-known national TV talk show, Sally Jessie Raphael show. I had only started my deeper journey in ’87. In what I know now, in completing all my memory and belief work, and emotional processing, I was really acting bravely…and completely naïve…to think I could go public in anyway then!

The producer of the show, rather than having the hostess interview me, wanted to bring one of the perpetrators, a relative, onto the show with me. The relative was very wealthy, prominent and ‘admired’ by my childhood community. He was connected to the politicians and police in Maryland where I lived.

I know! I know! It could be a toss back to some scene of being thrown into the lions’ den in Rome. I had enough sense, even being very dissociated at the time, to say NO.

I really did wonder why the producer would even ask me to volunteer for such a situation knowing I was abused. I believe that they attempted to use a person’s lack of self-esteem and their deepest vulnerabilities to manipulate them. It was the same pattern of being objectified and used for others’ purpose in being trafficked.

Besides, how many of those on the show were traffickers and pedophiles as well?! The entertainment industry has been riddled with them since the beginning the 1900’s. I didn’t know this at the time I was asked to be on the show.

Unless the person has worked the inner healing process for quite a while, including building their inner strength, resiliency, trust within, accepting fully their truth, and feeling deep conviction about it, then more disempowerment, shame and humiliation, even being killed can occur when it’s premature. I didn’t recognize this at the time, but my gut reaction and spiritual protection served me well.

It would never have been a benefit for me to be sensationalized or set up as a sacrificial lamb. Sharing the truth doesn’t mean to put one’s life in danger, and that would have happened.

True Power

I wonder how many of you might consider that ‘the role of a sex trafficker’ isn’t a position of true power. What if their ‘power’ is really hierarchal structures of overpower and control, not true power at all?

The traffickers’ power structure is perceived by them, by those they victimize and by many in the world as greater than everyone else and even more than All-That-IS. It’s the Dark vs Light game. It is embedded in a false premise that keeps the traffickers and everyone that buys into their hierarchal power structure, spiritually, emotionally, mentally, and oftentimes physically oppressed (and obviously in danger if being victimized).

Also consider, “What is the difference between the traffickers’ power structure and those who rule the world’s countries?” At this point, there is no difference in the ways I was trafficked and what is being revealed in those involved. It’s vast and huge.

I also am able to discern between rulers and leaders. It’s rare to see a world ‘leader’ who isn’t part of a hierarchal power structure and hasn’t joined, bought into it or got compromised to participate. There are exceptions who have been part of this huge psyop that has been on the world stage for some years, yet we are in great need of more true leadership on this planet.

Hierarchal power ends up in the belief systems as, “The perpetrators are greater than All-That-IS.” Or “The perpetrators’ power is greater than my own power.” Thus, True Power would then need to be defined and differentiated.

Does the Traffickers have True Power as a virtue?

I often felt that the traffickers couldn’t find or had forgotten their own God Sparks and the true alignment of their Real Power. It seemed they wanted to own the reflection of this by using the innocence, blood and Light of children, which seemed the purest to them. The blood got them high on a physical and psychological level leaving them open for entity and demonic attachments. Adrenochrome does this. So does cannabolism.

They also thought they could possess this Pure Power and Light through negating or bypassing their virtues, thinking they needed more of the child’s Light and energy, or exist with less of it twisting all structures of human morality into a dualistic rationalization while feeling separated from Unconditional Love/All-That-IS.

This is how the ‘lower/heavier’ Plane of Duality (5th Plane) vibrates. If this kind of pattern is repeated over and over, it becomes a program that is driven deep into the unconscious to project onto the world. We do not want it to play out any further. This is where the rest of humanity has a part to clear their shadows and do their healing.

These traffickers who play this hierarchal game will need to deal with their polarizing, false perspectives when they die…or perhaps they will wake up before. It’s between them and All-that-IS. That’s another part of Divine Justice in my experience.

Inner World

Supported by a therapist and hypnotherapist early on in my journey, I was taught to feel and express these feelings of revenge in my inner world, in my sacred space. I pounded pillows with a bat, screamed until the sun rose, cussed profanities at the perpetrators, cried through boxes of tissue, hit a punching bag with my fists, took my hands into a lock hold as if strangling their necks, stomped my feet on the floor squashing their imagined faces, stabbed them all over like a zombie doll in the etherics, visualized them buried alive or burning to death, and sent them on buses to re-education camps. The mind can be creative!

Doing it this way for years helped me to get through the integration of my different personalities and their feelings. I also journaled all their memories and feelings. I gave full allowance to my inner world to have their day and way (within) in remembering what was done to them. Through a great deal of my early healing, having revenge on the inner helped me to stop projecting my feelings onto others when triggered.

I realized later, though, that I was feeling motivated to also use this revenge–violence on others within–to feel my own power and strength. In a sense, I wasn’t being any different than those who abused me though I was keeping it all well-contained.

Understanding violence

From a deeper perspective, violence is most likely what occurred to those who continue to abuse and traffic. They probably had the same things happening to them as children or adults whether they remembered it or not. They acted it out in real time and with real humans (and animals) through their ways of dissociating and internalizing those unprocessed emotional freezes.

They learned to objectify others. They lost the feeling of their humanity through experiencing being forced to shut down their feelings in being traumatized. They might have become possessed due to their trauma and choices. Perhaps they were put in compromising positions where they had little choice but to follow orders, demands, or die, just like I was.

Some of this goes on for generations in families, cultures and religions. And the cycles continued of abuse, greed, objectifying and dehumanizing. Yet, feeding them hatred and contempt only adds to their energy. It makes them stronger! Imagine my personal energy and power leaching into them. The hatred, contempt and revenge I attach resonates with their energetics; thus it feeds them, powers them to continue their misaligned and evil ways.

Part 2 of “The Questions…” will further this topic in answering the group’s questions by innerstanding about compassion towards those who trafficked and abused me, about my projections towards Unconditional Love, the perpetrating roles from Past lives, and the overview from Near Death Experiences (NDE’s). Digesting this three-part series in smaller portions felt more palatable. So many feelings can arise for others with loaded topics as this, especially at this time in the world. Sometimes, it’s important to acknowledge and work with issues more slowly.

With compassion and care in all we experience,

Judy

More on this topic Compassion, Trafficking and the dynamics of forgiveness in Book 3 of Moving Beyond Revised

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Resourcing Trauma Healing through the Inner Child Connection

Wed, 28 Jan 2026 22:39:28 GMT

Quote for Reflection: “The wounded Inner child can appear stuck or frozen in a past scene or even as if the aspect is experiencing the situation in the ‘now or present moment’…. It takes being willing to meet the Inner child and developing trust in the relationship.” ~Judy Dragon, Moving Beyond Revised, Book 2

Trauma healing

I appreciate listening to those who have been involved professionally with trauma healing with their diverse perspectives, genuine compassion, and skillful and caring experiences---therapists, psychologists and other experienced healing practitioners. There is such an openness and invitation to join the dialogue, even in disagreement.

A few years ago, I was watching a video of a therapist speaking about how to help clients work with resistance, particularly around supporting grief to be expressed. It was explained that grief kept people stuck in a depressed place due to trauma.

The therapist spoke of a client who described feeling stuck in a place that was ‘fiery hot’ within, where a part of her lived. She wanted to lead her client on a journey to that place where she was ‘residing’. To me, this would signal extreme trauma. The terms ‘fiery hot’ spoke for themselves.

The therapist suggested an opportunity' of freedom by having the client visualize climbing up “a hot ladder out of that burning hell”. She would be at the top of that ladder with her hand waiting as the client ascended. Though the therapist wasn’t in the ‘hot hole’ with her, she was ready and available to help her near the top as the client allowed this climb, out of grief, to occur.

Do you hear something off with this therapeutic suggestion?

Coax ‘out’ of Trauma

From my awareness, in feeling into how the therapist used a ‘metaphor’ to attempt to coax her client ‘out’ of trauma in order to release the grief, she might not have realized that the client was experiencing an emotional freeze state from the past. The therapist used the metaphor of ‘burning’ instead. She also had positioned herself 'above' the client, waiting for the client to reach her at the top as the resource.

Somehow, this particular metaphor use, and the way the therapist positioned herself in the story, lacked awareness of inner bonding and inner resourcing. I feel that a therapist (or a trauma-educated practitioner) in any position that could be experienced as an ‘authority figure’, ‘expert’ and ‘above’ the client, can mistakenly lead to a reinforcement of an unequal power position. This would enable an outer reliance on resources that really need to be built within.

Co-equal Grounds
In-other-words, this felt like a hierarchal structure of healing. This is not a 7th Plane awareness of how Love flows within. This is different than what is possible if the therapist was on co-equal grounds in helping to access the inner needs of the client. It creates more dependency or possibly co-dependency towards the therapist rather than through the development and structure of a 'love' bonding connection within through the 7 ^th Plane.

The inner resource connection is often that wounded Inner Child, that younger aspect who got frozen in the past. The client was unable to feel or allow for her Inner child’s grief and feelings. Accessing this part of the journey is how the inner world can better be navigated.

Safety, trust, and inner connection between the Inner child, an available adult aspect all through connection with the 7 ^th Plane/Creator/Unconditional Love becomes the foundation for resilient growth, deep transformational release, and Source-aligned intuition. This would have helped resource within and help build virtues without thinking that the client needed to find this through a dependent relationship outside herself in climbing out of ‘hell’.

I’m not saying that we don’t need outer connections as support in our lives, but in the healing of trauma from abuse, that comes when the inner connection is established within too. To me, when psychology is devoid of the spiritual awareness, it doesn’t address what has affected the sub/unconscious in more balanced or non-hierarchal ways.

In working with those who have severe and complex trauma, and being one who had experienced this as well, I deeply wondered why the therapist was attempting to address just the grief when fear, shame, terror, or horror could really have been the blockers in holding the depression in place depending on what happened. I wondered how any child would experience needing to grieve as the primary emotion in the midst of being physically harmed initially. Grief is often dissociated. The context of healing just seemed out of place in what was presented in the video.

And using such an example of hell and hot ladders without knowing the depth of issues in the unconscious, could have been a huge graphic trigger for those who have complex, serial trauma. What if that fiery hot place was a reflection or remembrance of a ritual sacrifice? I’ve heard these kinds of stories show up in sessions for years.

What would have been the possibility of having available inner resources established prior, within the client? Creator’s energy and the adult within could invite that inner child from the past into the present moment where safety is available. With guided and facilitated inner belief work and reframing, safety can arrive when the present moment becomes the focal point of remembering, rather than reliving it from the past.

Understanding the Resistance

There is always a reason that resistance is held in place in the healing of childhood trauma. Most often it’s issues of safety and timing to explore more. Yet, everything serves us somehow so discovering what that is through the Inner child is essential. Then the service can be released (changed) in what it has done for the Inner child or adult.

Additionally, giving Creator’s teachings (concepts not known) to bring safety in reorienting to the present moment, rather than positioning in an unequal way, can lead to more heartfelt inner connections and an opportunity to allow space for when the feelings are ready to arise.

We all deserve to learn how to resource from within. The Inner child work helps develop this skill in order to work with the emotions and the resistance.

With care and healing,

Judy

More on working with the Inner child and the Unity Inner Child Process is in Book 2 and 3 of the “Moving Beyond Revised: Healing the Trauma from Childhood Abuse through the ThetaHealing ^® Technique”.
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Nice Is Not a Virtue

Mon, 29 Dec 2025 22:02:49 GMT

Quote for Reflection: Nice is sweet and accommodating and agreeable. Nice is polite. But nice does not describe what we believe in. It does not indicate where our boundaries are. ~Sarah Powers

Nice is defined

Nice is a description of a situation, person or object that is a catch-all-word. Nice is defined as being agreeable, pleasant, satisfaction, and pleasing.

It originated between 1250–1300 ADE. In Middle English, it meant foolish or stupid. In Old French it meant silly or simple, and it was defined in Latin as ignorant or incapable. ‘Nice’ has certainly gone through an evolution of understanding… or has it really?

You may hear or say these examples:

She has such a nice body.
I only want to be friends with nice people.
You might want to date this nice man I work with.
That’s a nice home that you have.
Let’s see how nice you can be with your little sister.
What a nice gesture for the CEO to do for the employees.
That was not a nice remark.
She’s nice when it suits her needs.
We were taught to be nice to people of other ethnic races.
He used to be nice, but now he’s wealthy.

Nowhere does ‘nice’ indicate that there is any depth in using this word. It’s a surface adjective, verb, or noun. It is highly misunderstood in how to respond to another or what it really means in the brevity it can often be communicated.

One of the reasons that I’m writing about this word is I so often hear my clients or acquaintances tell me about ‘nice’ connections or situations on a weekly basis. And my ears perk up. I want to know more. People or situations who are ‘nice’ can have a great deal more characteristics as part of the way others respond to them or they want to be responded to.

Nice is not a virtue

Nice is not a virtue. ‘Nice’ can more often lack the attributes or virtues of being genuine, real, authentic, safe, trustworthy, kind, creative, caring, unique, honest, or having integrity, yet people seem to assume that it would include these qualities. Nice may not be a safe word to be described as having or being, like in example #1.

Nice’ is not the word ‘kind’. Feel into the word ‘kind’ which is a virtue, and feel into ‘nice. Many of the statements I listed could have had ‘kind’, ‘caring’ or ‘fun’ in replacing ‘nice’ if they were true for the person. This explains why it’s important to really feel into what we define or identify, so our communication is clearer, more descriptive of the truth of what we’re saying.

To me, ‘kind’ has a power that feels trusting, grounded, and present. ‘Nice’ feels shallow with little substance, like smoke that goes ‘poof’. It can change with a breath. I mean, narcissists can act ‘nice’ at first. So can psychopaths. I doubt that you’d hear they were ever kind or trustworthy.

Emotional expectations

As I listen into and under people’s stories during work or out in the world, what I really hear is a lack of awareness of what is truly being set up in the connection with the other. There is a great deal of what isn’t being said and a naiveté of what the connection is really about with it ‘being nice’. Emotional expectations can occur but rarely expressed until something happens.

These can be about thinking that whom or whatever is ‘nice’ will stay that way, as in being agreeable, pleasant, satisfying or pleasing, and thus living out the days this way. This can often set things up as co-dependent situations or interactions. When others have emotional expectations of the ‘nice’ person, situation or object, resentment can appear when the ‘nice’ doesn’t show up that way. (Example # 5)

Attempting to be a people-pleaser

This would be true if ‘nice’ were attempting to be a people-pleaser. The ‘nice’ acts in ways that appear agreeable or satisfying to others, but their inner motivation or experience might not match. There is really an adjusting outside themselves to what they think others’ expect them to be, or attempting to get others not to see what is really going on for them. They want people to see a surface persona. This can be both deceptive and an unclarity of intent.

Consider that if the action of ‘nice’ changes from whatever ‘nice’ is being defined as or expected, then the identity of the person could likely change with it to unfavorable (like in examples #7 and #9) And that identity piece is used in judgment against the ‘nice’ situation or person. (#2 and #8)

True story at a social event

I took a seat where there were seven other people around a circular table talking. It was at a social event where I was sitting next to a person who is considered ‘nice’ (and kind) by many. There was a conversation that ensued that didn’t involve us. Another had attempted to instigate a political view that was blatantly intolerant. He had actually said that no one had better disagree with him, or they should just leave the table.

He then starred at the ‘nice’ person, though she had made no comment or facial expression to provoke his glare. It was an intimidation tactic.

Responding in a surprised and slightly nervous tone, she said that she had ‘no opinion and knew nothing about the situation’. Considering the nature of topic and the projecting person’s comment, it would be difficult not to have any knowledge or feelings about what was said.

Her response was ‘nice’, safe, and non-engaging, but I didn’t feel the realness of it in lieu of the presenting situation.

His intense glare continued around the table at others as if to dare those who might disagree with him. In that moment, no one said a thing and remained seated.

I watched, and then stood up, looked at the ‘nice’ person, and said, “This energy doesn’t work for me,” and left the area. I had no qualms about taking action that felt aligned for who I am. I didn’t feel intimidated by him at all. I knew his misaligned energy was being used to bully others into submission.

With that, I had a choice to either engage further or disengage. I took the opportunity to physically disengage since that was really my response in disagreeing. I walked into another room and though I saw him later, I stayed away. Being around him was not how I wanted to be present at this event.

Difficult to be genuine

To stay ‘nice’, can sometimes mean that one’s boundaries, needs, and true feelings go out the window. This can come from a fear of exposing what is really going on, or how the situation needs to be approached or dealt with authentically. Thus, ‘nice’ would find it difficult to be genuine. Keeping the label of ‘nice’ holds a favorable status before others as well as a way to be classified as accommodating.

I realize that this may be an uncommon angle to clarify a widely used word. The way we use our language, though, is very important. It can create safety, sovereignty, and power. It is a vibration. Whether in being a healer, a media presenter, or a friend, being mindful of this helps all of us in listening more carefully and with depth under what is being presented and to use discernment. It supports us to ask the questions to hear the real truth, authenticity, or integrity in our associations and in our environments.

In support of using genuine virtues in communication,

Judy

For more on emotional denial patterns and the word, ‘nice’, check out Book 3, Chapter 18 of Moving Beyond Revised. https://www.themovingbeyondtraumaproject.org/store/The-Moving-Beyond-Revised-Book-3-p705810112

Trauma Responses in Communication

Fri, 28 Nov 2025 19:12:01 GMT

Quote for Reflection: Trauma compromises our ability to engage with others by replacing patterns of connection with patterns of protection. ~ Stephen Porges

I’m offering everyone who reads this an opportunity to really engage within, connect your minds and hearts together to help create a paradigm shift for yourselves and others. This is in stopping verbal abuse which also includes emotional and psychological trauma. This is about getting real and about self-responsibility.

Trauma responses
With so much going on around how people communicate with each other, from the throngs of cancel culture to politically correctness, it’s important to notice that the majority of these styles are actually trauma responses. We are looking at patterns of control, negation, deceit, deception, minimizing, bullying, and polarization. These can all occur due to trauma from childhood abuse.

Someone disagrees
Ask yourself sincerely, “If someone disagrees with me on a topic I feel impassioned about, what do I really want to get through to them or have them hear in the communication?’

Do I want them:

To agree with me?
To just be heard by the other?
To be heard and agreed with
To be able to have a civil discourse to exchange ideas?
To have a great debate like how college or high school kids do by engaging with certain rules and facts?

Really acknowledge your response/s to yourself.

Why do this?

Because there is so much projectile dialogues going on with others through social media and in-person due to what is occurring through the world stage. Many have forgotten to engage with emotional intelligence, and with care and/or kindness towards others or themselves. They get lost in a cause or the emotions, and forget there are humans with feelings at the other end of the conversation.

Questions
Please consider the following questions as well. They help awaken your motives or intentions, so they can be more easily brought to consciousness and worked through. You only have yourself to be honest with. Take your time. Jot down your responses. We are all learning and growing exponentially at this time.

How were you taught to discuss a situation that was not in agreement with your principles, understanding, or awareness as a child?
Do you ever use verbal fighting with another directly to resolve issues or to shut down the conversation?
Do you verbally ‘attack’ another on their character or name call rather than stay with the topic at hand?
Do you pigeon-hole another when you disagree? (boxing-in like “You always do this?”)
Do you pull up old unprocessed resentments, grudges and anger with the other to help you feel empowered in the conversation?
Do you raise your voice/shout at another in order to create a safety net, boundary, or to be heard?
Do you ever use passive aggression to verbally fight?
Do you change discourse or skip around to something unrelated in a difficult conversation to create confusion or divert from the topic at hand? Why? What does this do for you?
Do you feel that you ever want the other to ‘collapse’ or back off so they feel defenseless and will admit they were wrong?
Do you feel getting even can create a resolution or agreement?
Do you shut yourself down and avoid telling the other what you’re feeling about the disagreement to keep the peace?
What do you get out of using these styles in disagreeing?
Does it depend on the person which style you use (if you use them)?
Will the strategy to make someone wrong, help you to feel you’re right?
How will this help you in feeling right? Will you feel redeemed, worthy, more power, or have more value? When did you feel this way in childhood?
Will another’s admission of being wrong, satisfy what is really going on in what you are wanting or needing? (This could be beneficial or detrimental depending on the motivation or undercurrent…i.e. to have power over another would be a detrimental motivation)
If you disengage from a verbal disagreement, do you feel like a loser or defeated?
Do you know the difference between showing another their mistake or error through your own experience rather than making them wrong or bad?

Coping strategies
Just to say that most of the questions come from coping strategies. Many are ways we might be engaging in revengeful or disconnective communication.

In knowing these trauma patterns, I’ve also used all of them myself. It’s been a journey to assess, reassess, and forgive myself. None of us are perfect, but when we have the courage to change, practice, and make these vulnerabilities public, it helps everyone learn, evaluate the motives, and open up space for change in a more authentic way.

These verbal coping patterns also come from the parenting and educational styles that created the trauma. In knowing that our words have frequency and power, how we use our words when we disagree can:

Support another to see a new possibility
Open up more emotional intimacy, trust, safety and deeper connection
Realize that the person is where they are at and allow that to be ok for them while we agree to disagree
Allow us to see we need a new road away from the relationship, a disconnection, perhaps temporary or permanent
Vent our feelings in using old coping mechanisms like lack of emotional regulation (which says more about us rather than any message that we want to get through)

Take a pause
Is it possible to instead take a pause, slow down, breathe, and think about what would help you hear another better in the moment? Can you take responsibility for recognizing what is going on for you, your experience, in response to the other’s actions? Can you solicit for help or support to change the dialogue?

A different way to verbalize as an example: “When you raise your voice, it’s hard to stay present for you, because I feel disrespected. Is there another way you can tell me that information so I can really hear what you want to get across or what you need?”

Being responsible for our own triggers or experience keeps us in our core, our body, and helps us to be clear of our goals and motivations in a conversation or any relationship.

Our differences inform us of who we are. We can learn to respond to those differences creatively and respectfully in wanting to see the world evolve very differently. Each one of us is responsible for our part. Each time we practice our verbal skills, they count and matter. It also sends out a different verbal and thought frequency rather than a trauma response, not only to the other, but to the world.

With deep care for all of us!
Judy

You can read more about how to work on trauma responses and where verbal abuse develops from in Chapters 2 and 5 of Book 1, in “Moving Beyond Revised: Healing the Trauma From Childhood Abuse Through The ThetaHealing ^® Technique.” https://www.themovingbeyondtraumaproject.org/store

Recognizing Contrasts in Healing Trauma from Abuse - Part 3

Mon, 27 Oct 2025 23:03:10 GMT

Quote for Reflection: " Past life memories are the autobiography of your soul ." ~Julie Jelinek

Title: Recognizing Contrasts in Healing Trauma from Abuse - Part 3

A Past Life in Contrast

A Past Life and Now time memory in contrast
Past lives are just a ‘moment’ in time that can be simultaneous in experience to our present circumstances. In the understanding of that, I want to share a ‘past life’ story that demonstrates this ‘innerstanding’ of contrasts and levels of awareness from a non-dualistic perspective. This experience isn’t particularly easy to discuss, because it’s a touchy subject for many. Yet, I found it powerful to experience the choices I had, the decision I made that felt most aligned to my past action and virtues in that moment.

It has so many similarities connected to what is happening now in the world. What is also interesting is that I was ‘born’ into a ‘Jewish’ family in the next ‘moment’ present life experience in my soul journey. This contrasted the past ‘moment’ story where another moment of choice changed my soul journey.

My name was Aaron Schmidt, and I was an SS officer in Himmler’s gestapo. I was twenty-six years old. I joined with others to protect our motherland against the Jews and against their banking industry. That’s what I thought as that was what I was told by ‘authorities’—the politicians and the media– that the Jews had taken over our money, caused the bankruptcy of our country, the depression, and would take us over if we didn’t stop them. I had no idea, at that historical time, about the Rothschilds and the central banking industry influence on Germany.

Part of the information was that Jews were full of disease, because they were perverse with perverse ideas. While exploring this memory in the present time, I didn’t know that in the 1920’s, Berlin was actually a city with similar energy to the biblical ‘Sodom and Gomorrah’--full of debauchery, perverseness, promiscuity, transgenderism, partner swapping, fetishes, sex trafficking, and more.

I heard that through our ‘great leader’, Hitler, we would be brought back to dignity, health, and prosperity. In order to do this, we would have to be separate from the Jews and others whose personalities defaced the restoration of our true strength, pride, and unity.

As I started to see what was really going on in the arrests that were being made, and the way that the Gestapo and German politics were operating–-the false stories from the press and movie reels, the segregation mandates, the labeled clothes, and the violence that was occurring–I knew things were amiss.

I had heard rumors of a final solution coming from the camps not knowing fully what that was or if it was true or not. I would discuss all this was another German soldier buddy over Schnapps at the local pub. We both agreed that things needed to be looked into more deeply. [Interestingly, I know this man personally in this lifetime. He was born to a German mother and a father who had been a US soldier during WW2. ]

I had been assigned to work in Himmler’s unit by invading Jewish homes to round up everyone and to send them on the trains to ‘labor’ camps. I started to hate what I was doing as my fellow officers and myself would burst into homes dragging out families and searching homes where Jews might be hidden. I saw the innocent faces of humans, particularly children, in terror and fear. After, we would take their belongings to give to our department or take for our own. It was hurting my heart and soul.

I made a decision to do something about it. I started to warn the families ahead of time who were listed for arrests. When the officers and myself went to arrest them, they would be gone.

This started to happen so frequently that the whole department felt that there was a snitch or undercover person involved. I acted along with them in wondering what was happening.

But my cover didn’t last too long. One afternoon, I was at the railway station in Munich. My department had several men there, as well as the head officer.

From a distance, I saw along with the other officers, a 13-year-old Jewish boy frantically running away from the trains. He was caught by my head officer who started to beat him savagely.

I couldn’t contain myself any longer. I screamed, “Don’t hurt him! He is only a boy!”

The head officer stopped the beating and turned to me. “Ahh, so Schmidt, you like Jews?! Well, I have a job for you. Under my orders, take your gun and shoot him now.”

I was in shock but spoke to the officer in defiance of his orders. “No, I won’t do that! He has done nothing wrong. He is young. He didn’t cause what is going on in our country!”

In a voice of cold superiority, the head officer commanded, “Then you have a choice. You kill him now, or I’ll kill you.”

I looked straight at him, eye to eye, and repeated, “No, I won’t do it.”

Quickly, the officer took out his gun and shot me point blank right into my forehead. I died on the spot at the station in 1940.

Pause. Receive a breath. All is perfect. I processed this experience many years ago. The story, though, is as pertinent then as it is now.

Actions aligned with my heart
I don’t know what happened to the boy in having left my body. I didn’t ask while in trance. I just knew my actions were aligned with my heart. I realized that I had a choice in that instant moment of time to stand in my truth of what was about to happen. I had no idea if the boy would be protected or not from my spontaneous decision. I just knew that this is what I needed to say and do.

Ultimately, choosing my heart rather than harming another could be seen as actions from contrast—choosing right instead of wrong, light instead of dark, action instead of collapse. The opposites come from the 5th Plane perspectives of dualism.

It was truly about staying in connection with myself and what felt in alignment to the energy of my values and virtues at the time. It was moving past the deep programming of violence towards others who were seen as different, thus scapegoated. Also, it was separating from others’ unlawful orders in becoming one with my heart’s actions.

Precipice of choice
We are at that precipice of choice at this time for humanity. Use the contrast to see and feel what is possible in moving beyond the deceptions and false appearances to understand what is really going on for you, in the world, and back to your heart.

Feel deeply, because action from this place is necessary. That action can just be out in the world in service and purpose, or that you stay open to the truth of what is occurring now while anchoring in conscious connection to Creator through meditation. I’m an inner activist so action through writing and speaking is what works best for me.

I trust you’ll make the best decision for yourself as the changing of the guards unfolds.

You can read more about how to work on the Past life level in memory retrieval and belief clearing in Book 3, Chapter 21 of “Moving Beyond Revised: Healing the Trauma From Childhood Abuse Through The ThetaHealing ^® Technique.”

https://www.themovingbeyondtraumaproject.org/store/The-Moving-Beyond-Revised-Book-3-p705810112

Recognizing Contrast In Healing Abuse - Part 2

Fri, 26 Sep 2025 17:10:05 GMT

Quote for Reflection: "There are great shadows on Earth, but its lights are stronger in contrast." ~Charles Dickens

Title: Recognizing Contrasts in Healing Trauma from Abuse - Part 2

Does God exist in evil?

Viewing God and Abusers through Contrasts and Choices
Believe it or not, many want a punishing God to exist to punish abuser/s. Yet, this keeps the beliefs in oppositional energy such as, “God is a punishing God. God wants revenge. God is to be feared. God wants the abuser dead.”

Then there are the beliefs that “God wants us to fight to protect others.” OR “We need to help God win.” Win what? Does God fight? Perhaps the God of the 5th Plane does. God of All, just IS.

These are all beliefs, not truths. You can see the contrasts between God of All and God of the 5th Plane. It’s not how Unconditional Love IS. It’s what the ego wants to happen through a powerful authority energy.

God exists in everything…except evil?
For many with a 4th or 5th Plane spiritual understanding, or even through the wounded Inner Child parts, there is a dualistic awareness of Creator/God as Unconditional Love, which is difficult for many. It is often interpreted that ‘God exists in everything…except evil’.

The rationalized understanding becomes, “If God exists in evil, then it supports evil and allows the abuse to occur in me.” The person or child part then doesn’t want to be connected to God even though there is never a disconnection. It’s all an illusion due to the trauma from abuse and its beliefs. This is the dualist understanding that leads to more victimization.

I remember a client becoming very angry at me because I shared that there was a God Spark in everything, even in evil. That was blasphemous to her. Even though she was very spiritual, those separation issues were pronounced and essential in order to feel protected. Otherwise, how could God be an advocate and winner in her life in light?

With how my comment was interpreted, God would have been a part of the actions of evil. The personified qualities bring contrast.

From where I’ve operated for years, with God/Creator being omnipresent and omnificent, where does ‘IT’ not be, or not exist? Does this Unconditional Love create boundaries in its expression, or do we do this with our beliefs?

In the beliefs of those of extreme or religious trauma, God/Creator is feared. Many times, God is considered evil, as it’s identified through someone who acted in traumatizing and authoritarian ways to a child. Gratefully, through ThetaHealing’s non dualistic philosophy, this isn’t true for many who have experienced the 7 ^th Plane/Unconditional Love as encompassing everything.

When energy vibrates with heaviness and dissonance from people, it often is experienced as evil. These people do horrific things to others without remorse or responsibility for their actions. They have made some extremely poor choices in how to operate on this Third Plane of Existence, probably due to possession, their own unresolved trauma or both.

Decisions to harm others
When people make decisions to harm others with intentional malice, there are karmic repercussions. It’s not about God needing to punish the person, which again would be a 5th Plane belief. Their soul is being given choices in what it will take to develop virtues and evolve to act more wisely and discerning. That is the use of the 6th Plane Law of Free Agency.

If a person chooses not to take the most aligned, loving, or caring choice in how to relate to others, including the same towards themselves, they are still responsible for those decisions with the action that follows. This Unconditional Love gives us free will to make our choices in each moment.

Also, in souls having such choices about their behavior and actions, if people end up being arrested and put to death for their horrendous crimes, this can also be a soul agreement to end their physical life by the choices they have made. This would be karmic.

I’m personally against the death penalty, but when Creator showed this to me as a soul’s choice to exit this way, particularly when there had been opportunities and choices to do things differently in order to re-align themselves, I had a whole new perspective of these situations. What a contrast!

Part 3 will continue this theme on contrasts from the perspective of a Past life to demonstrate contrasts in choices.

You can also read more about the beliefs and patterns around God that are present in healing trauma from childhood abuse in Book 2, Chapter 9 of “Moving Beyond Revised: Healing the Trauma from Childhood Abuse Through the ThetaHealing ^® Technique. https://www.themovingbeyondtraumaproject.org/store/Moving-Beyond-Revised-Book-2-p705819568

Recognizing Contrast In Healing Abuse - Part 1

Mon, 25 Aug 2025 06:35:34 GMT

Quote for Reflection: “Contrast is the spiritual spice of life.” ~Anthon St. Maarten

Title: Recognizing Contrasts in Healing Trauma from Abuse - Part 1

Profound question
What is often asked of me by many clients who have abuse issues, particularly if they are extreme, is a very profound question: “Why would I choose this level of abuse to go through in this lifetime?”

I’ve explored this myself over the years. I can easily say that it wasn’t Karmic retribution. Since Karma is a law from the 6th Plane of Existence, it doesn’t operate from an eye-for-eye energy, which would be inclusive of beliefs from the 5th Plane (astral dualistic level). Just because you might have played the perpetrator role in one moment, this wouldn’t make you need to play the victim role in the next to redeem yourself or create balance.

So this is what I came up with in connection to Creator.

Dark elements

For many, it’s to know to one’s very core how the Dark elements have operated on this planet for over 15,000 plus years. This brings the stories, beliefs and patterns to the surface in order to change the harmful effects through Source/Unconditional Love. Usually, this will bring those people who experience these depths of trauma, to deeply know themselves more, to build virtues, and to bring their healing message or actions to the world in helping others to do the same.

There is nothing like experience to live in one’s truth. People can attempt to deny the reality of those who have experienced or witnessed the energy of the Dark actions, but they can’t prove anything, because they didn’t live it. Their opinions or denial have nothing to do with one’s experience felt somatically and emotionally.

The Dark and Light contrast
An angle of ‘innerstanding’ contrast between the dark and light, is the yin-yang awareness in order to see how this Third Plane of Existence operates in all its drama and subtleties. Contrast shows or compares differences. It is also able to appraise a situation in respect to differences. It’s important to note that there is both an oppositional nature to contrast and having a healthy respect for differences that occur. This awareness can be done without judgment, nor making anyone or anything wrong or bad including ourselves.

When we ‘innerstand’ that we play roles on this Planetary stage to learn, grow and change, we can hold the overview in contrast to the earthly experience. This allows us to widen our perceptions of how energy operates from Creator’s perspective.

Hold a 7th Plane awareness
It’s often so difficult to hold a 7th Plane awareness in healing trauma particularly extreme abuse. Being unable to stay at that light frequency when we practice the ThetaHealing meditation, could lead many who are traumatized, to minimize or distort the occurrences. Part of this awareness is that many don’t want to identify as even being victimized, yet it can often have us feeling disconnected from the pure Truth of the 7th Plane. Truth at the 7 ^th Plane just Is. It’s pure.

Acknowledging victim or perpetrator
To recognize that we were victimized, yet also have shadow aspects that feel like a victim, can create disbelief and more fear. If we were also forced to perpetrate due to the level of abuse that occurred unknowingly, the shame can stop the Truth from being shown. It’s not easy to think that harmful actions can be forgivable. Who wants to feel like a victim or perpetrator, and ‘play’ those roles? Most healers sure don’t.

Yet, it’s necessary to acknowledge and identify these opposing aspects to be able to heal them. This allows for recognition of the contrasts between the parts of us, and helps us to be responsible for our actions at any given moment.

Choose to suffer
It’s also difficult to ‘innerstand’ how we would ‘choose’ to suffer through such deep levels of abuse. This, in itself, can feel both ‘accepting’ and unreal because that is all that was known as a child. Again, this another level of contrast.

Return to oneself
There is a journey of acknowledgement and connection to the Inner Child as a soul fragment, which can separate even more creating increased amounts of soul fragments due to trauma from abuse. The journey is to return to oneself, one’s core. This ‘one to many’ and ‘the many back to one’ is an ‘innerstanding’ of contrast.

Learning to operate and experience from our core in moving through once being fragmented, is an amazing awareness of self-love and growth. This shows contrast, virtues, and how our soul progresses.

Creator doesn’t judge the contrasts or differences as all of Creation is an aspect of IT. This is the frequency of Love within. Oftentimes, it’s buried under layers and layers of beliefs, but it’s there.

Part 2 on this awareness of contrast, will discuss this topic further about “Viewing God and Perpetrators through Contrasts”.

You can also read more about the spiritual journey of healing from trauma from childhood abuse in Book 1, Chapter 1 of “Moving Beyond Revised: Healing the Trauma from Childhood Abuse Through the ThetaHealing ^® Technique”. https://www.themovingbeyondtraumaproject.org/store/Moving-Beyond-Revised-Book-1-p688385298

Action Without the Warrior/Fight Mode

Sun, 15 Jun 2025 17:49:43 GMT

Quote for Reflection : “Peace cannot be achieved through violence; it can only be attained through understanding.” ~ Ralph Waldo Emerson

Spiritual war
This Realm is where everything is really an illusion in consciousness, that manifests form, projected by thought and e-motions. We have been in a spiritual consciousness war for a while as well as a military psyop. Many are waking up to this in more visceral ways than ever before.

Things are definitely not how they appear, from threats of WW3 (which will not be happening on my timeline) and non-human alien crafts in the sky to protests linked to elite world players who are funding child trafficking and mayhem. The experiences come from both on and off grid, even under the ground and oceans that are playing out on this Third Plane of Existence in very de-structuring ways. It has to be this way to awaken the masses to what the realities have been. They have to be shown. The truth needs to be known.

But do we fight the existing structure on a personal level, or do we have a desire to participate in changing the old form bringing our gifts, abilities and talents going forward, without fighting? They are not the same.

With the military rounding up the drug, medical, and trafficking cartels and the corrupted politicians and criminal ‘leaders’ involved, these soldiers are trained in being part of this take-down of the old paradigm of abusive, hierarchal power. On this 3 ^rd Plane, which operates on dualism, that is what is needed to shift things in using those who fight. This is the clean-up of thousands of years of horrific abuse history being cleared.

Due to this stress in these operations, these men and women are also developing coping mechanisms. Throughout our human evolution, an innate survival mechanism to handle stress is the parts of the brain which evoke and regulate fight, flight or freeze responses. When soldiers repeatedly go into these responses, this trauma coping mechanism, Post Traumatic Stress disordering, occurs. It won’t shut off after a while and becomes debilitating. Though it’s a natural trauma response, it needs to stop and re-regulate.

Spiritual warrior/ess
Fighting this kind of war on the frontline is very different than identifying as a ‘spiritual warrior/ess’. These terms often occur in spiritual circles in knowing the deeper agenda. For me, the terms evoke the picture of Amazonian or Roman costumed, sword swirling, chalice plunging fighters in battle to save God and fight evil. It’s like a 5 ^th Plane (Plane of dualism like good and evil, or astral plane) badge of honor and is embedded with similar belief systems.

I have to fight evil…to be worthy of God’s love.
My pride is being part of God’s army.
I have to protect God from evil.
I have to show my strength by fighting evil.
I am nothing without fighting for God.
I have to prove myself to God by being a warrior (or warrioress).

[And I’m sure there are many more beliefs that go along with these. You can use the short video on our website to learn how to test your beliefs if you don’t know how. https://www.themovingbeyondtraumaproject.org/meditation ]

God of All doesn’t need protection.

Keep in mind that God of All at the 7th Plane, doesn’t need protection or an army. IT’s pure Unconditional Love and exists throughout everything, even in the illusions of this 3 ^rd Plane, even in evil. It is the ultimate protection when visualized and then expanded. Anything that comes into this 7 ^th Plane energy just changes or transforms in a beneficial way. You don’t need to be a warrior/ess to witness this.

What gets in the way of experiencing this protection is our own beliefs on any or all of the four levels—core, genetic, history or soul. When we clear these limiting beliefs, we experience a shift in our reality and support the changes in the world, as we are all interconnected.

Warrior energy
Though the warrior energy can be deep dedication and commitment to the cause, it often creates feelings of fear, righteousness and argumentative communication. The ‘warring’ ways can project through as ‘taking inventory’ of another’s perceived issues or unsolicited advice, blaming or finger pointing, and overriding others who don’t take up the goal or see the outcome the same way.

These modes of aggressive communication styles are part of the lack of skills that often get passed on from generation to generation. In Chapter 2 of ‘Moving Beyond Revised’, I discuss different parenting styles. Some demonstrate disconnective ways to communicate and discipline. It’s important to notice how the style you were raised with affects how you communicate as an adult, and how it has you feeling in relationship to others.

For me, there is a big difference between verbal confrontations, physical fighting versus standing in one’s truth of a situation without fighting. The latter is how I want my experiences to be somatically, emotionally, or physically…emotionally regulated. If disconnection is to occur, it can be without energy that stresses my sympathetic and parasympathetic responses. I deserve to keep my body balanced.

In knowing why I was born to be here to witness and participate in these historical moments, I don’t find this warrior identity healthy in where I see this world evolving. Again, I understand that the war is not over, but it’s ending in me. If I continue that fight mode, wouldn’t it be a similar to the soldiers in hypervigilance?

Again, we don’t need to amp-up the Autonomic Nervous System into stress mode to speak the truth and take action. Even if we decide to protest or speak on podcasts, spreading that Unconditional Love can keep us regulated and help change things. We can still be available to educate and connect with others, share our experiences, and create clear boundaries and limits in what we are willing to tolerate in the world.

As Buckminster Fuller stated “You never change things by fighting the existing reality. To change something, build a new model that makes the existing model obsolete.” I always felt deep truth in this.

In speaking my truth peacefully,
Judy

Information on parenting styles, and function and regulation of Autonomic Nervous system can be found in Book 1 of “Moving Beyond Revised: Healing the Trauma from Childhood Abuse Through the ThetaHealing ^® Technique”. https://www.themovingbeyondtraumaproject.org/store

Label of Expert

Sat, 17 May 2025 17:55:27 GMT

Quote of the month: Writing anything as an expert is really poisonous to the writing process, because you lose the quality of discovery. ~Siddhartha Mukherjee

Questions about the Label of Expert

Why do people end up with the label of expert? How do they attain this? Why do others rely on what is considered ‘experts’? What makes experts more knowledgeable or aware than those who aren’t? Is it an identity position? Is it experience? Is it an educational degree? Does this word change how a person relates to themself or others? What happens to make someone not an expert anymore?

Does this word, ‘expert’, give people a higher status? Is it hierarchal? Does it make someone feel more important, more knowledgeable, a better person, or more skilled? Is being an expert about comparing so we can improve ourselves? Or is there judgment of what we or others have or haven’t attained or become aware of?

I offer these questions to really take a breath and drop into ourselves. All words have an energy or frequency with meaning given to them that allows us to discern, feel, and question the relationship we have or want to have with them. It is good time in the world to use our feelings, our body, our discernment, and our wisdom in connection with Creator, to view things that align with our core and inner awareness.

Feeling into those Questions

In feeling into those questions within, do your responses feel curious, light, heavy, upsetting, fun? Let yourself come up with the feelings. Then feel those sensations in your body. Allow yourself to feel what kind of energy this word, ‘expert’, has in your body. Do you like it, feel neutral or don’t like it?

Again, take a breath and drop into yourself. If these questions around the word ‘expert’ felt light and easy, like it could roll off your shoulder and that you can go on without it feeling connected to your world, I wonder if it was ever defined. I then wonder if the word is accepted without question, or if you feel you’ve never been affected by those called experts.

But if you felt some discomfort, or heavier emotions, or thought about those in the world who are called or labeled this, how do you feel about these people? Do they feel just like you? Or are they someone very different? What values do you think they have?

Attempted to label me an expert

In the past, people have attempted to label me an expert in a field of my greatest interest, experience, and passion, which is trauma healing from childhood abuse. This is because I’ve written books on the topic and have had many experiences. I didn’t like the label or word at all. I still don’t.

I could feel that there were expectations attached to their meaning with those who felt a need to call me this. I could feel that the energy included a hierarchal position of status--being above (or below) the other. I’m not one who lives in boxes of other’s definitions of who I am or what I do. My calling has nothing to do with being an ‘expert’, not even of my own life…since it is what flows from me as part of my divinity. I’m not sure how that will show up, but I give the time, effort, or dedication that I feel called to do.

Definition of Expert

I looked up the definition to allow my thought process some intellectual time with the word. "Experts are called in for advice on their respective subject, but they do not always agree on the particulars of a field of study. An expert can be believed, by virtue of credential, training, education, profession, publication or experience, to have special knowledge of a subject beyond that of the average person, sufficient that others may officially (and legally) rely upon the individual's opinion. [notice opinion...it doesn't mean the Truth of the subject]

It is socially constructed; the tools for thinking and scripts for action are jointly constructed within social groups enabling that group jointly to define what an expert is in that domain.” [So it's subjective and imbued with expectations of what needs to be lived up to in order to be and stay an 'expert''] . I appreciated that my body and feelings came up with a similar definition confirming that it doesn’t fit for me.

Learned Helplessness
In the last five years, with so many being called ‘experts’, I have witnessed an immense amount of trauma, sickness, and deaths as part of the collective ‘learned helplessness’. What ‘experts’ say, is somehow expected to be accepted by others as Truth. There were huge consequences in giving away one’s power.

I’ve thought to myself, “What if others’ college degrees were set up with an agenda to do harm, that it was actually embedded in the structural systems (even through symbols or codes), in everything from medicine to social services. Then the masses turn their power over to these ‘experts’ in order to make sense of the information which are really distortions, lies, fake narratives, secret dealings, harvesting of collective energy, and the profits made.” So many of the world’s ‘experts’ are now experiencing the decline of their prestigious positions and ultimately their lives.

Though I didn’t know the depth of the energy of ‘expert’ prior to this plandemic period, I know it now very somatically and energetically. I am so grateful that I did not want it as a label in coming from others, or as a means to give title to what I do. I instead acknowledge myself for who I am, which is really a soul embodied on a journey with a big purpose. It reminds me where I’ve come from and where I’m headed.

Creator’s Perspective and Definition

I also decided to ask Creator what the definition of ‘expert’ is and for ITs perspective of it, just to give balance. In receiving a visual along with somatic feelings, I started laughing. I saw this energy of wisdom and divinity attempt to come into the human mind, and it got jumbled and taken to an ‘ego’ level. Creator’s perspective still let me experience that this isn’t the word that fits me.

I hope each of you take the time to answer the initial questions and decide how you want to be called in doing your divine work or whether that word is going to be applied to others. We are all needed in creatively re-structuring this planet and ourselves.

With care and blessings,

Judy Dragon

My Three Book Series, “Moving Beyond Revised: Healing the Trauma from Childhood Abuse Through the ThetaHealing Technique”, mentions my position around experts. They are available on The Moving Beyond Trauma Project Store and Amazon .

Are You Still Whole?

Fri, 18 Apr 2025 15:44:46 GMT

Quote for Reflection : “In every atom, there is a reflection of the whole.” ~Jay Woodman

Are You Whole?

The ‘we’

Once upon a time, in a far-off land of the Inner World, there was a me who lived with the ‘we’, a tribe of multiple others. The tribe called themselves ‘associates’ so that they could feel they were professional and would be respected for all they understood.

Through a 9-month birthing process that Creator moved me through, my 27 parts and many fragments integrated and fused in 1995. For years, people who knew me were aware of this, but I stopped speaking about it in 2006. Prior, I had been very public sharing before in therapist groups, survivor support conferences, on TV, and radio.

I had closed my publishing company in wanting to move on in a new direction. In 1998, the book’s other co-editor/writer and I along with 6 other women, had all contributed to a compilation of stories about the journey of healing DID, called ‘Multiple Journeys to One: Spiritual Stories of Healing Dissociative Identity Disorder’. Through various interactions, we were drawn to different pathways in life.

Singleton

I didn’t want to be identified as this label anymore in all that had occurred to create it. Others had seen it as some kind of stigma, and I wasn’t in the place to want to give it more attention. I wanted to know who I was as a ‘singleton’ as it was a rather new experience from being ‘so many’ parts navigating in one body. I wanted others to know me different than the parts who use to be my existence. I had already loved them into wholeness.

When my first book was initially published, I was emotionally vulnerable and a bit naïve. I had told people in my dance community about the book and showed it to them. This was a really big deal for me to have participated in writing and publishing it. Not surprisingly, there were some ‘interesting’ comments.

One man told me he had parts, which I never knew. That was very vulnerable of the child part that presented himself. It made sense in how he acted out his trauma without realizing that he had any. It showed up in how he related to others.

Another man
Another man would attempt to subtly humiliate or bait me after having shown him the book and sharing a very little about my life as parts, since he asked me. I wondered if he wanted to feel better about himself, whether he wanted me to think of myself as having a mental disorder, or that I shouldn’t really discuss it publicly. It was like covert shaming.

He would make snide remarks to me, like, “How do you like living with all those parts” as if I didn’t integrate, or it was some kind of game. Or, “Did those parts come back?” not understanding anything about the process, nor did he really want to until many years later in 2018.

That July, I saw him at a dance. He sat next to me to start a conversation by saying, “Are you still whole?”

I turned my head and looked at him very intensely, thinking, “What a way to greet someone”. With an inner clarity, I asked him, “Are you whole?”

He looked a bit startled that I would even think to ask him this. He said he thought he was.

I then asked, “If you’re so whole, why would you ask a very vulnerable question to me like that out of the blue?”

I continued, “What you might have asked me that showed care is, ‘What happened to you that this occurred for you?’”

He was taken aback. It seemed he never thought that there was a cause. It was like a phenomenon that appears from an unknown source, and then doctors give it a big defining name.

I continued, “I can talk a little about what happened in the past, now that it’s all over the news and it’s become more legitimized with stories similar to mine. So do you want to know? Do you know what it means to hold something sacred with care in your heart? Is this possible for you?”

He looked directly at me. “Yes, I want to know.”

“I was trafficked most of my childhood until a young adult.” His head lowered while his eyes turned downward.

He was silent for a moment, and then gently said with care, “That must have been very difficult”.

“Yes, it was more than very difficult.” I took a breath, a slight moment before I continued.

“It’s way more than people can really understand.”

He got it. “I never knew this.”

I felt very anchored in myself and in my truth. “What happened to me isn’t who I am, but it has affected every aspect of my life”.

I didn’t say anything else to him. I stood up and went back on the dance floor to enjoy my evening.

Education about ‘Mental Disorder Labels ’

I think it’s very important that people stop seeing others with what the American Psychiatric Association describes as mental disorder labels and as societal misfits--‘pathologicalized’. Instead, there needs to be education, recognition of how creative coping mechanisms are used, and to be held sacred in how a child survives the unspeakable.

Remembering what happened to me through the alter parts, at that time, de-structured the lies I was living in, and started to give me back my truth. I’ve continued that process of remembering without the individualized alter parts, using my somatic awareness and intuition through Creator. This is why no one can possibly take the truth away from me again.

I own my truth of history no matter what others think. People’s inability to grasp certain realities doesn’t lessen what I have lived through and the patterns of awareness that I have gained from healing. It only gives me more fortitude to share what occurs for millions throughout the world, thus writing my three healing trauma books.

Being silenced, threatened, tortured, raped, and intentionally dissociated for 23 years of my life had its tolls. Yet, at another level, it pushed me forward with a depth of focus, perseverance, and self-love to uncover the secrets, and develop the many spiritual virtues through the healing that I never thought possible to recognize. It was more than anyone should have to endure or live through, but it was a testimony to the strength of the human soul and body to go through such an experience and come out transformed beyond imagination.

Since we are all interconnected, my healing isn’t separate from how it affects others. It opens up the vastness of awareness and connection through All that IS. Each time someone enters and utilizes the steps necessary to heal, it affects us all.

For me, healing frees my brain neuro-connections from the heaviness that still filters out for conscious forgiveness that I employ each time the memories arise. It opens my abilities to be more available and continue to take responsibility in interactions that feel polarizing.

I’m reminded, in having grandchildren, that I can play with my abilities, bringing back that innocence and wonder of what is possible. It’s all about self-love. It’s all about knowing that there is this energy of Love, All that IS. It’s about knowing, in every cell of my body, that this Love is ever present within me and each of us.

Creator of All wants us to be fully who we are and divinely meant to be. It’s what a conscious, spiritual life is about.

With deep care,
Judy

To understand more about Dissociative Identity disordering,

Book 3, Chapter 16 of Moving Beyond Revised, goes into a deep dive on the topic.

Is A Little Bit Of Co-Dependency Necessary To Care?

Sat, 15 Mar 2025 19:43:21 GMT

It feels good to be accepted, loved, and approved of by others, but often the membership fee to belong to that club is far too high of a price to pay. - Dennis Merritt Jones

Title: Is a little bit of codependency necessary to care?

Quote for reflection: “It feels good to be accepted, loved, and approved of by others, but often the membership fee to belong to that club is far too high of a price to pay.”

~Dennis Merritt Jones

Mainstream behaviors
In working with childhood trauma, I think it’s important to understand some basic mainstream behaviors that generally show up repeatedly. A big one is co-dependency with its many tentacles.

One day many years ago while taking a workshop in Idaho with Vianna Stibal (founder of ThetaHealing® Technique), I remember her saying how people have become very uncaring with entitlement issues, like the ‘Me’ generation.

She continued, “I think everyone should be a little co-dependent so there is caring.”

I think my mouth dropped open, and I stopped breathing for a few seconds.

Back in the 80’s and 90’s, I participated in 12-Step groups like CoDa (Co-dependency Anonymous) and Adult Children of Alcoholics. I knew that being co-dependent wasn’t a healthy, functional way to be. I wondered if Vianna understood what she had said, that perhaps she didn’t have another word for not being too independent that it creates a loss of connection, entitlement, and selfishness.

Interdependent
I went up to her after class, gently put my arm around her shoulders, and with deep caring, said, “Vianna, I don’t think you meant that people should be a little co-dependent. Do you mean people need to be interdependent?”

She was quiet and then looked at me like a light bulb went off. “I like that…I didn’t know there was a word for it. Hmmm…interdependent.”

And it’s been from that time on that we’ve been given and give downloads about interdependency, what it is, what it feels like, how to be this way.

Experiencing interdependency allows for the recognition, value and importance of an emotional bond, safety, and intimacy that is mutually shared with others. There is a sense of maintaining ‘emotional solidity’ individually and within the relationship dynamic.

To be totally independent, keeps us in separation from others, and our needs for connection and belonging. It emphasizes the fear of losing our individuality and freedom in relationships.

In truth, we are all interconnected through Creator and the atoms that compose us.

Understanding interdependency supports us to feel more connected to ourselves and others.

Co-dependency

In Book 1, Chapter 2 of Moving Beyond Revised, I mention the characteristics, because it’s really broad-based in permeating our lives, relationships, the way we feel about ourselves, our work, healing, and spirituality.

Initially, it was about people in relationships whose family members were addicted to alcohol/drugs. It has evolved to describe people from any dysfunctional family, with or without drugs, who engage in behaviors that keep them disconnected from themselves.

Co-dependency is a learned behavior that can be passed down from one generation to another. The structure is built upon getting one's emotional and self-esteem needs and expectations met by relying on another to be responsible for this. This can be conscious or unconscious. It entails projecting outside oneself. The core self feels separated, shattered, and/or disconnected from the body and psyche. This is what trauma and loss create.

Some characteristics of co-dependency are: low self esteem (which can be acted out as overachieving as well); poor boundaries; people pleasing; reactive communication (projection or withdrawal); care-taking; controlling; dependency; obsessiveness; inability to ask for help; isolation; denial of issues presented; issues dealing with painful emotions and intimacy.

Learning about healthy family connections vs dysfunctional ones
is available in Book 1, Chapter 2.

Have fun exploring!

Leadership In Truth-Defying Times

Tue, 29 Oct 2024 19:18:38 GMT

Quote for Reflection: Leadership and learning are indispensable to each other. ~ JFK

What is true leadership?
Our world has had an eschewed version of what leadership has been for a long time. There are big differences between true leadership versus hierarchal ‘leadership’ which to me are rulers or dictators.

Hierarchal ‘leadership’ includes status and prestige positions with someone at the top rung of the ladder and someone at the bottom of the totem pole. These structures are often primed with discontent, lack of fairness, inequality, deception, resentments, the push to compromise oneself, and invalidation of who one really is in their gifts and abilities all due to a ranking system.

A ranking system is subjective to the whims of top hierarchal positions –higher/lower, paid more/paid less, power over/power under, more valued/less valued. It’s very ingrained in a competitive mindset of climbing to success through the failures or errors of others—what someone lacks is used against them to move ‘upward’ in a status position. There often lacks compassion, care, and recognizing the individual’s assets in what they can best do or have done, but rather what one can get out of another.

Its theme can rally around ‘do as I say, not as I do’. It’s been a predominant operational system since at least Atlantis. It is embedded in the ways that many family units have positioned themselves around raising children through dominating, authoritarian, and abusive ways.

True leadership is actually not hierarchal because there are team/s who work collaboratively together to support each other to be the best version of themselves. There are mutual goals that fill everyone with passion and motivation. There are shared values, and people bringing their authentic selves, talent and skills to the forefront.

Each role taken is to achieve the goals of the individual and organization, and is significant in itself. It supports the growth of each team member.

Each person is in a role that best utilizes their talents. There are rotations of those who want to help lead different organizational projects depending on what works best for those involved–a resourcing of skills, abilities and virtues that benefits the collaborations.

People tend to think that in an organization there is but one leader who stands out, which then is seen as the head. In truth, that is but one role that can occur because that person has the abilities and skills to present themselves publicly. Again, each role supports the organization’s growth.

Interestingly, in non-hierarchal organizations , each person actually leads and follows. Both of these ‘roles’ are essential to experience as part of the energy of movement interconnecting all the positions, collaborations, and goals. Consider that if we listen to All-that-IS and follow through in what we heard, we will be leading ourselves in a direction by following through in using our Divine inner direction and connection.

There are many organizations today that see these qualities of true leadership as important to refine as that aspect of spirituality is included and recognized as an energetic guidance. We are all evolving with true leadership in organizations being integrated.

Dance
I have participated in partner dance since I was a child. I was taught East Coast Swing/jitterbug and Cha Cha Cha by age 5. I learned standing on my father’s feet…literally.

When I was an adult, I took years of lessons with a world champion West Coast Swing dance instructor (California’s state dance that is now international). She was an incredible teacher with a spiritual outlook. She would break down every movement for interpretive use to play and practice as well as explaining the music, rhythm, beats, how to interpret them with a dance partner, and the social etiquette to move through those awkward moments.

Two of her gems of wisdom were about the roles of lead and follow in that dance. I related these positions to leadership and how relations work together.

The first gem was that in a dance relationship, a creative and caring leader allows for the follower to shine, to bring out her (or his) attributes to complement and interpret the dance and connection with the other, managing the slot space and protecting the follower. A creative and caring follower allows for the leader to open space to communicate a direction, stays in connection with the music, partner, and plays with the leader’s creative moves so that the dance can be interpreted and played with by both of them.

It’s a mutual, supportive connection. So in truth, both are leaders and followers of their platform of interpretations initiating new movement and waiting for signals from the other. Don’t you wish life was more intuitively, creatively, mutually, and tactilely experienced like this?

The second gem was that whomever was off rhythm and noticed first, adjusted and corrected tactfully. This could be as simple as holding a beat or speeding it up. It could also be by verbally expressing with care, “I noticed we are off beat,” and then supporting a lead movement to make the adjustment. Notice that both are involved in the experience, and no one gets blamed.

Old hierarchal agenda crumbling
With the mainstream energy broadcasting cancel culture, deleting and censoring information, creating panic to feed the loosh (fear), children trafficked across borders, and held in cages, the lack of leadership doesn’t seem to exist. (though I know that things are being staged to awaken the masses). Yet, any expression that opposes this old hierarchal agenda is spewed as hateful, wrong, and intolerable.

The level of personal and cyber-bullying and attacks have surged reaching huge proportions. We are witnessing the crumbling of the old structures, like the very last vestiges of the fall of the Roman Empire.

Standing in her truth
One of my California friends is in the medical field, and shared a story that occurred for her in standing in her truth and her legal right not to wear a mask, something that people have been bullied for since last year. There are human health codes that show that forcing the use of medical devices, which a mask is, are unhealthy and illegal. [It has been discovered that the masks are made with micro-plastics and ethylene oxide, a toxic substance]

I applauded my friend’s bravery for taking a conscious stand, because this is partly what it’s going to take to change the mind control that has overtaken people’s thinking and relating. Already 18 states have opened up prior restrictions, and it’s not an issue.

My friend went to get an x-ray at a clinic near her location. She self volunteered to wear a mask to this establishment, but she did not put it over her nose. Breathing air is a necessary part of human physiology.

The X-ray tech told her to put her mask over her nose for everyone’s protection. In being demanded to obey, she took the entire mask off and sarcastically questioned, “Like this?” as she continued assuring the tech that she did not have ‘the virus’.

His posture became defiant, and he repeated his demand as he dug his heels in further. My friend let him know that if he was afraid of her, she could respect that. She told him to just give her the money back that she paid, and she’d leave. He then tried to explain that it was policy, to which she responded, “Not mine!”

She went to leave without the mask when a manager approached her, and asked if everything was alright while my friend responded, “If you call tyranny alright.

My friend explained that as a medical clinic, she holds them to a higher standard. “Masks are dangerous. This is not about health. It’s political, and it’s Bull Shit. I was willing to compromise for optic’s sake, but your x-ray tech pushed it.”

Slightly chuckling, she added, “I’m defending my need to breathe.”

Unbelievably, the manager started laughing with her and completely agreed. The X-ray tech then joined in, and he ultimately assured her that he didn’t think she had the virus after all. He just didn’t want to get in trouble.

My friend answered back, “Well, you did… with me.”

Leadership was demonstrated in such a direct way that it turned a corner for others to follow differently. And perhaps the people in that room witnessing the conversation realized that they didn’t have to be obedient to what stopped them from natural human physiological functions.

Attacked
Someone I’ve known for over 10 yrs was cyber-attacked recently. She is well known in a spiritual movement that she has worked very hard to create where Source, truth, authenticity, care, healing and community are basic tenets of her organization.

When true leaders’ private life are broadcasted with distortions and lies to stop the flow of truth, this can be transformed into strength, groundedness, inspiration, and wisdom. Her deep courage to not allow such an attack to smear her reputation or her mission showcased her leadership abilities. It was a true testament to living present with her mission, truth and healing.

She had the ability to take action and publicly respond to the attackers without mentioning who they were. She used her voice to turn the attacks into a profound message for her organization and the audience. This is what it will take in the Aquarian Age to share the ways of Divinity and empowerment.

Trauma Intelligence Tips
Since Trauma Intelligence can be used to regulate one’s responses to feeling attacked, and then how to take action from a centered place, here are some tips to support each of us whether we’re public about our life or not. Being aware and prepared to face life’s challenges is practical and wise.

Some Of The Feelings That Come Up After A Cyberattack Occur Are:

Shock – the level of dissonance, dissociation, lies, distortions, resentments, and/or hatred that are projected in being public figure
Fear arises of how many will believe the lies
Fear of one’s own physical safety and of those who are close or connected to the person attacked
The awareness of the autonomic nervous system responses– the fight, flight, freeze or fawn that can occur

What Can Be Done To Stabilize:

Self care: Breathe, ground, get present-oriented…come back to the moment of feeling safe
Re-establish focus with Creator-of-All for clarity and safety (meditate)
Let trusted connections know – get support to assist in sorting things out
The beliefs behind being attack come from guilt or the need to be punished usually at an unconscious level. Identify these and find the point/s or origin (that can be a process in itself)
Be able to identify and process your feelings and triggers involved…go into them in a safe and sacred space with a witness or facilitator if possible to release any reactivity and fear (this can also be a process)
Ask what you are getting out of the situation and then what are you learning
Release the attacker from anything you are learning
Say out loud, even if it is not in front of the attacker, ‘I forgive you’ at least three times as that frequency will create Divine energetic protection and separation.
Remind yourself of your purpose with the question, “What am I growing that is supporting me in being in a world where there is so much emotional regulation and healing needed? [When leaders are growing community, there is a remembering of the mission and purpose to be of service and to move humanity forward.]
Look at the virtues that you are using or are needed for your actions.

What Is Needed Within To Be Able To Respond?

Be gentle with yourself
Have a daily practice of connecting with All-that-IS. Feel free to call forth your guides and angels through Source.
Take care of your physical form. Make sure you are feeling healthy and vitalized on an ongoing basis.
Be well resourced with a network of support who believe in you and your message
Stand in one’s truth and grounded presence to be able to announce it with spiritual tact and in your strength without blaming-take the high road if a response is needed or necessary. There is a difference between truth sharing of one’s experience and attacking or blaming another. This eliminates the need to fight or win.
Respond when there is clarity and an inspired message to support oneself and those connected in the community with care
Avoid naming the others unless at some point there is legal action occurring where public record identifies those involved. Always check in with All that IS in how to proceed.
Record all comments from attacker whether through voice or paper documentation like screen shots, and have your inner circle of friends or community assist you with this so others know.

Public Arena
As I decide how I want to bring myself forward in sharing my personal healing journey safely in a more public arena, I remember that everyone has their timing. Discussing the underbelly, which is where this Dragon has lived for so long, doesn’t come lightly. My focus is more about the deep healing involved rather than all the dramatic details that many who have gone public have focused on. I’ve already shared that there isn’t a darkness that I haven’t experienced or heard about.

Part of my Divine Timing is to write the books in what I started 12 years ago–a three part fictionalized autobiography. It obviously needs revisions in what I know is true now. To keep things out of harm’s way, I’ve used discretion and discernment to reveal what I have so far since I do have ascendants.

Bring leadership to the table
And as far as leadership, our non-profit, The Moving Beyond Trauma Project , is looking for volunteers in growing with our deeply caring mission. Consider supporting us in the education of trauma healing through the tenets of non-dualistic ThetaHealing Technique to stop and heal abuse. We are in the visioning stage to expand.

We want to also create free spiritually-based healing centers for those who survived childhood abuse bringing in a non dualistic and holistic approach. This will include the newest technologies that will be appearing soon. We would love a group of visionaries who want to bring their leadership to the table. Though no one is drawing salaries at this point, it’s an eventual goal.

Do you understand non-dualistic spirituality or have taken ThetaHealing workshops?
Can you proofread?
Can you work on websites?
Do you like to organize things?
Can you do graphics
Are you comfortable speaking in public or on podcasts?
Do you have interviewing skills?
Do you have a story to share of healing trauma through ThetaHealing or non-dualistic experiences?
Can you translate into different languages?
Can you post on social medias?
Can you network or resource with others who have similar ideas?
Would you like referrals to teach ThetaHealing Technique in understanding trauma education first?
Can you bring your visions into form?
What are your gifts and talents that you feel inspired to share with us?

Bring your ideas, abilities, resources, your spiritual healing and being to the table, and let’s combine visions together. We will be sharing aspects of this invitation on a FB live, Friday, April 9th at 11 AM PT. You can go to: https://www.facebook.com/movingbeyondhealingtrauma

We can all be ‘leaders and followers of this platform of interpretations, initiating new movement and waiting for signals from the others’ to make a difference in the world.

With newness of Springtime to plant fresh seeds
Blessings and care,
Judy

Helpful Creator’s teachings/downloads
I know what it feels like to, how to, when to, that it’s possible, that it’s safe, that I’m worthy, deserving and good enough, that I can, I do (or I am/am able to be):

Experience true leadership
Live without needing a competitive mindset to feel and be successful
To identify my skills, abilities and virtues
To lead and follow in reaching goals through All that Is
Honor and respect my need to breathe unrestrained
To live without being obedient to another
To transform another’s distortions and lies into truth, healing, divinity and empowerment
To live without being attacked
To live without the need to be punished
To live without needing guilt to learn
To use discretion and discernment to reveal one’s truth

Why dig into old mental garbage to create tomorrow’s future?

Tue, 29 Oct 2024 19:05:26 GMT

Quote for Reflection: When we create peace and harmony and balance in our minds, we will find it in our lives. ~ Louise Hayes

Coming Apart
With two Silicon Valley whistleblowers exposing FB’s notoriously corrupt and deceitful policies on squelching real information about biologic compliancy, I have found great solace knowing that mainstream and social media is coming apart. It took great courage and bravery for these men to step forward to create tomorrow’s future with the help of Project Veritas.

Mental Garbage
The men had to dig up mental information to do this. So when a placard showed up a few weeks ago on my FB feed, I mulled it over for a few minutes noticing the reaction it was having in my body. The quote read: Would you dig into yesterday’s garbage to make tonight’s meal? Why dig into old mental garbage to create tomorrow’s future?

I felt agitated, irritated and curious. It was like a dissonant energy had hit me between my heart and gut, yet I wanted to explore it further rather than staying on edge. My journey has always been about going deeper to the heart of the issue.

Interestingly, I had just been working on the Emotional and Somatic Integrative processes’ in the revised Moving Beyond Book. The section was about how people judge emotions as good and bad. How synchronistic of the Universe to hand over these FB placard questions to connect me back with my body and feelings.

I had made a correlation of ‘yesterday’s garbage’ as related to feelings and emotions. My understanding around emotions in being ‘garbage’ is like love being outdated. Neither work in my world.

My second thought was that ‘yesterday’s garbage’ is ripe for composting. When it’s composted, I will be able to dig into the plantings of my garden fertilizing all my plants. This gives assurance that there will be a ‘tonight’s meal’.

My third thought was that digging on old mental garbage is exactly what we do in ThetaHealing® Technique so we don’t bring it into tomorrow’s future to create it. Why would I want to bypass this opportunity? If I can only judge it is as garbage, I’ll never be able to identify the beliefs in the thoughts to clear it.

Questions
As I further researched where the placard questions came from originally, I discovered it was from Louise Hayes. I was stunned! I had difficulty fathoming she’d create such limited questions.

BUT it turned out that there was a third part missing that was not part of the placard. Louise wrote, “If a thought or belief does not serve you, let it go!”

Now things were starting to connect more! That last phrase with, ‘let it go,’ is easier said than done though. Unless we dig into that mental garbage identifying the origins, feelings, and experience, the process never gets past ‘go’. Letting go needs a way to happen because most people aren’t going to drop it like a hot potato.

Emotions
The last thing that came from sitting with myself around those questions were that emotions are my amazing navigational system. When there is not an identity or judgment towards the emotions being either positive or negative, there is an ability to witness them in what information they might be relaying.

When we allow ourselves to identify emotions, we can separate them from who we are without becoming that identity.

Example: When some people show their tears, they immediately think, “I am weak.” It becomes an identity. Crying becomes identified with weakness, and the person becomes that weakness. What a difficult way to experience one’s feelings and deplete one’s energy.

If we take a pause, the emotions will teach us how to work with them. They will teach us how to enter our body with a wonder and curiosity to learn the language of our somatic experience. We will gain the wisdom that our amazing bodies have to share about our inner and outer realities.

Body talks
With trauma healing, we can learn what is trapped in our cells and Autonomic nervous system. The body talks to us.

Years ago, I did a practicum with some of my students where we remote sensed into one of the participants’ body to listen to her organs sing to each other. We could hear the tones that felt harmonious and those that felt dissonant. It was so totally fun to start to understand the magnificence of somatic communication. The body is so alive with consciousness.

Under the heart and other organs is a base tone of feelings that can be released through the Heart Toning exercise. There are so many ways to actually allow these emotions to release, but the first step is to identify and acknowledge the experience.

If we don’t stop the judgment to explore emotions–allowing ourselves the grieving, the pent-up anger, the rage, the outrage–then the kindness, care, and tenderness will have more difficulty being available to experience. We will then end up taking the ‘mental garbage’ to this present moment in a backpack from the past to create the future. That is why we clear the beliefs in connection with working with our feelings and body.

Somatic exercises
With all the breakdowns occurring on the planet worldwide, as a ‘war on thought control’ continues (though not for much longer in witnessing the ‘show’), I wanted to share some somatic exercises to help the trauma people may be experiencing. This is a wonderful supplement besides digging on beliefs or meditating at the 7th Plane.

We are developing what is called a ‘window of tolerance’ in widening our capacity for more emotional awareness and regulation. When you feel stressed or triggered, or you want to touch base with yourself, these exercises will assist you.

Exercise One: Tap slowly on your thymus gland three times and repeat twice again throughout the day. This will introduce you to your body and calm that area as it often is easily aroused. Then consider doing any exercises, activities or sports to begin to see if there is a physical outlet for your arousal mechanism.

Exercise Two: Take right hand and place it under left armpit wrapped around it with the thumb on the inside and fingers on the outside touching the scapula. Place left hand on right upper arm with thumb on inside and wrapped fingers on the outside. Allow for a settling feeling as you drop your shoulders. This allows a sense of creating a container and safety. You can juxtaposition the hands for the other side of the body as well.

Exercise Three: You can tap the skin all over in order to feel a boundary of your body. You can also squeeze your muscles.

Exercise Four: Right hand on forehead and left hand on upper chest/clavicle, both in the middle of the body. Just feel into the body in what goes on between the areas where the hands are placed. Let go of judgment and experience.

Exercise Five : Color, draw or write. Get the energy out of the head. It’s soothing. I have clients who show me their beautiful colorings.

Exercise Six: Place your hand on your chest/heart. Gently close your eyes, and exhale slowly and inhale more quickly.

Frequencies are changing
As the intensification of the world breakdowns occur, the solar flares permeate the earth’s atmosphere, the Schumann resonance spikes, the poles reversing, the eclipses’ downloads, and our journey through the Photon belt, which hasn’t happened in 12,000 years, be mindful that your frequencies are absolutely changing too. You are not who you were even 6 months ago. For some, the caterpillar in the cocoon is a gooey mess. For others, it’s a new level and deeper determination of what we are here to do.

Use your pause, ‘noticing’ and ‘allowance’ skills to build as a routine part of your self care and self love. Help to create tomorrow’s future by knowing how to identify, use, and regulate your own mental and emotional terrain.

With deep care and Happy Summer Solstice!

Judy

Helpful general Creator’s teachings/downloads you can download. Read, connect with All that IS at the 7th Plane, and say ‘yes’.

I know Creator’s perspective and definition, what it feels like, how, when, that it’s possible, that I’m worthy, deserving and good enough, that I’m safe, that I can, I do (or I am/am able):

Go into the heart of the situation
Take a pause so the emotions can teach how to work with them
Experience what emotions are relaying about myself
Experience emotions without identifying as them
Learn the body’s talk
Create a window of tolerance in any situation
Adapt to the changing frequencies
Identify, use and regulate your own mental and emotional terrain

Underneath the Surface by Judy Dragon

Tue, 29 Oct 2024 18:56:10 GMT

Quote for Reflection: “Things are not always what they seem; the first appearance deceives many; the intelligence of a few perceives what has been carefully hidden.” ~ Phaedrus

Going on Underneath
I think that most of us know that what appears on the surface isn’t what is really going on underneath. At least I have hope that people can feel the inconsistencies and deceptions. Anyone who has done belief work or has done reflective inner work has experienced the unwinding into deeper levels of understandings.

What is happening in the world has been broadcast in the most intense fear mongering and censoring ways. To follow all the outer clues of what is happening in this world game show, takes a great deal of time, discernment, synchronicities, and a depth of awareness. It definitely, though, can connect historical events which ultimately affect us in the present.

Sometimes this process can feel like a waste of energy. Vianna, the founder of ThetaHealing ® Technique, has said that some details are like ‘mind candy’ because they take us away from focusing on our responsibilities and mission.

I’ve found that it takes discernment, trust, balance and openness. I would never be where I am if I hadn’t followed certain rabbit holes. Deciding to sit with the information with Creator and feeling into it can be both important in order to feel empowered and awake, or to let go into what one feels will work out for the highest and best ultimately anyways.

In my heart
With so many going through social, physical, emotional and financial instabilities, it’s close to difficult to write what is in my heart right now. I don’t want to be interpreted as uncaring, pollyannish, in denial or any other names that seem to be projected at this time in all that is being censored.

But then I can’t stop others’ interpretations of my somatic emotional awareness. That would show I want to control others’ experience of my reality. That’s codependency… plus! So, everyone gets to feel whatever resonates in their experience as they read this. I just invite everyone to be open.

So here it goes.

Joy
I have been feeling so much joy like I never experienced in my entire life…not even when I first got married, first had a child, had a book published or more. This joy feels permanent. It’s like no matter what happens in the world, it flows as a part of me. I can have other conflicting feelings, but the joy is still there. I know I won’t be punished due to having joy or feeling happy like when I was a kid. Even if I have rough challenges, this joy is not going to go away.

It came, in part, due to a person sharing her truth on a video. These truth ‘bombs’ resonated deeply in my soul. It brought me more than ‘hope’. It brought me to a landing place for what I had dreamed about as being possible on the planet. It offered me a way to tap into my truths being reflected back in strength and courage. It showed me that I could use my abilities I had as a child again without fear that I would be abused. It validated that a New Earth is arising, and I chose this time to be part of it.

Be open
Back this past August during the fires when I was feeling very confused and information was coming faster than I could digest it, I was turned onto a woman from Australia who is a remote viewer. Just to say that Creator’s Divine synchronicities work by sending the right people into our lives if we are willing to be discerning and open in hearing them.

And I’m super selective with who resonates with me. I have to see emotional and trauma intelligence, groundedness, self confidence, truth sharers who buck the system, spiritual principles that are 7th Plane directed and who even mention this rather than just guides or angels. I want to hear direct Source-guided experiences.

JC
JC Kay had been holding onto psychic (remote) viewing information that she could no longer keep back. There were certain experiences that showed her she had to bring her truths to the world even though her family and some friends felt that she was making things up or that it was too unbelievable. Some even stopped talking to her.

Already that intrigued me because that was part of my experience–that very few believed me and hardly any among my family. That never stopped me from discovering my real history and truths though. For me, it’s like who wants to make up this kind of horror unless you’re Stephen King, and then I wonder what happened to him.

If you ever thought Pizzagate wasn’t true, this awakening information from JC will be difficult. It’s way larger now then what it was years ago when I was a kid. I literally cried with relief after the first video that someone who these things might not have happened to, was validating what I knew to be true.

JC shared about cloning, doubles of famous people who the mainstream were showing as alive and doing well, but who were really arrested or dead. She included which people the public thought were dead, but who were actually alive. She did not listen to others discussing this prior, but experienced this understanding through her Divine connection to Source-of-All.

JC eventually exposed more, especially leading up to the election time in discussing how and which politicians and leaders were being arrested or sent to be killed for their crimes against children and humanity. One video she did was all in code as she felt YouTube would take her down. A group of us figured it out.

She shared about fear factors being publicized that weren’t true at all in order for the Dark energies to feed off the fear created. I mentioned ‘loosh’ back in June on a FB live. That was also her word for the collective fear energy that the Dark feed off of.

Spirit Uncle
There was a special story about an aboriginal Spirit ‘Uncle’ who appeared to JC in order to show her what was happening under Uluru and the almost defunded military base in Australia, Pine Gap. Thousands of the children, the ‘stolen generation,’ were taken from their aboriginal homes from the early 1900’s to the 70’s but even in more recent times, many being sent to these underground areas.

The Uncle Spirit told her that this will be the end period for this kind of trauma in being cleared out. JC’s experience of the Spirit Uncle and what he showed her was validated by aboriginal elders. The extremely difficult descriptions of what she witnessed brought tears to both of us. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hc1i_vwgCoQ

I knew JC was taking a big risk in all that she was sharing. Intel had contacted her, and her personal FB page was taken down twice though her group is still up.

In all that occurred for me in being trafficked, I knew no one could describe what she saw in the way she did unless they actually witnessed it. She shared it from a perspective of what she witnessed in the present through what she called ‘the Looking Glass technology’. I knew she was telling the truth.

My abilities
I was so inspired by what I was watching that I started to use one of my abilities that I had as a child in a new way. This time through All-That-Is, I remote viewed under a specific area a few miles from where I live. This was right during the second wave of fires in my area.

What I viewed was validated the next day as I didn’t know my area had tunnels nor what was happening in them. I was astonished and excited in what I saw. I then did another viewing with a dear friend who also has these abilities. We ‘went into’ a very famous location near us that is known for its nefarious activities. Again, I was validated. So I know that what appears on the surface is not what is going on underneath.

New Financial System
JC spoke about who would win the election and what would occur leading up to the truth of the results. Her message was and is really about the change of tides, the new technologies to help humanity like the med beds (article in the newsletter), a wonderful new Financial System similar to what was called the National Economic Security and Reformation Act (NESARA), and in trusting the process by staying in alignment with Source as the New Earth is arising.

Back in 1999, I was sent emails with information about NESARA and the dinar programs from some woman I never even knew. I think it was an act of God. I discovered some of the most amazing history about finances. The Act was actually passed by the US Congress in 2000 and never proclaimed for many reasons. Consider doing a duckduckgo search.

I asked Vianna and another psychic a year later if they knew about NESARA. Both said that if it’s to happen, it would be 2021. This new system is not about the Dark’s agenda of ‘The Great Reset’ but based in human sovereignty and financial equality principles. And now it’s around the corner.

Understanding Trump
After the beginning of the 2020, I asked Creator about understanding Trump, and heard he was here to help humanity but had his own interests as well. I should have questioned that further in what his own interests meant, and in what ways he was here, but I didn’t. I just let it go figuring more information would clarify it.

I was never into endorsing either of the candidates because of their sexual predatory behavior and more. I actually wasn’t going to vote nor was I into ‘Q’. That was total mind candy to me.

In July, with prompting of some close FB friends and clients to listen to Trump differently, I also discovered an article that had me thinking twice about who he really was. I ask again for you to be open. Life isn’t what we think underneath the surface.

I know that many past Presidents were child abusers who the masses think were wonderful. Some of these men were definitely here to help humanity, and some were not in any virtuous way but through massive deception and corruption. So I’ve learned to look at the whole picture including another’s purpose, not just their publicly known or unknown ways. This also took a great deal of discernment and forgiveness towards them.

Baron Trump
In 1893, Ingersoll Lockwood was an American author and lawyer who published his first book titled, “The Travels and Adventures of Little Baron Trump and His Wonderful Dog Bulger”. This book was then followed up with, “Baron Trump’s Marvelous Underground Journey”. Lockwood’s last book was published in 1896 and titled, “1900: or, The Last President” which can all be found online. Newsweek even has an old article about these books, and a movie was going to be made about it.

The little boy in the book looked like Baron Trump, was born to a wealthy family, and lived on 5th Ave. in New York City called Trump Castle. The books were a series of wild adventures where a mystical man named Don Fum helps Baron and his dog find the portal to his ‘World within a World’. Interestingly, the end adventure led them to Russia. Keep in mind that this was over 120 years ago.

Physicist John Trump
I then discovered that Trump’s uncle, Physicist John Trump, worked 40 years at MIT on electron acceleration, high voltage phenomena, and the interaction of radiation with living and non-living matter. When Tesla died in 1943, the FBI asked Professor Trump to examine Tesla’s papers and equipment.

I am very aware that time travel exists. Vianna has actually said that some people here at this time are their future selves. They are here to make a difference and change the play. I know that the governments of the world have been using different technologies that have been hidden from public awareness through Black budget operations since at least the 50’s. Again, feel free to research this, but here is one link. https://intothelight.news/files/2019-04-12-holographic-medical-pods.php

Clues
There are clues in Trump’s speeches which have shown me that there is something more going on, like an intel game being played out. I am very familiar with this kind of energetic structure. Things are not how they appear at all with him or his staff. I then find out from friends that this is what “Q” writes about–the deciphering of this coded language to bypass censored media. It’s their own media.

Again, I can understand that some people’s behavior are not their deeper calling beyond personal power and corruption. Through the games of dualism, we have learned some amazing virtues in clearing the service. I’m not denying anyone’s actions but living from a reality that what we see on the surface is not what is happening underneath in all that is unraveling. For me, this is important to keep as a focus.

And if in researching, feeling into, and listening to JC, which helped me to experience this deep joy, then who am I to say that what is happening was not destined to help humanity and myself shift to a new evolutionary point? It is the entrance to the age of Aquarius, and I’m feeling it!

Vantage Position
For me, it’s like being in the eye of the storm with a vantage position of seeing all round me, but feeling calm, safe and joyful while a storm is occurring. I can totally sit with all this outer drama and watch the world game show roll out knowing that what is below the surface is what I’ve been waiting for. As many of my friends say, “Pass the popcorn.”

To help bypass the broadcasted fearful outcomes from the mainstream and alternative news, place your hand on your heart, remember why you’re here at this time and how far you’ve traveled in your life. Let yourself stay more focused on your purpose, catch the wave of joy to embrace this new Light that is fast streaming and approaching.

Know that many across the world are feeling the shift happening.

Welcome the changes through Unconditional love allowing for this experience to lead us forward.

With joy and excitement!
Judy

Helpful general Creator’s teachings/downloads
I know what it feels like to, how to, when to, that it’s possible, that I’m safe, that I’m worthy, deserving and good enough, that I can, I do (or I am/am able to) :

To discern what is under the surface
To be open to what is under the surface
To experience joy even when challenges are present
To land into your dreams and desires in the highest and best ways
For timelines to change in the highest and best ways
To be open to new information with discernment through Creator
To feel validated in truth

Outer Limits In The Body by Judy Dragon

Tue, 29 Oct 2024 18:49:55 GMT

Quote for Reflection: “Her body is a philosophical novel that proves the existence of extraterrestrial life forms.” ~ Curtis Tyrone Jones

Aliens
Aliens, and I don’t mean foreign nationals, are the hot topic in more recent months. It’s like the big disclosure is just about here. I had mentioned in a previous blog about this topic with the Galactic Federation and a war going on off and on grid. https://themovingbeyondtraumaproject.org/underneath-the-surface-by-judy-dragon/

I was thinking about the many memories, both conscious and once repressed ones, that I’ve had around aliens since I was a little girl. One that stood out, though, was my trip through Nevada to Idaho Falls, ID. in late June of 2002.

The name of the town had slipped my mind. Interestingly, a day later a new client asked for a session with an address in that town. How synchronistic is that?! Or how wonderful that the Universe gave me my answer without searching the route out?!

Trip
I was packing and loading up my new ‘used’ blue Saturn car that I just purchased two weeks prior for my trip. I was leaving to go from California to the ThetaHealing Intuitive Anatomy workshop for three weeks.

It was a big trip to do alone for 17 hours. I planned to split the drive time and stay overnight along the way.

Spasm
I lifted my ice chest full of food as the last load to go into the car when my left side of my back across from the bottom of my scapula and near my kidneys went into total spasm. I could hardly breathe I was in so much pain. My brain was yelling, “How in the hell am I going to get out of California feeling like this?!”

I sat down, did some Jin Shin Jyutsu (holding energy flow points) on myself. ThetaHealers® didn’t do the 7th Plane meditation in those days. We were told to imagine connecting at 67 feet, like a telephone pole or tower. I asked to talk to my deceased mother’s spirit, my guides and angels to help me. I heard I would make it but take it slow.

I cried through California and into Nevada while listening to my mother’s soothing words as I attempted to ‘ride with the pain’. It started to lessen sometime around 6:30 PM, after 7 hours of driving.

I had seen a sign for a town where I could get a room at a motel, but I forgot its name as I continued down the highway in pain. I decided to get off I-80 before it got dark though.

At about 8 pm, I saw a sign for another motel at the next exit and headed for it. The energy of the town was off, but so was my back. I needed a bath to relax the fragile muscles that could spasm at any moment again.

Motel
The accommodating couple who ran the front desk at the motel asked if I needed help bringing anything into my room as I explained about my back. I thanked them and said I’d manage. I was able to just get a small backpack of overnight clothes and my food without a major incident though I was super careful.

I sat for awhile, stretched out, turned on the TV for about 1/2 hour and meditated for another 1/2 hour. After my long bath, I laid down to rest and do more Jin Shin on myself.

Car Alarm
As I was drifting off to sleep, my car alarm went off. It had to be around midnight.

I was startled. I groped for my keys thinking they were on the side table next to the bed to press off the alarm. I couldn’t find them right away.

Half in a groggy daze, I got out of bed, searched on the dresser and finally found it in my purse as the alarm kept going. As I walked to the window pressing the key to deactivate the alarm, it turned off before I even reached the window. I’m thinking how bizarre that was!

I went back to bed, got comfortable with my back still fragile, the keys on the table next to me, and started to drift off. The alarm activated again. I was thinking that this is a low mileage, basically new car, and this shouldn’t be happening.

I grabbed the keys on the side table, walked to the window, pulled the blinds to the side to turn off the alarm. I was hoping this wasn’t waking up the whole place. I felt very annoyed.

I went back to bed for the third time, and within two minutes, the alarm goes off again. I was glad that I didn’t make myself comfortable and still had the keys in my hand ready to deactivate.

I rushed over to the window. Looking out carefully this time, thinking someone was messing with my car, I saw a red beam coming from across the street from another motel that was aimed at my car. It stopped and so did my car sound.

I was freaked out not knowing what it was and why it was directed at my car. And I was exhausted with my back sore. I opted to go back to bed falling asleep without another round of the alarm sounding.

Check out
I woke up with the sun coming through the blinds. I had no idea what time it was, but I was ready to check out, get away from this weird energy, and head onto the highway. It would be another long day driving.

As I put the cooler and backpack into the car, my back spasmed again. I had no idea how I was going to make it from this town into Utah and Idaho. I breathed deeply, asked for lots of inner help while on the verge of tears again.

I went to the front desk to pay and check out. One of the owners came out looking very exhausted. I was thinking that he must have been up late with my alarm going off.

He tells me it’s 6:30 am, and he’s wondering why I was up so early. Since I had no idea what the time was with no watch, I was surprised also. But I wanted to check out.

I asked him if my alarm had woken him or his wife up. He looked puzzled. “What alarm was that?”

I told him my car alarm went off three times, and I was so sorry if it woke him or anyone else. He looked even more puzzled.

He said that he and his wife were up to 2 AM and neither heard any alarms. I asked him if he was sure. He was.

I’m thinking that this isn’t possible, or I entered the Twilight Zone. I told him about the strange red beam I saw from the motel across the street that set off the car alarm. He insisted there was no sound whatsoever.

I knew that I needed to just pay the bill and leave that town. He asked how my back was. “It spasmed again but I’ll make it somehow to my destination.”

He asked if I needed help. I didn’t because I had packed the car just as my back went out again.

Idaho Falls
Stopping for gas once while hardly able to lift the nozzle to put it into the tank, it took me about nine hours to get to the motel in Idaho Falls I was to stay with several other women taking the workshop. One of them helped me into the motel along with the owner. I was grateful for the support and kindness.

My roommate even prepared some of the dinner I brought for myself. She helped me the next morning to class as I was still in pain.

The morning started with the topic of parasites or parasitical energies. The first thing Vianna Stibal, founder of ThetaHealing® Technique , said to the class was to get in pairs to scan inside the body. She then told my roommate to check my back.

Implants
There were three implants on the right side…alien ones. She was told to command them to be gone. Within seconds, the pain eased, and the muscles started to relax. What was strange was the spasming had been on the left side so I assumed that it pulled on my spine.

The soreness took about two more days to go away, but I could carry things again. I was so grateful to know what they were and to get rid of them.

I wondered how those implants got into my back in the first place. It wasn’t from being in that town, because the pain started in California.

Vianna had suggested that I never travel through Nevada again. She showed me a way back through Idaho, Oregon and into California. It was an absolutely beautiful route.

It turns out that Nevada has so many alien and military installations that it was best not to ‘lie on a railroad track’ asking to be hit. It was probably what occurred with my car in the strange energy of Elko and the red beam.

I did eventually discover why and how the implants came into me through deep memory work after the workshop was over and when I was back in California. That’s a story I’m not furthering in this blog nor publicly. My life has been the “Outer Limits” since conception, and some things need to be fictionalized to make it palatable.

Removal of Implants
Just so you know, it’s easy to witness the removal of alien implants. In remembering your connection to the 7th Plane using the ThetaHealing meditation, gently remote sense into the body, locate the (non-medical) implant/s, and command them to change. Remember, we are not wanting hip or knee replacement implants to change.

Oftentimes, there is more than one implant. You’ll witness an energy popping and the implant/s disappearing. At least that has been my experience over the years.

And you do not need permission to witness the change in the client. They are not supposed to be there and are against free will.

I remember years ago that I had client whose neck was really sore. I was actually doing Jin Shin Jyutsu on her when I noticed she had an implant in her neck. I commanded it to change. She immediately felt a release. I didn’t tell her what I did but she knew. She nonchalantly said, “Oh, did you just get rid of an implant?”

To say the least, I was surprised. We never had a conversation about these things existing.

Nothing greater than Creator
Keep in mind that there is nothing greater than Creator particularly when we use our focused thought to co-create change in the highest and best way. There is no evil that can’t change through Unconditional Love.

This is why the world is going through the massive de-structuring in being awoken to the real planetary truths. Implants are just a small part of understanding trauma, evil, and mind control that is being exposed at this time. It’s a wild time to have chosen to help make a difference.

So grateful to be here to witness the changes,
Judy

Helpful general Creator’s teachings you can download. Read, connect with All that IS at the 7th Plane, and say ‘yes’.

I know Creator’s perspective and definition, what it feels like, how, when, that it’s possible, that I’m worthy, deserving and good enough, that I’m safe, that I can, I do (or I am/am able) :

experience Creator being in the mystery
to be open to deeper understandings of life’s mysteries
to witness change of any form through All that IS in highest and best way

Trust The Synchronicities

Tue, 29 Oct 2024 18:36:51 GMT

Quote for reflection: “Synchronicity holds the promise that if we will change within, the patterns in our outer life will change also.” ~ Jean Shinoda Bolen

Trust
For those who have been sexually abused or even have more extreme trauma, believing our own inner stories can be a real process. I have learned to trust myself through the years in very deep ways.

I was recently sharing with a newer friend that my once implicit (repressed) memories have been validated over the years in so many amazing and very synchronistic ways. It’s like I couldn’t disbelieve them if I tried. I feel that my divine support team, Creator-of-All, and the computer have been my most connected allies in this healing journey.

I’ve learned to trust my body also which is an excellent validation to support the synchronicities. Occasionally there is human intervention where those involved hadn’t a clue that they were entering my weird inner realm that simultaneously responds in the ‘outer limits’.

Weird
Did you know that the 15th century old English definition for ‘weird’ meant ‘having power to control fate’? And isn’t it interesting that ‘Fate’s’ origin comes from the same time period meaning ‘one’s predetermined destiny or course of life; and one’s guiding spirit’? So welcome to my ability to have the power to control my predetermined destiny.

And how does one have that ‘weird’ capacity? For me, number one is trust that whatever is going to occur, I am where I am to be with Creator. There is no mystery that I will be somehow abandoned to figure it out on my own.

Second, my reaction or action to what is destined is working with my power to control or regulate my own mind and emotions. So it’s my responsibility to pay attention.

Third is to be awake’ enough to notice how the outer world rearranges itself according to my thoughts, perceptions, and beliefs. I’m part of the group projections of what was, is and will be also. My inner experiences and memories assist to formulate this planetary consciousness. It all becomes a focused ‘connecting-the-dots’ tracking to ‘witness’ the unfolding of synchronicities.

Synchronicities
The Universe is so open to showing us how we create in our lives in synch (or off center) with the divine flow. These are the synchronicities that occur for all of us.

There’s a funny title that my friends use to call me years ago. I was known as the Synchronicity Queen because I use to have a weird story every time we gathered about how the inner and outer met in my life. Those kinds of synchronicities were somatically and emotionally difficult then, but validating none-the-less.

Though I’m unable to share the following stories in full detail due to being discreet these days, I want to give you a taste of my ‘weird’ inner to outer synchronistic memories and experiences.

Computer
I mentioned that my computer is my source of synchronicities. One important incident occurred over 20 years ago. I had a very strange memory of being a first grader and being taken to a huge computer data center. In those days, computers took up an entire room or building.

The scene that arose from the unconscious was very difficult and unbelievable to me. I kept saying to myself that I must have made it up. Nothing like this could be possible.

The very next day, I received an email from former astronaut, Gordon Cooper. It was probably a mass email promotion to mention about his new book that was coming out, ‘Leap of Faith’. In that email was the exact story that I remembered happening to me in what he had witnessed at a computer center. I knew it was divinely sent to remind me to trust myself, and that it was all true.

Ceiling light
Two friends were visiting from out of state about 15 years ago. We were all around my circular kitchen table when the hanging ceiling light started to shake above us. We all looked up thinking that an earthquake was about to happen. It then just suddenly stopped.

For a moment, the couple looked away from me towards the outside sliding glass door next to them. I didn’t think anything of it. They then looked at each other with a confused expression. Neither said anything to the other. We all agreed that the light shaking was strange as we continued our conversation.

A few years later, one of the two friends that had been at my house that day, asked me if I remembered the time at the table and what happened. I said, “Yea, I remember the weird shaking of the ceiling light fixture.”

The person asked if I noticed that they had looked outside. I remembered only that it was quick. In where I sat, I couldn’t see outside due to the glare, and we continued on with the conversation.

The friend paused not knowing just how to explain the next sentences to be said. “There was a child standing on your steps outside the sliding glass door that day. She was about 7 years old. We had both thought she looked familiar as she stood there just staring forward through the glass. It was you!”

Now for most people, that would have shocked them to think that a person they knew had a ‘live inner child’ showing up in broad daylight while having its adult counterpart three feet away. For me, I was shocked that someone actually saw a part of my weird life that I was aware of.

I knew this 7 year old aspect. She was not from the present. I would often feel her in my bedroom at night as if someone was looking at me. But I had no idea that two people would ever be witness to my weird experiences.

I’m grateful that I have since worked through these kinds of multi-dimensional time-collapsing memories. That little girl is safe, and her moments in time had been processed. She has no need to contact me in the present anymore as she is well integrated within.

Divinely guided
My newer friend and I continued our conversation as I shared about some of my wild synchronicities. I was explaining how my life is so divinely guided through some very reality-shifting experiences.

We were also discussing about the fate of the world. I have felt very optimistic for a year no matter what others herald as truth or conversed in fear about the worse case scenarios.

Hawk
It was then that my friend noticed a hawk in her yard perched on a bare branch about 75 yards away. She said that it was a rare sighting in her area…the desert. “This is very special and magical.” She pointed it out as the hawk was hard to see on zoom at first.

Then the hawk started talking up a storm, communicating very intently. This was uncommon behavior. I asked her what she thought it meant. She paused for a moment and was about to respond when the hawk launched off the branch, flew full speed towards her sliding glass doors almost hitting that side of her house, and then disappeared over her roof.

We both sat there stunned. We thought it was going to crash into the glass doors.

My friend kept repeating, “This doesn’t happen. It’s something special.” I asked her what does the significance of this hawk event mean.

She said it’s magical. Hawks know the higher picture.

“Yes,” I added. “It’s like the hawk energy understands the overview. Perhaps it was what I was sharing about the new changes to happen.” We both knew that this was a super-charged moment we were sharing together.

I later researched what the hawk also represents. Hawk energy has the power to have clear, discerning and deeper spiritual vision. This vision is not only the overview but can be very focused. This enhances the ability to see the future as well as have long distance memory. This resonated for me.

All hawks share the ability to gracefully move between the seen and unseen realms. They can join both worlds together as their keen vision and discerning nature help to keep them out of danger’s way.

With the hawk’s loud communication. I sensed that this regal bird wanted to respond to the conversation on the fate of the world. With her flight pattern, it seems that the overview will be experienced as chaos almost hitting a ‘window’ with great speed, but then it will shift lifting to higher levels. Wow! We are in such powerful times! What a profound, and synchronistic message!

Message of the hawk
As the world shifts through the chaos, remember the message and the magic of the hawk in going through this great transformation. Observe and pay attention to what is sent to guide you through All-That-IS, and the synchronicities to help embody clear wisdom and truth. With this ability to witness through the spiritual ‘heights’ comes the deep trust within. It’s what is necessary to bring in the New Earth.

With great respect for the divine synchronicities of life,
Judy

Helpful general Creator’s teachings/downloads you can download. Read, connect with All that IS at the 7th Plane, and say ‘yes’ if you’d like the following.

I know Creator’s perspective and definition, what it feels like, how, when, that it’s possible, I’m safe, that I can, I do (or I am/am able):

Witness the world rearrange itself with trust
Being in synch with Universal change
Problem solve with wisdom and intelligence
Be in sync with solutions
Acknowledge and appreciate great synchronicities
To connect the dots through inner wisdom
To live without chaos to transform

The Matrix Reflection

Tue, 29 Oct 2024 18:29:51 GMT

Quote for Reflection: “Unfortunately, no one can be told what the Matrix is. You have to see it for yourself.” ~ Morpheus, ‘The Matrix’

Internal process
There is so much to say that I’ve rewritten this Blog multiple times while feeling into what is the most important to express. Some of this thought rearrangement is because I was in an internal process of clarity in how to communicate it all. When I feel excited and divine inspiration is coming through, I have to take pauses in order to regroup and organize the input.

The Matrix
I decided to watch the Matrix again. It’s been over 20 years. In all the healing and changes I’ve been through, I wanted to see what felt relevant and rang true.

It was perfect! It felt like I was watching parallel realities flashing…like pieces of life’s puzzle pulling together in fast action….like my mind. It’s pure metaphysical entertainment with big truths scattered throughout–the battles that most don’t see behind the scenes, the hidden truths of the AI (artificial intelligence) running things, the awakening of one’s true self and power and trusting the process.

Movies are actually made to show what is really happening, though people call it science fiction. Those who understand the deeper information, know the truth.

It’s great to know the ending too. I can sit back and process it differently rather than being emerged in it. The ending is a reflection of what I truly feel is unraveling on the world stage. It supports me to just continue to simply enjoy the show when I choose to.

World has been staged
The way the world has been staged presently–in the most clever, astonishing, ingeniously creative, synchronistic and spectacular ways– is also entertainment of the Matrix. I can see the stages–the windows looking out to parking lots, the spliced filming, missing scenes, the full facial masks, the doubles. Thriller is definitely onstage.

And this isn’t the first time I’ve experienced this. The stages are directly parallel to what occurred for me growing up. This was my life. I witnessed and experienced these levels of covert deception and tactical ‘ops’ on almost a daily to weekly basis. So it’s not difficult for me to witness it play out.

The Shift
What is known in my core and spiritual connection is that the shift is not only here, but the illusionary staging will go into mass consciousness very shortly if it hasn’t already started as this blog is published.

We have been lied to for eons. Our history was written by those who wanted to keep us ignorant and controlled slaves through hierarchal structures of dominance.

This means that I’m not alone in what I lived through in the raw Truth of it. This massive awakening, particularly the diabolical smoke screens in the hiding of abuse and trafficking in tunnels, is being exposed. I’m being collectively joined by millions and millions in recognizing the depth of these covert manipulations and how this reality is being fully exposed on this Third Plane of Existence now. The matrix is falling apart.

The Effects
I wonder, though, the effects it will have on so many because the information is starting to be ‘dumped’ as of January. Shock trauma isn’t easy.

It’s showing up in the erratic ways already: The stock market manipulations, of countries massively protesting, world leaders stepping down, politicians and diplomats dying all of a sudden in one week, fear scares on mandatory vaccines that haven’t been tested and do harm, and the corporate President’s behavior. All of this has occurred along with congress illegally impeaching a past president when the military has already taken over. Even the mainstream can’t hide it with all its censoring.

This is so difficult for many and has been for a year through these manipulations. I have deep compassion in understanding suffering. And I also feel immense joy!

For those who are either biting at the bit, or saying ‘prove it’, please consider getting off the mainstream and join others who are living the shift with the resources truly available. Many are the people and the generals involved. Consider alternative social media platforms like Telegram if apple hasn’t deplatformed it yet. https://t.me/evolvingconsciousnessnondualitic

What might seem like a long time waiting for something solid to appear repeatedly in mainstream, is but a moment in creation. It’s a great time to be present to ourselves, self care, and prepare for our next step into our true waking dreams.

Third Plane
The Third Plane of Existence is brought into form through our individual and collective consciousness—our thoughts, emotions, programs, and beliefs. This is also true for animals and mammals as they are sentient beings.

How to break free from this illusion depends on the ability to balance and control our emotions and focus our thoughts. It also involves how well we are able to control our egotism which is the ‘dark side’ of living with an ego, our personality or what we hold as our identity, something we are connected to in this plane.

This balance, self control and focus brings us true freedom and sovereignty so we can easily and freely move through all the other Planes of Existence. We are then able to create health and manifest changes in this reality easily through All that IS. It’s through joy, love, acceptance of who we are and living in this moment.

Clue Dose
Due to the shifts in the planet’s energy and the continuing cosmic downloads, I feel more compelled to bring myself forward about my personal journey. The illusionary ‘results’ of a master staging on January 20th was so deceptive, that it spurred me to share even more.

To do this in a safer way, I give ‘a clue dose’. It’s like a little ‘homeopathic’ dose not to overwhelm anyone, as a little goes a long way.

Saying too much also lacks discernment. It will tip off those who abused me as if I’m announcing that I’m ready to lay on their railroad tracks to get rolled over again.

Logical and Deep Questions
About six months ago, I asked myself some very logical and deep questions while sitting in meditation with Creator. It was sparked by the continued ‘viral fear spread’. My questions were based on a thought that the playout would go south in the world and where would that leave me. I pondered:

Why would I live the first 23 years of my life being trafficked (in the many forms it’s done), experimented on, living in terror, witnessing horror, split apart and abused in very unbelievable ways?
Why would I spend thousands and thousands of dollars in going through intense therapy for the other half of my life, sometimes even teaching my therapists how to work with me in attempting to remember and make sense of what happened?
Why did I delve into alternative somatic, emotional and spiritual healing work to figure out who I was if in the end I would never see the results of my dedication, commitment, resourcefulness, and courage in assisting myself and humanity?
Why would I write books on the subject working until 3 AM with little sleep?
Why have I been writing on a revision for at least six years in bringing the new material into the book?
Why would I set myself up spiritually to end up back in a similar life screen of hardship, struggle or being killed?
Don’t I co-create my reality?
Don’t I believe and live spiritual principles?
Why would I want to go back living in victimhood?
Didn’t the traffickers create illusions of reality so that no one would believe me?
Didn’t they blame me for what they staged?
Didn’t my family do the same thing in the patterns of scapegoating and gaslighting?
Didn’t the traffickers create the many NDEs that occurred?
In remembering the NDEs, wasn’t I told by the beings of light and Yeshua why I was here, and why I had to go back to those moments in physical life?
Didn’t I experience amazing spiritual unseen support in very synchronistic ways?
Didn’t I have amazing friends who hugged me as they witnessed the pain I went through in remembering?

In just being with these questions, it became crystal clear that life would NOT make any logical sense to my very Capricornian mind to think or believe:

That I was going to end up in the same scenarios as I started my life
That I would end up in some internment camp held down to be injected, chipped and programmed similar to what occurred in my childhood
That I would need to discount or negate the gifts I gained because they would be taken away from me again
That I wouldn’t bring my Divine Timing, my purpose that I wanted to do with Creator, to humanity
That my spiritual guidance had abandoned me to a dystopian future
That who I am, is not, because the outer world is still defining me
That working with so many virtues to be here now, would somehow be lost or tossed to another lifetime
That my relationship with Creator is a total sham
That I wouldn’t be able to continue my journey in the joy I feel now

That is total and utter fear analysis, an amygdala hijack! It’s not anywhere on my radar for it to playout now. I don’t believe any of this true for my future. It’s the kind of fear being broadcasted for billions in different ways.

I’m inviting others to look at their lives in connection with Creator-of-All to question and release your personal fears too. We have purpose! We count and matter! We need to see this in ourselves. No one can rescue us from this.

Ask yourselves, what are you getting out of this broadcasted fear? What service is it doing for you in a very beneficial way? Are you learning discernment? Are you learning about your personal power? Are you learning how to connect with others? When you get this clear, you can release it.

We will complete our purposes and have fun doing it. That isn’t an order. It’s a joy! That is the Aquarian age energy!

Unfolding
Those questions are why I ‘get’ what is occurring now. It’s all interconnected into the unfolding of remembering my journey.

I didn’t know every detail of it in a month. I learned early on that the unfolding of too much information would flatten me, sometimes for days–Hippocampus overload and Autonomic Nervous System dysregulation.

That is why I did years of energy/body work as well. I feel a reverent need to acknowledge and respect that I have this amazing and miraculous physical form and consciousness to be present for and to take care of as well.

Galactic Federation
In the summer of ’98, being in my first class with Vianna Stibal (founder of ThetaHealing Technique) , she gathered a few of us together after the two days were done to privately share about some covert planetary and off grid occurrences She said that there was a Galactic Federation, similar to Star Trek’s peacekeeping force. They are here to help us evolve and be part of the interconnection with other star systems. Some walk among us. Some you may know but not recognize as such.

I felt the truth of this immediately. I suspected I was a Starseed and jumper (multi-dimensional experiences all at one time) from some strange memories that were filtering through then.

Vianna also mentioned that there was a spiritual/alien battle playing out on this 3rd Plane. That made sense. I just didn’t recognize how this was going to occur in details, and how it was connected to this 3rd Plane reality. I didn’t ‘hear’ it broadcasted by the world stage media then. At the time, I didn’t understand that I was actually part of that information.

Everyone of us have actually been affected by this ‘off grid battle’ as well. Some of our technologies come from it. This alien information is coming out more publically though many of us have known about it. (I’m not talking about the border walks.) It is why Vianna taught us how to remove non-medical implants. In a more expansive way, it’s really about stepping into our next evolutionary relationships.

I’m grateful again for not pushing for all the details at the time and allowing the process of remembering to be paced.

5th Plane story of Odin and Vianna
In the Advanced ThetaHealing book (pages 147-150) , Vianna experienced an amazing crystal layout journey with the support of her friend, Chrissy. This technique utilizes special crystals positioned to create a safe and sacred remote viewing grid.

The person is guided from the 7th Plane of Existence (Creator of All/Unconditional Love) and to other experiences either on or off grid. It’s not Shamanic but can be felt similarly. I have personally experienced a few…very powerful!

This is a heartwarming story about Vianna and Odin’s spiritual court appearance on the 5th Plane of Existence—the Plane of duality, the astral plane where the ascended Masters, gods, goddesses, angels, guides, and soul counsels intermingle. Thus the god, Odin, exists on this 5th Plane.

In a brief overview, there came a pivotal point where 5th Plane master beings were to decide whether humanity would be able to continue to exist or not on this 3rd Plane based on their merits and behavior. This court was comprised of those who are the caretakers for this planet.

There was a judge who would rule after the case was ‘argued’. Those attending had differences of opinions on evolving or destroying humanity as a civilization.

With Odin representing half the court, they felt that much of humanity, many whom were incarnated children of the 5th Plane, had gotten too far into destructive, greedy, irresponsible, and uncaring behavior. They forgot who they were and didn’t learn what they came to earth for.

Odin wanted a decision to destroy humanity, rebuild it at another moment in time, and bring those souls back to their spiritual home for remembering and deeper education. The other more evolved souls could be reassigned throughout the stars.

When it was Vianna’s turn, she represented the mother Goddess side. In great compassion, she held her hands up as a great luminescent light came from them. She spoke, “What about this?”

The recognition of the virtues of innocence and purity still existed in humanity as this amazing light could be seen and heard streaming from her hands….a baby’s presence…with joy and laughter. Vianna felt that humanity needed to be defended with every prayer.

It was at this part of reading the story that I was in tears. “The babies!! Do it for the babies, the new births, the new lives!” I felt like I was both feeling the experience in witnessing this beautiful act at that moment, and it also being a story.

The judge decided to allow humanity to continue. We’re here, humanity!!

Earthly Screenplay
And so it is for the earthly screenplay. We’re here now!

There are many things happening at once. There are battles on earth (cyber and energy ones) and in the sky. And there is Love on earth and in the sky. Love is always present wherever we are.

Living on this 3rd Plane, time and space exist here. Thus it takes time for different levels of truth to be revealed otherwise it’s too much to integrate as mentioned before.

We’ve arrived at the end of the beginning now—the finality of 15,000 years of massive destruction, distortions and corruptions, and of false histories by those who oppressed and their hierarchal power structures. These structures have been supported by the schemes of planetary actors who we are all interconnected with us now. The world is a stage…remember?!

Amazing actors
And I’m watching what I lived through being played out by the amazing aligned actors too. I mentioned this in my January Blog for the Soul. It’s all very multidimensional and exciting for me. https://theflowofhealing.com/2021/01/01/near-death-to-new-earth/

All of us have played roles in different multidimensional or simultaneous ‘past’ historical moments. Do you think all our roles were wonderful and brilliant in other moments? Let’s not delude ourselves that we were somehow purely virtuous in needing to remember who we are.

This is truly an epic movie we are here to enjoy! What I appreciate is that I’m not attached to the players and the scenes. These people were chosen for their roles with the virtues they had and what they wanted to develop on a soul level and on the world stage. Who am I to judge that or them?! The academy awards will never have a category for these performances.

Public awareness
Information that I learned over 20 years ago has now risen for public awareness and understanding. This is part of the trigger for the Great Awakening.

It is not a secret that the media has been corporate-owned with vested interests to their pocketbooks. Yet people believe them as God’s Truth without using discernment or connecting the dots.

These interests have funded what I lived through. This is big clue of what prevails when the dots are connected. This is part of the truth on this 3rd plane that Odin spoke to at the 5thPlane court…the abuse of power.

I have witnessed some historical events that I knew weren’t what the media was reporting. I have energetic antennas for this kind of deception. I can feel it in every cell of my body. Synchronistic events often occur to validate this intuition as well.

Consider that with the technology today, there is video simulation and Computer Generated Imagery (CGI) to create some of these grand illusions. Special interest groups and governments who create this want to feed the masses a bunch of loosh (fear) Again, it’s the corruption through money and power over others.

Contracts and ownership
What is very important to realize is that both the US and in many other countries, there has been a system where everything is based on contracts and ownership. This is because we have been corporately-owned since 1870 in the US. The corporate government has its own constitution. Yes, this is a fact. Our republic and its constitution were hijacked and submerged at that time.

There are certain documents signed that gave possession of the United States of America to foreign corporate entities whose main center was Washington, DC. Only 5% of law schools teach this. I have been in contact with a constitutional lawyer and with others who understand this. I will leave some sources so you can do the research and have fun connecting the dots.
http://www.expose1933.com/44-act-of-1871-is-treason.html
https://www.nationallibertyalliance.org/two-us-constitutions

Reality show
Does it make sense now that this is a Planetary reality show with multiple wrap-around screens occurring simultaneously? For me I’m able to ‘view’ the world’s circumstances from different perspectives, again without being attached, but in awe, wonder and excitement of what is being presented.

Witnessing all this, feels like a well rounded experience. Working at that third person perspective, which isn’t new to me but applied differently, has been expanding. I like it! It’s a very holistic viewpoint!

True Power
Viewing the real earthly truth allows us to own our true power aligned with All that IS. What I intuitively feel is that much of humanity will start to understand what the Awakening and sovereignty is. Self empowerment is essential. And some will choice to move on to other realms of existence to learn without their earthly body clothes connected. It’s about choices.

To experience the richness of being here now, “You have to let it all go, Neo. Fear, doubt, and disbelief. Free your mind.” (Morpheus, The Matrix) . We must let go of the old illusions that hierarchal structures and power outside ourselves are the highest and best way to experience freedom from fearful thoughts and regulation of our emotions.

It’s time to step up to the planetary truths so those old structures can disintegrate without pain and suffering.

“Do not try and bend the spoon. That’s impossible. Instead, only try to realize the truth… There is no spoon… Then you’ll see that it is not the spoon that bends. It is only yourself.” (Matrix) .

Bend with curiosity and joy. The stage and players are shifting now!

With deepest care in earth’s reality show!

Judy

Helpful general Creator’s teachings/downloads you can download. Read, connect with All-That-IS at the 7th Plane, and say ‘yes’.

I know Creator’s perspective and definition, what it feels like, how, when, that it’s possible, I’m safe, that I can, I do (or I am/am able) :

To take pauses in order to regroup and organize input
To recognize, look and see under the matrix
To live without shock trauma
To be able to balance and control my emotions and focus my thoughts
To be able to control my egotism
To experience my dedication, commitment, resourcefulness and courage in assisting myself and humanity
To live without hardship and struggle
To have available my amazing spiritual support at every level of my life
To live without the fear of being injected, chipped or programmed by others
That my spiritual guidance and Creator are right there with me
To acknowledge, respect and take care of my physical form and its consciousness.
To know that divine justice is always there
To have an expanded holistic viewpoint of this planet’s history and reality
To feel empowered in understanding the true history of the planet
For old structures to disintegrate without pain and suffering.
To experience the richness of being here now
To experience freedom of fearful thoughts forms
To bend and be flexible with curiosity and joy

From Near Death To New Earth

Tue, 29 Oct 2024 18:20:13 GMT

Quote for Reflection: People living deeply have no fear of death. ~ Anaïs Nin

Near Death Experiences
Back in April of 2008, a dear friend, and I went to the New Living Expo in San Francisco to particularly listen to Dr. Raymond Moody, one of the first scientists to write about Near Death Experiences, and Mellon-Thomas Benedict, a man who experienced an NDE in 1981. He was clinically dead from brain cancer and returned healed. Having had my own Near Death Experiences, I wanted to particularly hear about Mellon’s.

In listening to him, I learned what his personal trauma history was in what ultimately caused his death. He went through a life review in crossing over as all adults do.

Issues that Mellon had repressed became crystal clear, and he understood why he had created his brain tumor and the beliefs involved. There was a point where he became very emotionally vulnerable in sharing how he remembered and could feel his father beating his mother when he was in utero. He described the colors of anger he experienced and the shaking of his mother’s body. He stressed how sensitive and conscious fetuses are.

The beauty of it all was that Mellon had gone through forgiveness and made peace with his parents who were already dead by 2008. Part of his message was to discover and resolve our issues in real time, not the next lifetime, or we will only have to deal with the issues in the future. We are here to learn from our families, friends, ancestors, and in our world experiences.

This is a wonderful reminder for all of us in clearing our issues. And what a year of massive awakening this has been in order to do the work necessary to shift things…because they are shifting to a world many of us have been dreaming about.

Mellon further explained how beautiful humankind really is in having viewed them through All-That-Is, the absolute Pure Love. He witnessed us as points of Light through a mandala-like energy of sacred geometry.

The Future
As he described the future, it was if the energy of the talk shifted. It was like we were all experiencing the future together through Creator. My friend and I could feel the excitement.

I had seen glimpses of our future, but Mellon expanded and added some new twists. Keep in mind that when enough of us change our beliefs and thoughts, new possibilities arise into form.

Mellon shared that we are at an evolutionary point where we are transcending survival. Self initiation is occurring. This means we need to take responsibility for what we create and stop the paradigm of allowing others to manage our lives. (an inference to both familial and governmental control) . It is the time that we must come together around the world as we recognize ourselves as part of the ocean of consciousness, to see that we are all connected.

Now here we are, in 2021, in the age of Aquarius, where we will start to see this happen quickly. Yes, it will happen as we let go of the fear. (dig it out until you feel safe) Do not see the staged play as something horrific. It’s the greatest show on earth!

Mellon continued to share that our 3rd Plane awareness will become more powerful and psychic, which will be the gateway to the multi-dimensional interface with the cosmos. For many, this is already occurring.

No Fear
He suggested to, “Let go and just get into instant knowing” as the Higher Self conscious connection increases and supports us. I’m assuming that his ‘let go’ is not to physically die and come back but through conscious inner exploration and belief work. At that deeper consciousness, he says that there will be no fear.

When he was in that death experience, he saw our future ancestors, and they were different creatures without fear. They were that new creation, a new kind of being.

Mellon also realized that when humanity recognized that within each of us ‘was/is’ the same interconnected aspect of Creator, then we would wake up to the next level of higher consciousness. We won’t be able to take fear with us. That’s why we’re having trouble with it right now… because it does NOT exist in the future. The human species is being detoxified into a new vibration where fear doesn’t exist. There is nothing like a ‘plandemic’ as an awakening to do that.

Can you imagine a world without fear-based thoughts and actions? Can you imagine a human being living fearlessly without fighting? Can you imagine a world where nothing is taken away from us? Can you imagine that everyone is very important to the world?

Next Vibratory Awareness
In the next vibratory awareness, Mellon explained that the generation who watched ‘Star Trek, the Next Generation’, opened up a new possibility for earth. In what the mind can conceive, it can also create. The visionaries have been imagining for the group consciousness to build upon.

Mellon continued that in the near future, people won’t need to work for a living unless they want. They will be doing what they love. Wars will be illegal, and the military will become a service center. Cars will be driven by free energy with no tires. [Note: Area 51 has had these vehicles for years and so did the Nazi’s]. All the technology is already here.

As the future progresses, the technology to teleport (travel) outside of time and space through speed tunnels will be the regularly experienced. Of course, those of us who continue to use our remote viewing skills, are already traveling outside of time and space, but we will be joining others in a collectively new way. He concluded for us to prepare in how we want to live our lives and how we want to live our next lives.

About five years later, in 2012, I was able to have a personal phone conversation with him about his research, his travels, the healers and people he met after his death who helped him understand what he experienced during his NDE I recorded and transcribed the session but have never spoken of it publicly until now.

Mellon transitioned permanently from his human body in March of 2017. https://www.facebook.com/permalink.php?story_fbid=114283805824880&id=114253102494617 Many were and are unaware of this as his articles are all over the internet without mention. His girlfriend contacted me knowing Mellon and I had been in conversation. She needed support for his funeral expenses. Like so many who had great messages and understandings, financial stability seemed not available in his passing.

Technologies
The reason I share his story is not just for lending more hope and possibilities as ‘The World Turns’, but of my excitement around many new innovations and quantum technologies to heal people and change the environment. I actually own one of Mellon’s many inventions–the ‘Dream Spa.’ It uses patterns of LCD light for pain, sleep and rejuvenation. It had helped me so much when going through the Kundalini emergency where I had little sleep for years.

Just to say that I love 6th Plane technologies and stories about them. The Dream Spa doesn’t touch what is about to be brought onto this world stage. Many of the technologies about to be introduced are not from this planetary grid nor time period. Take a breath with that one.

About 20 years ago, I was at a friend’s home in Southern California where a traveled American scientist, who lived in Ireland, had just come from Brazil where he was visiting. His friend in Brazil was a scientist also. That scientist’s future self had come while he was sleeping to leave devices to be used in healing and environmental recovery. But there was an issue.

As the American scientist shared with me, all the technologies to change the conditions on the planet are being lined up and coming together. The issue was that the scientists and inventors would be killed. He was quite aware of the influences of the cabal and corruption. He, himself, actually had an invention that would clean up the oceans.

He kept telling me that the time wasn’t right yet. I knew this meeting was important for many reasons and that I would remember this for future reference.

I feel one of those future technologies that will be available shortly are the Tachyon Energy and Plasma Energy Medbeds. There are three types:

1) Holographic Med Beds
2) Regenerative Med Beds which regenerates tissue and body parts powered by a different source.
3) Re-atomization Med Beds that in about 2-3 minutes will regenerate the whole human body, head to toe.

That is why I’ve been very excited and also feeling so much joy. Holding onto all that I do know, waiting for the safe moments to share, has not been easy. But all these truths will be opening up soon.

Please know that all that I’ve blogged so far has been stepping stones of deeper understanding and awakening . From one of my favorite poems by Robert Frost…
I shall be telling this with a sigh
Somewhere ages and ages hence:
Two roads diverged in a wood, and I—
I took the one less traveled by,
And that has made all the difference.

With joyful tears for the New Earth arising.
Judy

Helpful General Creator’s teachings/downloads
I know what it feels like to, how to, when to, that it’s possible, to I’m safe, that I can, I do (or I am/am able to be):

Live without repressing truth
To resolve issues now
To live without carrying issues to the future
To be awakened without shock or trauma
The beauty of humankind
To take responsibility for what I create in thought and form
To recognize myself as part of the ocean of consciousness
To live without fearful thoughts and actions
To be accepting of new technologies of healing and environmental health
To feel the joy of the New Earth Rising.

Healing the Hearts of Men

Tue, 29 Oct 2024 18:14:47 GMT

Healing the Hearts of Men

We live in a society that accepts the emotional expression of girls and women but shuns the same expression in boys and men when they try to do the same! This leads to emotionally wounded boys that grow into emotionally suppressed and undeveloped men. They end up hurting others in an attempt to deal with what they don’t understand, with few resources to turn to for help, not to mention the inner warden they have to battle inside themselves just to feel safe enough to reach out!

We need to know better, and we need to recognize the need of both men and women and do better individually and collectively!!!

As the mother of one amazing daughter and four amazing boys, I have been on both sides and witnessed the crosses of the societal/cultural emotional castration that boys go through, and how heavy that becomes as they grow into men. It hurts my heart to see them struggle to face things alone so as to always be “strong” enough for women and children to lean on!

As a mother, my heart is connected to all of my children, and I can tell you my boys’ hearts as well as my daughters’ all beat the same. They all have the same feelings and emotions. They all experience heartbreak, pain, grief, and loss as well as love, excitement, joy, and happiness.

Being a boy or girl does not differentiate this. It does not mean one feels and one does not.

May the divine feminine in all of us emerge so as to create and hold space to support, love, and encourage the emotional expression, development, and growth of the Divine Masculine. No longer will we silence the call of the heart in men, nor expect them to carry the emotional burden of being cut off from themselves and the essence of who they are anymore!

We need our men to be strong, but they need us to be soft. As we work our way into a new world of balance and harmony, may we recognize the wounded masculine, nurture, encourage, and support his emotional expression so he can reconnect to himself and evolve into the divine masculine within him!

May my boys, as well as my daughter, always know that I love them, I see them, I feel them, and I am here for them!”

Melissa Martin

ThetaHealing® Technique Instructor

How to attract romantic love?

Tue, 29 Oct 2024 17:59:38 GMT

How to attract romantic love?

Inside our hearts, many of us have a calling to connect with someone to share our life with but do not know how to fulfil this desire in the highest and best way.

There are a few things that need to be mentioned as to why you might not have attracted your romantic relationship. With my clients, I could see that while manifesting was effective for some people. it didn’t work for everyone. Common patterns began to become apparent, and I found that there were many misaligned beliefs relating to relationships and love. One of the most common beliefs was: “It is impossible for me to find love again after my traumatic experience”.

We all carry imprints of subconscious programming as well as our beliefs inside us. To be able to create your conscious wishes, you need to clear your subconscious blocks. The majority of our decisions, actions, emotions, beliefs come from our subconscious mind which can make up 88% of our brain activity. Everything which we have stored in that part of our brain we are not even aware of.

Why is it important to clear your subconscious programming?

Through our past experiences, we might have learned to associate love with sacrifice, love with suffering, or love with losing the ones we love; and with all these painful connotations attached to the word and feelings of love, it is no wonder that on a subconscious level we are sabotaging meeting our soulmate.

Here are some common beliefs about love, do you resonate with any of those:

– Love is pain/sacrifice/betrayal

– I only attract narcissistic men

– Relationships are toxic

– Marriage is a trap/prison

– I am afraid I’ll get abused again

Some of those beliefs could run in the background of our minds and encourage us to avoid love so that we can stay safe.
The good news is that our beliefs are not all true and can be changed. For example, in my case, I was in an abusive relationship with very low self-esteem and was too afraid to stand up for myself and chose to be someone else’s punchbag. After such a traumatic experience, no wonder I stayed single for many years because I did not understand that what I experienced was a distorted version of love.

Our subconscious mind processes and records these experiences and can create beliefs around it such as ‘Love is dangerous’.
What could hold us back as well is that many of us are still energetically tied to past relationships which prevent us from moving forward today. An energetic divorce is a powerful technique that breaks the energetic connection and often prevents us from moving forward. Using the technique shows the universe that we are available and open for love again.

How can I clear my subconscious programming?

ThetaHealing® is one tool to clear blocks to achieve what we really want in life. By applying a meditation technique to access our subconscious limiting beliefs, such as ‘love is pain,’ we can replace them with empowering beliefs such as ‘love is safe’. It is important for us to clear out the self-limiting beliefs and associations around love so that the next best romantic relationship can be attracted more easily.
Yes, you can heal your love story. You are not a half soul, looking for a missing piece, You are already whole and complete. A romantic partner just adds to what you already are. You are worthy of finding peace in love again.

Claudia Prsa

An Orientation Of Normalcy?

Tue, 29 Oct 2024 17:43:58 GMT

Quote for reflection: “It seems that nonsense is the only sensible recourse to remedy the nonsense of society’s accepted normalcy.” ~ Natasha Tsakos

Normal
The big trend word these days is ‘orientation’ and the media push is acceptance of these orientations as the ‘new normal’. So what is normal anyways?

Looking at the definition, it’s anything that is accepted within a large enough status quo that is made to appear usual, common, standard, average, natural, regular, or ordinary.

I grapple with this word, because ‘normal’ is about a standard set outside myself which I may or may not agree with. Besides, what would feel normal to me, would be very different for others who are not living in my body nor having had my experiences. When a child is trafficked, ‘normal’ is nothing anyone would want to experience.

Normal is often correlated in beliefs about how to behave. And some behaviors are acceptable in societies that do harm. This goes back historically to include such ‘normals’ as the routine use of children as ‘poison containers’ or as a ‘toilet’ to prevent adults from feeling overwhelmed by their anxieties during ancient Greek times.

I was once at an estate in Maui where all the children ran around without clothes and pooped wherever they wanted to without being told that it was unsanitary, and smelly to others. The kids just couldn’t bring it in the house on their shoes, so the shoes were left outside if they were worn at all.

What do you think these kids learned? It sure wasn’t about cleanliness. But it was acceptable to the parents. This told me about their boundaries being eschewed.

Is this normal? In their world, it was. Would you want this as normal in your space?

When a ‘new normal’ comes out socially with the allowance of unaccountable, deceptive, and harmful behavior towards children while promoting it as ‘cool’ and ‘acceptable’, I feel there is an issue that needs a conversation.

We’re being told that this is what is going to be allowed, and we better come to accept it. For me, it’s the same as masks and social isolation–both harmful and deceptive cult and slavery practices when mandated, and both crossing my boundaries in attempting to deny me my human rights of sovereignty of my body, health, and environment.

Consent
For clarity, children cannot give consent to sexual relationships with adults no matter what the new ‘experts’ are saying. Children’s boundaries are not developed unless the caregiver or parents have clear and healthy boundaries and take the time to model and teach this to their children during their developmental years.

Children have no idea of the ramifications of sexual relationships and are easily confused and manipulated by ‘trusted’ people who appear ‘nice’ to them and often give them ‘special’ treats, favors and focused attention. This is the start of the grooming process.

Children are also sensual and social beings. They want connection with their primary caregivers and others. They explore their bodies. They want acceptance to explore themselves. They don’t want to be shamed, and they don’t want to be taken advantage of by being manipulated, deceived and abused.

Parents who have clear and healthy boundaries, also have the ability to make caring suggestions in accepting and supporting their children’s bodily explorations in safety. If this involves their child’s genital areas, it can be advised to explore in their bedrooms in order to give them personal privacy. It’s just like not pooping all over the place. There is a space set aside, boundaries that are taught without shaming.

Pedophilia as a sexual orientation
The ‘new normal’ that is being rolled out is called ‘pedophilia as a sexual orientation’. When I read from academia the following, I felt a somatic knee-jerk response.

On the “prevalence of pedophilia” that the “majority of men are probably pedophiles and hebephiles” and that pedophilic interest is normal and natural in human males.”~Philip Tromovitch, a Doshisha University professor https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bmv2pPONdXY

AND

“ Pedophiles are…Grappling with what is equivalent to a sexual orientation just like another individual maybe grappling with heterosexuality or even homosexuality, and if we agree on the fact that true pedophiles have an exclusive preference for children, which is the same as having a sexual orientation.” ~ Hubert Van Gijseghem, (retired) University of Montreal professor

REALLY?! Not in my book!

Ok, I have some strong feelings about these statements. Sometimes my tolerance levels are tested especially during a Mars retrograde in Aries and an ensuing Mercury Retrograde coming up in two weeks.

Twisting in the logic
Notice the twisting in the logic, the ‘normal’, ‘the natural’. “If we agree on the fact that true pedophiles have an exclusive preference for children [which they do, so I agree], it’s then the same as having a sexual orientation?” Why is that? Why is the ability to hurt children being correlated with heterosexuals or ‘even’ homosexuals who grapple with their sexual orientation?

Pleeeaaase! These kinds of narratives feel like I jumped off a chair and ended up in the middle of a Florida swamp….illogical, murky, slimy and dangerous. This professor’s logic is a far jump from a reality of safety for children, but it’s being supported as acceptable by those whose agenda it serves. And the LGBTQ community completely rejects this association in being lumped together with pedophiles as an orientation.

So how did it come to pass that ‘the majority’ of men’s proclivity is to be interested in having sex with children? Examples have been given of the ancient Greek elites keeping boys…the societal sanctioned abuse of little children and calling it ‘normal’. Notice these were elites. Honestly, this is information that pedophile ‘experts’ are using to prove their points!

Why does the abuse of children from thousands of years ago need to be experienced as socially acceptable now? As far as I’m concerned, pederasty is not acceptable or healthy relational behavior in any shape, size or form. It is a trauma response that comes from symptoms of sexual abuse, and oftentimes this has been suppressed or repressed.

With this kind of defining of pedophiles’ sexual orientation as normal, we would be agreeing that sexual abuse is about sex, but that’s not what I have found to be true at all. It’s about hierarchal structures of domination power over others who are unable to defend themselves. It’s about seeing the child as an object of lesser value and meaning, and what can be taken from the child to regain a loss of power and love that wasn’t received.

The sex becomes an act of intrusive, permeating, threatening and/or violent domination over the ‘object’ and the suppression of the ‘object’s free will’. It happens in a dissociative state that lacks the understanding of care, empathy, true power and developed relational skills.

So with this information, let’s take a deeper dive into this trend of acceptance of pedophilia.

‘Ethical Pedophiles’
There are pedophiles who never act-out their sexual obsessions and instead identify as ‘self-confessed non-offending pedophiles’, ‘Non-Offending Minor-Attracted Persons (NOMAPs)’, ‘ethical pedophiles’, or ‘gold star pedophiles.’ They have an attraction to prepubescent children but control their urges and refrain from watching child pornography or seeking sexual contact with minors.

Men, like Todd Nickerson, who identify in this way, want to support other pedophiles to seek help for their sexual obsessions. He believes that it is not ethical to act on the urges and never has, but he claims pedophilia is better understood as a sexual orientation. He is the moderator of the online forum ‘VirPed’ – short for ‘virtuous pedophiles’.

There is also “The Prevention Project,” which gives a strong voice to NOMAPS by broadcasting, “Everyone deserves support.” That’s great, but do they take it to the next step to get professional help?

If a person has bulimia, a food disorder, they will end up harming themselves. If a person is experiencing feelings of pedophilia, their feelings put into action are going to harm a child.

I do have empathy for non-offending pedophiles who restrain their urges. It’s a brave stance to even share their feelings, but if they are not getting professional help for the root cause, what stresser would cause them to act out with a child? The process of desensitization starts by attempting to normalize the individuals who have not yet committed the crimes.

In that understanding, it certainly doesn’t make way for correlating pedophilia as a sexual orientation. Again, it’s a trauma response that comes from symptoms of sexual abuse just like origins of many food disorders.

Normalize pedophilia
Then there’s NAMBLA-North American Men and Boys Love Association. They have been attempting to normalize pedophilia for years. In my research, I found that their membership has ‘acting-out’ predatory pedophiles. They want to roll back the age of consent so that pedophilia has more opportunity to be masked as ‘normal’.

There are different categories of predatory pedophiles based on the age of the child. These include infantophiles (those are attracted only to infants), hebephiles (attracted to pubescent 11 to 14-year-old children) , and ephebophiles (attracted to post-pubescent children) . Lowering the age of consent would put all ages of children in danger due to the nature of the hidden aspects of the root cause, the grooming process, and the trading of information with other pedophiles, yet the predator would be normalized.

If we give pedophilia an orientation, the next step is giving them legal rights. And legal rights need to be protected. Do you see where this is going? Job applications at schools? Day care centers run by legalized pedophiles? So if a pedophile went for a job interview stating his orientation, he would be protected under discrimination laws and would need to be considered for hire.

Just to say that two close relatives were abused as children in a daycare center run by two Satanic pedophile sisters who later moved to another daycare where 40 children were abused. This became a famous ritual abuse case in Northern California in the 80’s. The pedophiles escaped arrest to do more harm to other children in another state.

Legal system
On January 1, 2021, California legal SB 384 (Bill 145) changes the current lifelong registry system mandated for all sex offenders to a tier-based system where certain offenders who file a petition and meet specific criteria can be eligible to be removed from the list. In other words, if an individual is convicted of a sex crime with a minor no younger than 14, he or she is able to petition to be removed from the sex offender registry after 10 years if a judge agrees to that petition. www.dlawgroup.com/california-senate-bill-145-misguided/

How corrupt is our political and legal system to allow this? No brainer. Do judges get bought off?? No brainer.

In the UK, the Judicial Proceedings Reports Act was changed in February ‘20 prohibiting Victorian victims of sexual attacks or abuse from identifying themselves publicly in sharing their stories if their attacker has been found guilty. They could be jailed for up to four months or face fines exceeding $3000 for telling their stories using their real names.

All of a sudden, the legal system is given the power to determine who the victimized person can publically call out in being abused or raped. The ‘secret’, the need to hide one’s identity, is being normalized and stuffed back in the closet with the threat of punishment if spoken. Sounds like what happens in the dynamics of incestuous families. www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-8664033/Baffling-law-passed-rape-victims-thrown-JAIL-just-telling-stories.html

Public schools
In public schools, children can obtain ‘5 Tips for Your Sexual Health’ from unions posing as teachers. They are deceptively named ‘Healthy Teen Network’ which is a coalition of over 180 sexual and reproductive health justice organizations.

Through Ella Dorval Hall, a 2018 college graduate with a degree in environmental studies, ‘tips’ are shared to encourage children to engage in sexting, pornography, self-dating and communications with online social media and sex ‘experts’ who instruct them in using sex toys, ‘dirty talk’ and sexual consent.

So while parents are attempting to protect their children from online predators, the public schools hire people like Hall who assure children that sexting makes women four times more likely to feel “empowered” and “confident,” and then provides links including 54 sexting ideas that are so X-Rated that the author couldn’t print them in her article. This is educational and societal sexual grooming normalized. www.washingtontimes.com/news/2020/jul/15/how-public-schools-groom-kids-for-sexual-predators/

In higher education, the teens are also being taught that pedophilia is a sexual orientation. There are many self professed pedophiles who feel it’s their duty to come out as being accepted in who they are, but it’s really their misaligned, inverted and perverted behavior that they seek approval and acceptance. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x_F37h-bnz0&feature=youtu.be

Pedophile symbols
Social media, like Facebook, Twitter, Instagram and YouTube, is scrubbing pages that want to stop pedophilia and child trafficking. Certain hashtags are being politicized to delete accounts that want to protect children because of media censorship. Instead, these medias are allowing cryptic pages with pedophile symbols and overpriced storage cabinets to call in those ready to buy, sell, trade, and abuse children along with the help of search engines including Google (use duckduckgo instead) .

Hollywood, Disney, Netflex and the music industry are full of pedophiles who have been operating for years in hypersexualizing, abusing and trafficking children. The symbols are embedded right in the movie images, seen on the props used, on the buildings filmed, on the clothes worn and positions the children are told to hold.

The industry makes billions off of their normalization of pedophilia through manipulating parents and their child actors in how to move up the grooming ladder. The price is often dissociation, addictions, and/or death by suicide or being ‘suicided’.

Genetic?
There is also a trend to normalize pedophilia behavior as a sexual orientation by saying that it’s genetic. I definitely believe in genetic trauma and have seen it come through people from their ancestors affecting their health and beliefs. Historical trauma experienced by past generations can influence the structure of our genes through epigenetic changes which are more likely to “switch on” due to adverse responses to stress and trauma.

However, the research and studies are NOT meant to be used as a ‘get-out-of-jail-free’ card to normalize pedophilia as a sexual orientation. It does NOT cause people to become pedophiles and act this out on others. This has been twisted by an agenda to negate accountability, as an excuse to muddle the effects of sexual abuse, and to make it benign, harmless, and acceptable.

Environmentally developed
Pedophiles are ‘environmentally developed’ ( my creative expression) , meaning that they were abused at some point during their womb through childhood journey whether emotionally, physically, sexually or all of them. This leads to the continuation of a predatory behavior, dissociation, and the acting out of their unprocessed and unhealed abuse. Many have dissociative disorders that go unrecognized in how they cope in life, but the devastating results are seen every single day in the world.

When we accept authoritarian ‘experts’ inversions of pedophilia as the new ‘normal’, we are accepting the initiations of what is done in cults. This includes allowing in the fear-based energy of ‘dark’ spells that overtake the psyche. I lived this kind of inverted and abusive life as a child, and I will never accept this as my ‘normal’. I will not go with the flow when there is a dam that has been broken. I will not agree to say that this is society’s ‘new normal’. I hold this is true on many levels about what is created to be normalized.

Voice to say NO
I have the power and a voice to say NO. I invite you to join me to say NO also as our true power aligned and interconnected can collectively change the trending perversions and inversions of what is being normalized.

If we as a society are so disturbed by the actions of Epstein, Maxwell and an untold number of others, I support you in making a difference. This can happen by learning about the signs of pedophilia and abuse, sharing them with others, working with your own beliefs and patterns, sharing this blog, and by standing in your truths at this very pivotal time in history.

The Moving Beyond Trauma Project is a growing non profit organization formed to facilitate and support the healing of those who have unresolved childhood abuse issues and those who want to help them. We do this through the awareness and principles of the non-dualistic spiritual principles of the ThetaHealing®Technique.

We have free resources– podcasts, FB lives, blogs—and are delivering initiatives to further Trauma Education and healing like, The Moving Beyond ‘Book Club’ which is interactive and recorded. This is available to join for all ThetaHealers. https://themovingbeyondtraumaproject.org/product/book-club/

Financial donations are gratefully welcomed to support our mission and are considered tax deductible contributions if in the US.

With deep care in protection of children,

Judy

Helpful Creator’s teachings/downloads

I know what it feels like to, how to, when to, that it’s possible, that I can, I do (or I am/am able to be) : To create my own normalcy

To discern through my body and Creator in knowing my own normal
To live without accepting the unacceptable
To live without consenting to the unacceptable
To model appropriate boundaries for children
To recognize what the grooming process of children involves
To live without normalizing pedophiles as a sexual orientation
To be proactive in stopping pedophilia

Our Words Carry Vibrations

Tue, 29 Oct 2024 17:30:09 GMT

Quote for the Month: “The words we choose to use when we communicate with each other, carry vibrations…. The words we use are showing how we think and how we feel. The careful selection of words, helps to elevate our consciousness and resonate in higher frequencies.” ~Grigoris Deoudis

They seem to be the quotes of the year. I hear so many people say them. They are like the verbiage when a silence might have been more thoughtful, when a somatic relationship might have lent to truthfulness, and when emotional bypassing grabs the baton and runs without anyone stopping it.

But for my body, it has an interesting reaction to it. It recoils. It feels startled. It’s like living in a family with a pink elephant in the living room and no one claims it exists yet you’re staring at it. It’s like watching my life through my memories, and someone flat out says, “How could that ever happen? It just didn’t”.

One phrase is ‘Get over it!’
This can be extended to say:
Get over knowing the real truth. (It’s disruptive to the societal dialogue.)
Get over healing. (It’s taking too long.)
Get over grieving. (It brings up too much for others…depressing to be around.)
Get over feeling. (Stay on a straight line and pretend to be positive.)
Get over setting boundaries. (Go with the flow. Loosen up. You’re too sensitive.)
Get over working to make a difference. (Because the world isn’t worth it in all that is happening.)
Get over researching what is really happening. (You’re just a conspiracy theorist wasting time with fake news.)

Get over it…get over it…and get over it all!
What a convenient way to dismiss and negate what is important in a person’s experience that helps them to grow, feel passionate, connects the dots and patterns, and stops the cycles of victimization. Ever happen to you? Do you say this to others or been on the receiving end?

But no one seems to say:
‘Get over staring at your text messages’. (At least I’ve never heard that one).
Or ‘Get over your son’s autism situation.’ (Ok, perhaps zdoggMD says this.)
Or ‘ Get over laughing at the comedian who is performing jokes about drone attacks on Muslims. (That might be something to get over)
Or ‘ Get over not receiving your retirement, social security, bonus, or what you already paid into’. (Hope that won’t become a trend!)

And then there is a similar one that I hear others say to themselves. When this happens, I’m listening with all ears, and thinking, “I know this couldn’t be true.’

“I’m over it (Or I’m over this) ! ”
To me, this statement has been adapted to something it isn’t. To be over something, means it’s completed, that the experience or action has occurred. It’s the past tense. But these days, it’s a way to vent frustration with no or little preparation for the actions needed to make it past tense.

“I’m over being taken advantage of.” (When you can hear they haven’t a clue how to say ‘no’ to the other without feeling guilty.)
“I’m over the way s/he continually leaves me for another.” (When being treated differently would require self respect, which isn’t being worked on.)
“I’m over hardly making it month to month.” (When there are beliefs or memories about not deserving financial abundance which haven’t been cleared nor action taken to change things.)
“I’m over this politician.” (When the person’s eyes are red with fire in seething about the person.)

These are not in the past. These are being experienced and felt in the present.

Our words, our phrases, our experiences all have meaning. They also matter and count. They have frequency. They are vibrations.

When we want to be understood, adding negation or sarcasm makes it difficult for another to have clarity or be present to what is being related. It’s the same when we do it to ourselves. It keeps us in denial and creates disconnection within.

When we learn to use our language in ways that support empathy, care, presence, openness, curiosity, wonder, and understanding, we are entering a state of connection.

So as the world is going through its many changes, and people feel a growing sense of disconnection, remember that telling them to ‘get over it’, won’t help another’s situation; nor will telling another that ‘I’m over it’, help the other to understand your experience, in what is really going on in not being ‘over it’.

If clarity, honesty, and emotional vulnerability is to happen, we need to discover what our current feelings are in the present and admit what is true to ourselves. Then trust building with another can occur.

Changing our words and expression can change our frequency in so many ways. And being about to relate and connect with others is vital in human interaction.

With care,
Judy

I extracted possible ‘theme’ beliefs from the story. Energy test yourself for them, practice clearing them through digging if applicable, and use Creator’s teachings, including the ones below, if they fit.
Beliefs:

I attempt to use phrases that minimize what I really want to say.
I use phrases to minimize what others say when they seem stuck, or different than how I would do things.
I have emotional expectations of how others need to move through situations in their life.
I trust myself to say what I mean clearly.
What I say has little meaning in how I express it to others.
Changing my expression of myself and others, changes my frequency.

Helpful Creator’s teachings/downloads

I know what it feels like to, how to, when to, that it’s possible, that I can, I do (or I am/am able to be):

To say what I mean and mean what I say
To know when I’m really over it
To be able to hear another without having expectations in when they need to be over in their situation
To let go of my expectations of how others need to move through situations in their life
To trust myself to use my words wisely in what is true for me
To use my words wisely in what is true for me
To use clarity and honesty to relate and connect with others
To use emotional vulnerability where the foundation for trust building skills has occurred
To appreciate the meaning and significance of how I express myself to others
To grow in frequency change by the ways I express myself inward and in the world

Car-Ma & Your Beliefs

Tue, 29 Oct 2024 17:23:18 GMT

Quote for the Month: Your car was created through thought and eventually became a manifested thought form. If you took a powerful microscope and looked at your car with it, you would see the vibrating molecules and particles. ~ Frank Kinslow from his book ‘The Secret of Quantum Living’.

Manifesting for a car has been a rather simple process for years. I feel I have good Car-ma around this.

Back in the 80’s when I was still married, I went searching for a station wagon as a second car to transport my 4 kids and their friends. The place I went first was in the next county south of where I lived. I didn’t find what I wanted and was heading home when I heard an inner voice telling me to get off the Novato exit.

Keep in mind that this was years before I even fully recognized I was intuitive, clairaudient, or was part of anything called ThetaHealing. I had never been in this town before.

The voice continued with specific directions…turn left, make a right, head down this way… and landed me right in front of a dealership that had the perfect car that would work for my family. I was in shock about this for years. It was all so easy because I trusted that voice.

I bought and sold several during the following years. Starting in ’02, I was able to ‘feel’ more about my cars. I’d name them and even tune into them occasionally.

My ’99 Saturn was bought at a dealership. The salesman played games with me around the pricing. I had done the research through Kelly blue book and knew what that kind of car was worth. I almost walked away without the car, but the salesman saw I was serious with my bottom line and gave me the price I wanted.

I named my car Blue Boy as he was a beautiful cobalt blue with his own male personality. I drove him to Idaho within two weeks after I bought him. I wasn’t sure if I liked how he handled as he had tight steering. His energy felt off too, probably from the energy of the dealership. Thetahealers didn’t know how to energetically charge a car in those early days either.

When Vianna saw me after class, she looked intently and said, “You got a new car, huh? He’s not sure if he likes you.”

I burst out laughing. I told her I wasn’t sure if I liked him either. We were in an intro phase.

Blue Boy actually ended up saving me in a car accident. He was built so well that he endured a car slamming into the driver’s side of him and his sturdy steel frame took the impact protecting me. The insurance took care of his blow, and we both did fine.

I decided I wanted to sell Blue boy a few years later. I wanted a gas/energy efficient car.

I put out a manifestation through Creator of the model color (silver as preference but white would be ok too) , that it be a private party, that the mileage be lower, the price range that I wanted it to be, and when I needed it by.

I downloaded Blue Boy to get him prepared to sell. I asked for someone who would really care for and appreciate him. And the perfect person came saying she had been in a crash which had totaled her Saturn and wanted one like her other car. Blue Boy fit her criteria. She was so delighted to have found what she wanted, and I knew he’d be taken care of well.

And I found my white Prius with low mileage within the price and time range I put out from a private party who needed a bigger car. The car was well maintained. I named her White Cloud because she was so quiet in driving and felt like I was floating in the lightness of her.

She was a most wonderful car for 13 years with hardly any problems. I gave her lots of downloads and charged and blessed her over the years. She was my steady and reliable friend. I felt protected and safe in her.

This year I decided that many things were going to change, and I deserved a newer used car. I never buy new ones…probably some beliefs I could change around that, but I’m ok with this now.

I wanted another Prius and set up the manifestation in June. But the summer wasn’t the right time. The eclipse and retrograde season was too intense to deal with the energy of looking for another car as I started to feel this heaviness in early July.

So when all the 5 retrogrades were over in early September, and before Venus is to go into retrograde in October, I decided now was the time. I did my research and two cars appeared within my price range…one silver and one white. I had wanted another white one but was flexible.

The white car ’s owner never showed up for our appointment nor returned my calls or texts. It was very strange. I asked Creator what happened, and right off-the-bat I heard, “It isn’t about you.” It was a good answer since I thought I must have done something wrong in being eager to buy it.

I accepted Creator’s response, and then heard that I would really enjoy the silver car. It has a moonroof and is the top of the line for 2016 with many ‘luxury’ features. Creator reminded me that though I didn’t get the silver color in ’06, I got it this time. It made me giggle as I hadn’t even correlated the manifestation preferences.

Knowing I was going to buy it with the sellers giving me their bottom line price, which was totally reasonable, I needed to get White Cloud prepared for a change of ownership. I spoke with her in my garage as I gave her some Creator’s charges.

And then the tears started to flow. This was my steady transporting friend. I so appreciated her presence in my life. It reminded me how much I went through in selling my townhouse in ’12…cried so much in letting her go.

The next day, the transaction went really smoothly in purchasing the ’16 Prius…again in the county below where I live.

My friend’s son was willing to sell White Cloud for me. He washed her, put an ad on Craig’s list and I left with my new Silver Fox. But something felt amiss after a day or two away from White Cloud.

I kept feeling her really unhappy. She knew she wouldn’t sell down there. Besides, people were lowballing the price. It felt disrespectful. I knew her value. Creator had said the week prior that I’d get around the price I wanted and that she would also sell in 3 to 5 days.

I needed to bring her home to sell. I took a train ride to the other county a few days later on a beautiful Friday morning. My friend’s son picked me up in White Cloud. I dropped him off at his home after giving him something for his time and care, said hello to my friend, and brought White Cloud home.

We had another chat. She wanted to be ‘home’ before she was to leave permanently. I gave her more Creator’s charges, told her how much I appreciated her again and asked if she was ready. She was.

I sold her the next day to a lovely couple who came from another town. They wanted to bring her home to their daughter who had been rear-ended by a semi which totaled her Prius. I could tell that White Cloud liked the couple as I did. Everything went smoothly including getting what I felt White Cloud was monetarily worth.

I found it so interesting that there were such similar reoccurrences in selling Blue Boy and White Cloud to their respective new owners with each having had an accident prior and wanting something similar for their next car.

So when and as you manifest for inanimate objects, remember that they have consciousness, that they have energetic attachments that need to be shifted in order to sell them. Remember to remove blessings you might have put on them. Be sure to release your own energy from them. Give them charges to prepare them for their next owners, and give appreciations for what you feel they gave to you in service.

If you are buying a car, give your new vehicle downloads and charges as well. Remove energy from the last owners. Tell the car often how you appreciate it.

Having a relationship with all aspects of creation supports how to expand our consciousness to live with magic and gratitude. All Planes of Existence have consciousness and all things have a God Spark.

With care and gratitude,
Judy

Beliefs:

Inanimate objects have consciousness that can be heard or felt.
It’s impossible to communicate with a car.
Giving a name to a car is being too attached to it.
Cars have sentience.
I can have something new without waiting for the old to breakdown.
Creator has difficulty expressing through inanimate objects
I have a difficult time listening to inanimate objects.

Helpful Creator’s teachings/downloads

I know what it feels like to, how to, when to, that it’s possible, that I can, I do (or I am/am able to be) :

To know that inanimate objects have consciousness that can be felt or heard.
To treat a car like a friend
To communicate with a car or other inanimate objects
To can give to myself inanimate objects without other things needing to breakdown
To recognize the God spark in inanimate objects (or cars)

Possible Creator’s Charges for a car (giving it a purpose)

To be beautiful…attractive…cared for in Highest & Best way
To run easily, efficiently, and effortlessly
To be safe and protective
To be mechanically sound
To have efficient fuel mileage
To pass any smog tests easily and effortlessly
Be comfortable and accommodating

Possible Creator’s Teachings for a car (what it feels like to, how to, when to, that it’s possible) :

To be impervious to: negativity…to accidents…to damage
To run without polluting the environment
To be able to be safe, protective, efficient, comfortable
To feel cared for and cared about

Lessons From Reflections

Tue, 29 Oct 2024 17:17:44 GMT

Quote for Reflection: Without reflection, we go blindly on our way. ~Margaret Wheatley

Many reflections

As 2022 is half way over and the world is rapidly de-structuring making way for creating a new energy, I’ve been going through many deep reflections about life, relationships, and my heartfelt passions. I want my heart to feel acknowledged, fulfilled, loved and cared about in what energy it participates with the rest of me. I’ve literally touched my heart and chest so many times in connecting to my feelings and emotions in deciding how I wanted the next part of my life to be.

About five years ago, I did a blog called ‘What I learned’. I decided to use that as a spring board to complete this chapter of my life in living in California. Yes, I’m letting go of my home and moving across country.

My heart hasn’t been in California for almost three years. It has kept telling me that we need to move on. I want my heart to feel acknowledged, fulfilled, loved and cared about in what energy it participates with the rest of me. I’ve literally touched my heart and chest so many times in connecting to my feelings and emotions in deciding how I wanted to shift out of this year.

Derealization

Living these last 2.5 years understanding what is going on with the world along with growing support and with the more recent May eclipse energies, has been like experiencing derealization… an altered experience of detachment, unreality from, or unfamiliarity with one’s environment. It’s been like watching myself in a movie. Interesting that is what many say is really happening… we’re all in a movie together.

A storm

I think this detachment has happened because something really new is coming this month for all of us, like a storm that will change the trajectory of how the waters enter the shore along with what debris and what new life will come from it. I’m feeling like I’d be swimming upstream against the tide if I continued staying in California when new ways and connections will be needed elsewhere for me.

My hopes and dreams are to do more podcasts, group teaching after the revised Moving Beyond book is published (almost done), and inviting more participation with others in The Moving Beyond Trauma Project team projects and so much more.

Sooooo…

What I’ve Learned

I’ve learned…
That the game of control is to keep others in fear which reflects their unhealed wounds.
I’ve learned…
That deceit, deception and betrayal easily occurs in the world when we haven’t cleared these energies from within ourselves.
I’ve learned….
To feel deep appreciation for understanding the systematic ways of mind control so it can be easily avoided or healed.
I’ve learned…
That I have no tolerance for controlled narratives and being told what I have to do to be healthy. There is nothing like a BS detector that doesn’t need validation to operate.
I’ve learned…
That small talk, when a war has occurred, is like a pink elephant in the middle of the living room in a dysfunctional family. What is real isn’t shared nor spoken to. This no longer resonates.
I’ve learned…
How afraid people are of death that they will live in restrictions of their freedoms, and think it’s a ‘normal’ life.
I’ve learned…
That breathing unobstructed and freely can never be regulated under any situation as a ‘natural’ response to another’s emergency.
I’ve learned…
That what is legal is not necessarily lawful. There is big difference.
I’ve learned…
We can see the depth of trauma responses in how easily people’s amygdala can be hijacked and their frontal cortex/logical brains go off- line.
I’ve learned…
That living through this unpronounced war of consciousness has had me pronouncing my experience in a much more dynamic way.
I’ve learned…
That the fighting mode only exhausts the adrenals and body allowing for depletion; where standing straight in the truth of the matter anchors in a grounded, energized, and present way.
I’ve learned…
That my tolerance for willful ignorance has lessened, but that compassion and understanding is there from a distance.
I’ve learned…
That letting go of misaligned relationships keeps me open to who resonates with my evolving growth. Not all relationships are meant to continue.
I’ve learned…
That asserting free will and clarity of vision creates more of itself to move the world forward.
I’ve learned…
That aligning the heart with the body opens up more depth to Creator’s energy.
I’ve learned…
To lean into, rather than retract from internal emotional pain will free it from holding onto the core. We are not our pain.
I’ve learned…
That we exist in a moment of time so make the best out of it in knowing we chose to be here now.
I’ve learned…
That in order to show up for our life, we must be willing to stretch our self beyond our comfort zone on a daily basis. Exercise works!
I’ve learned….
That the depth of the pain we release offers us an opportunity to deepen self Love and self forgiveness, which has always been the remedy.
I’ve learned…
That Love on this Plane can have boundaries and to use them whenever we feel another’s misaligned expression of Love being forced upon us.
I’ve learned…
That ‘being nice’ isn’t authentic nor trustworthy in a relationship. There is a difference between real relatedness and those that are accommodating out of internal obligations.
I’ve learned…
That I have deep care and understanding in witnessing another’s trauma responses but may choose not to be around them if there isn’t the inner work done to shift things.
I’ve learned…
That there is a difference between complaining or ruminating about things, and noticing or sharing how an experience has affected us and what we’re doing to change it. This takes us out of any victim position.
I’ve learned…
To respect my time as precious and sacred, and not place my energy where I feel drained.
I’ve learned…
To be present to the feelings and sensations in my body without judging them. This is big deal!
I’ve learned….
That to ignore the Truth of a situation does not change the reality of it.
I’ve learned….
How to discern fear mongering and control from true educational resources
I’ve learned…
That Truth is not competitive. We will all learn what it really is even if we once thought it looked a certain way.
I’ve learned…
That another’s interpretation of their own experience may not be the highest Truth of it through All that IS.
I’ve learned…
That in using discernment, withholding information from some who are untrustworthy, isn’t lying. It can still be speaking the truth of a situation with lesser words.
I’ve learned….
That when I harbor bitterness, happiness will dock elsewhere. So I clean up my ship to allow for smoother sailing!
I’ve learned…
That forgiveness doesn’t mean forgetfulness, that asking for accountability doesn’t need be an emotional expectation nor blaming. Freeing ourselves from another’s energy supports true inner liberation.
I’ve learned…
That the easiest way for me to grow as a person, is to surround myself with people who love, see, and accept me for who I am, trust that I know how to handle life’s challenges, challenge me sensitively and tell me the truth about our connection without being judgmental or angry. They understand how to agree to disagree with care.
I’ve learned…
That even though there may be more people acting or doing a certain ‘mandated’ actions, unlawful rules are made to be broken. One needs to know what and how are real laws exist.
I’ve learned…
That integrity to myself and Creator is more important than how others perceive my actions.
I’ve learned…
That opportunities are never lost. Someone will take the ones I seemed to have let slip. The Universe has a great recycling center so I can find that opportunity in another form if it was meant for me.
I’ve learned…
That the language of expressing oneself has vibratory quality. If we pause and think first, keeping our words honest, clear, and truthful, we eliminate conflict.
I’ve learned…
That backing a person into the corner in defensive mode will not make them hear us better.
I’ve learned…
That it is best to give advice in only four circumstances: when it is requested, when asked if the other is interested; when paid for it, and when it is a life threatening situation. This opens up a space for acceptance and attentive listening.
I’ve learned…
Faith against all odds. That my inner knowing will never waiver in what I’ve ‘seen’ is coming for humanity. It is why I’m here at this time.
I’ve learned…
That a new earth has already arrived, but the mainstream media doesn’t get paid to broadcast this change of consciousness. Fear sells. It’s up to us to co-create the details as the final chess scenes are being played out.
I’ve learned…
That there is a synchronistic timing to allow Truth to prevail. That some movies have longer endings that need to culminate within a Divine order. It takes patience, trust, faith and creativity for all the moving pieces to come together. AND I’m totally ready for this movie to be over!
I’ve learned….
That everything is already perfect because “All Is” knowing at the 7th Plane. We just need to see it from Creator’s perspective.

And if any resonate as appropriate Creator’s teachings, feel free to download them on yourself.

Off I go into a new way and land as the world goes through it’s transition.

With deep care and blessings,

Judy

Independence And Interdependence To Freedom

Tue, 29 Oct 2024 16:58:37 GMT

Quote for Reflection: “Freedom is the open window through which pours the sunlight of the human spirit and human dignity.” ~Herbert Hoover

Declaration of Independence
July is often thought of as the celebration of freedom particularly with the Declaration of Independence supposedly being signed. In truth, that was the date of final draft. It didn’t get signed until August 2nd of 1776, and it didn’t get presented to Britain until November of that year.

What was actually declared, who were the men behind it in their values and personal alignment to this declaration, and whether we are really free depending how we understand that word and in how things have been set up for the last 15,000 years, is a story of many levels. It’s not something I’m going into through this blog and not my purpose in writing it.

Truth
In a series of FB lives, our non-profits’ team has been presenting about Truth, what the levels are and how to awaken to the truth in what is going on at this time. We have been very mindful to build this theme through the awareness of Unconditional Love yet speak to what is real at this time in history. It’s no easy practice to come back to our core self, our spiritual center.

Every day, it often feels shocking, like a new limitation or false reality being projected as a Truth. We know that there are agendas that want to be implemented, and some are, very quickly through FEAR— F alse E vidences A ppearing R eal– deceit, brutality, the elimination of rights, priming through media manipulation, and with an official narrative that is full of holes and inconsistencies as mentioned in my other two blogs.

I don’t want to sugar coat any of this, nor do I want us to feel hopeless. Honestly, I really do have a great deal of hope even though I know how deep and dark the structures go down so many rabbit holes. I feel more purposeful than ever. My inner reality is being upgraded and validated in all the information that I’ve been privy to through my years of inner journeying and research.

I have deep gratitude for ‘signing up’ to be here at this time especially with the amazing human souls that continue to cross my path. But I won’t volunteer to do it again this way. I want easier and more fun ways to evolve my virtues. And I know that my soul really had to be strong to volunteer to go through a dark tunnel in order to help shift these earthly realities.

Freedom
In looking at how we experience freedom and independence, that independence may really be about interdependence, this may all be about our need for caring and safe connections. Freedom would also be true through our connection and trust with All-That-Is.

Freedom can be a term of great subjectivity–entrenched in our beliefs and feelings. How we deal with what is occurring in our environment and the world can end up with limited or expanded experiences of freedom.

Depending how we’ve applied our spirituality and worked with clearing our beliefs and patterns, this will allow us to shift our experiences even if the outer structures tell us what our ‘reality’ and thoughts need to be.

A true personal sense of sovereignty is not overridden by false narratives. This level of freedom attracts more of these experiences of being awake and aware somatically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually, and thus will attract a deeper experience of sovereignty to itself.

In the Womb
Spiritually, as soon as our consciousness figures out we have body clothes in the womb, freedom of movement and thought are affected. We feel our mother’s emotions, her hormones, how she interacts in her environment and the size of our ‘holding tank’.

Do you remember your pre-birth memories? I do.

My mother intentionally overdosed on medication when she was 7 months pregnant with me. I felt like my freedom to grow and live would be terminated. I was having somatic feelings of dizziness in remembering, like I was in a washing machine spinning. What I had lived through was an attempted abortion.

This repressed memory was validated by a medical document at a famous hospital discovered by a detective. I was enraged thinking she hated me that much that she wanted to end both our lives.

But beliefs/perceptions and Truth are not the same.

Creator’s Truth
After releasing my feelings and beliefs, I was shown Creator’s Truth that my mother didn’t want me to be born into a world where she had been horrendously abused. My mother didn’t want me to suffer like she did. She actually loved me, something I hadn’t fully accepted prior. She thought we both would be able to gain real freedom together.

I did a great deal of crying. I experienced my body relaxing, and I felt that energy of Pure Truth in every cell of my body. That piece of Truth and understanding, in knowing her intention, shifted my perspective into deep love and forgiveness.

I also realized it wasn’t about ‘gaining’ freedom because that would have been dependent on an experience outside herself. It was her right to know freedom from within, and she never had the healing or support for that to happen until after her earthly transition.

This experience was one of the many building blocks that showed me about what my freedom was really about. It was connected to remembering my history. This gave me another link to trust my connection with Creator. If I listen within, it will lead me safely to my next step. This is my internal key to experiencing freedom.

Validation
It also took a therapist and a detective to expand my resources and to help me realize that I had amazing assistance available in a big way. Validation really anchored reality even though I’m grateful that Creator showed me first. It was like a two tier moment…inside and out. Those two people brought the whole memory into a solid reality as I had witness.

Healing trauma is not an independent process where one figures it out without any connection to others. This keeps us in separation. That is how trauma happens most often…in isolation.

Interdependency
Experiencing interdependency allows for the recognition, value, and importance of an emotional bond, safety, and intimacy that is mutually shared with others. It took these connections working independently and interdependently, to support my inner Truths.

It opened me to experience a deeper freedom and connection within myself. Freedom then becomes a state of being, an ownership of this virtue, with each experience that helps to build upon itself through trust, insight, awareness, and resiliency.

Freedom can also be experienced through courageous and brave actions that are independently expressed but supported through interdependent connections. This can be done without fighting.

Masks
Masks have never been proven to stop the spread of any disease just like social distancing. Many are taking this information and ‘testing’ it by not wearing cloth masks.

A woman in my community went to the local Costco to shop. An employee stopped her saying she had to have a mask on. She did not argue, but told the person to please get the manager sending with him legal information on the mask exemption. This was her declaration of freedom.

The employee returned and told her to enter. If stores have read the county health department ordinances, they state, “…that a Face Covering should also not be used by anyone who has a respiratory condition or trouble breathing….” They are not allowed to ask what the condition is according to the Americans with Disability Act (ADA).

The stores that are educated, also know that they can get reported through OSHA if their employees decide they can’t breathe. Hypercapnia, caused by increase CO2, will definitely stop people from breathing. Human beings must breathe oxygen to survive, and begin to suffer adverse health effects when the oxygen level of their breathing air drops below [19.5 percent oxygen]. And for many who have had traumatic childhood experiences, the covering of the mouth and nose triggers suffocation and feelings of looming death.

In my state, the governor proclaimed that everyone had to wear masks recently. This came as a retaliatory measure after a coalition of people, lead by a very articulate, skillful and researched woman, went before the Orange county Board of Supervisors to point out that the original governor’s orders were not legal.

Executive Branch
The governor, as part of the executive branch, cannot make laws. He can sign or veto bills, enact laws for departments and agencies, and oversee those agencies. It’s the legislature that makes the laws, and the courts rule on their acceptance or applications through the judicial system.

In our system of checks and balances, the governor has no authority to make any such orders. These don’t need to be complied with. Many sheriffs understand the true limitations and will not attempt to enforce an illegal executive order.

It would be up to the Department of Public Health to create an order, and they have exemptions both for the state and the counties. You can do a search for Department of Health mask requirements for your state.

As defined by CA Health and Safety Code section 101080, the introduction of this communicable disease has since past, and there is no immediate threat. The governor cannot keep it in a state of emergency (even if he thinks he can by illegally telling the agencies to increase the cases) .

Also, the California governor bought $1 billion worth of masks from a Chinese corporation in April with taxpayers’ money. I wonder if this isn’t a ‘slight’ conflict of interest and a misappropriation of spending.

Inner Work
With inner work, changing our beliefs, applying researched information (that may be different than official narratives), courage to take action, and sharing the truth, we can independently and interdependently work to shift what is occurring. This will enhance our inner freedom to see it occur on the outer as well. We can do this without fighting and through using our connections with our Source, Unconditional Love.

Wishing you the expansion of freedom in your daily lives,

Judy

Helpful Creator’s teachings/downloads

I know what it feels like to, how to, when to, that it’s possible, that it’s safe, that I’m worthy, deserving and good enough, that I can, I do (or I am/am able to be) :

Have freedom as a state of being
Have freedom of movement
Have freedom of thought
Have freedom to choose your response
Have freedom of choice
Awaken to Creator’s Truth at this time
Discern what is real from the official narrative
To be purposeful and in alignment with your divine mission
Have inner awareness validated on the outer
Difference between gaining freedom and having freedom from within
To participate in courageous actions without fighting

Disallowing Projected Identities

Tue, 29 Oct 2024 16:51:52 GMT

Quote for the month: “Raise your words, not your voice. It is rain that grows flowers, not thunder.” ~Rumi

My Cross Talk

Have you ever cried in awe of who you are, what you’ve come through, and why you’re here at this time?

“Why in the heck would someone even think to do this?!”

How often would you sit with yourself and feel the depth of self-love that wants to show you that you are more than worthy of those tears?

There is cross talk in my head that says, “Wouldn’t this be narcissistic? Or egotistical? Or selfish?”

And I gently respond to that inner confusion, “Couldn’t it just be that there is recognition and acknowledgement of who I really am, because I can and am having this experience of life? Can I look at myself both as outside the journey and in the journey in all that is occurring and know it all counts and matters?

My heart feels tender knowing the acceptance of this love towards myself. I feel tears streaming down my face. It’s been a lot to scan my life.

I have seen flashes of all that I’ve gone through as an observer and as the once participant–the years of abuse, the collapsed body, the death-defying non-choices, the grave demands of others, the memories of despair, the nights of processing the tears, and the patterns clearing, the amazing changes that I’ve made in my life to accept all of me, and I still can somehow remain grounded to decide if I want to go out dancing on a Saturday night. These ‘gear shifts’ in reality happen to me a lot while actually staying aware of it occurring.

Everything counts and matters

All experiences and decisions count and matter…… individually and collectively. I attempt to live from this awareness even if I question it, particularly in discerning how to relate to others when it’s time to move on.

I know myself so differently than who I was told that ‘I am’… those projected identities others placed on me, expecting me to accept and live from their wounds and shame, their hate and rage, their distortions and judgments. But I won’t.

It no longer fits for how I’ve healed. It isn’t true. And it really never was. I ‘bought’ a storyline, an archetype, to help heal myself and participate in healing others.

Medical intuitive, Carolyn Myss, spoke about souls who come to take on a part of the earthly darkness to transform it. For me, I did this by emerging into a darkened experience of physical form so I could reach through the etherics to gather myself back together…stronger, more resilient, integrated experiences ‘under my belt’ and virtues available to claim my spiritual growth and to tell my story. It’s definitely been an epic life.

In really moving through that journey, there is an awakening that breaks down structures of antiquated relationships that are really unhealthy to continue.

It’s never an easy decision to ‘know’ when it’s counted and mattered enough to let go or how or when to take action. I want to give you a snippet of a few incidences that remind me how I made these decisions, and the virtues that played a big part in moving me forward along this journey.

Boundaries of no contact

In the beginning of January ’10, I received a call from a relative who I had specifically asked never to contact me again.

It was in 1995 when I realized that the relationship needed to end. My life was taking a very different direction from how this relative wanted to perceive and act towards me. I needed very strong boundaries that took a great deal of inner work and strength to implement. It was a process of honoring myself and my truth, one I’ve never regretted.

Three years later, I saw him at my oldest daughter’s college graduation. I respectfully acknowledged his presence in actually stepping up to him as a circle of other relatives had formed after the ceremony. My inner guidance had suggested I do this.

But he became emotionally dysregulated—yelling at me. I moved quickly away from him. I don’t allow anyone to communicate with me in that manner. I knew that any further connection would be a violation of my boundaries.

Two days later, the phone rings. It was him. My body shook. My acknowledgment at the graduation must have been interpreted that my boundaries were not to be recognized.

With a voice that projected dominance, he loudly asked me to listen to him, and then questioned if I could do that… as if I was a 5 year old little girl who had to obey him with my full, undivided attention. It probably was a clue of what was to proceed.

I didn’t commit, but said he could start. I just felt there was something I would understand in allowing him to continue.

He started.

I listened but only for a few seconds. I placed the receiver on my lap for 10 minutes while doodling on a piece of paper. I periodically picked up the phone to see if his tone or content had changed.

It hadn’t.

He was on a near-shouting tirade of how selfish and horrible I was. His words and tone were demeaning and disrespectful, criticizing and denigrating, angry and critically judgmental in how I acted towards him and others in the past.

I’m amazed I allowed even this much presence to his projectile energy, but I was where I was in attempting to understand his motives.

When he realized I wasn’t engaging in his limited opinions of me, as I didn’t respond, he screamed for me to listen to him and not to hang up. Again, he thought he could demand my obedience.

But I wasn’t 5 years old anymore. I got that this needed to end.

My reality was too different to be available to him

I stopped him in the guided clarity of the moment, both loving and respectful without making him wrong, I told him that I loved him, always did and always will. I could accept that he wanted to adhere to his reality and perceptions of me and our past relationship together, but my reality was too different to be available to him. I was no longer going to perceive my life where he resonates from. My truth is stronger than another’s denial. Our lives together were complete.

I set my boundaries again, and explained that I was no longer available to listen to him now or in the future. I wished him well and repeated that I loved him.

He desperately grappled to keep me attached and engaged with his mental confusion as he continued to yell at me not to hang up.

Click.

I had carefully put the receiver on the cradle.

I took a long releasing breath.

My outside calmness was very different than my inner experience as my heart raced and my body was shaking. The breath anchored me in the present.

For the sensitive person that I am, I needed to clean the energy in my space that wanted to linger. You can just about imagine the hooks and cords I had to remove.

It was quite an emotional and harrowing ordeal inside. Yet the strength of my understanding and forgiveness felt more powerful. Forgiveness was both for myself and towards him in the understanding of the situation.

I knew deeply that forgiveness was my ally who was coaching me to remember that this is about my truth.

“I know my truth. I take back my power. You can’t have it anymore. I can separate your hurtfulness and opinions from my truth and who I am. I’m complete in my relationship with you. I release you from needing to tell me how incredibly strong I am through demeaning me, and that the love for myself precedes any relationship that denies this Truth.”

Yes, his obligation was to teach me what I already knew but needed an extra reminder. This was indeed complete. His phone call allowed me to verbalize it, to step into the situation with integrity, courage and love.

I will not participate in relationships that are abusive and demeaning–verbally, emotionally, physically, and spiritually. As Marianne Williams once said, “There’s nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure around you.”

This Blog will be continued next month.

Thank you for reading a very intimate experience of self-empowerment and forgiveness. Part 2 will hopefully engage you in the completion of this story.

With truth, love and blessings,

Judy

Transition Into Unconditional Love

Tue, 29 Oct 2024 16:12:54 GMT

Quote of the month: “… Self-love sets the standard in how we allow others to treat us and how we treat ourselves. Your happiness and well-being is important. Protect it by always valuing who you are!” ~Stephanie Lahart

Twelve Years had passed

2010 had steamrolled in. I was in the midst of a rather intense Mercury retrograde during late December and early January. A piece of important health equipment broke. I was in a slight car accident on that New Year’s eve. I experienced a gall bladder attack for 4 days. And my desktop computer got a virus so my tech was working on it at his shop.

It was the last day of the retrograde, and I was grateful that I had a working laptop. I was taking care of a few emails, and looking forward to going out in an hour to see the movie ‘Avatar’ for the first time.

Caught off guard

The phone rang. It didn’t have a caller ID screen on my home line at that time to see who was calling. I automatically lifted up the receiver.

I heard a very calm male voice asking if I knew who it was. I wasn’t completely sure. He carefully announced, quite rehearsed, who it was. His voice was rarely calm or low-keyed towards me.

My nervous system started to activate. I felt taken by surprise and caught off guard. How was I going to handle this intrusion?

He proceeded, as he had in the past, saying, “Don’t hang up on me. I want to talk to you.”

His voice wasn’t attacking, but I didn’t trust the energy knowing how easily it could vacillate and escalate.

I responded first.

“There is nothing to talk about. I’ve told you I didn’t want to communicate. My life is doing well. I’ve written two books. There is nothing more that needs to be discussed. Our lives are too different. I will no longer live in denial about what happened in our lives. I accept that that is where you and the others have chosen to put your energy. I wish you well and love you.”

He remained silent for only a brief second. It wasn’t to respect or integrate what I said, but rather to bypass in maneuvering to his next prepared point.

He shifted from his pause to raising his voice in blaming and attacking another family member for the woes that had occurred between him and I. It was an old story that he was attempting to revive, one that had created a bond between us when I was a child. The accused person had been deceased for almost 40 years by then…my mother.

For me, there was a very different awareness and reality I experienced, as I had total and complete forgiveness towards her since 1997. The years of hatred had turned into unconditional love, a complete understanding of our lives together in the Truth of what had occurred.

I knew that he would never want to hear nor would he at all understand my healing journey. How could he when he never wanted to acknowledge what actually happened? And honestly, that would have been past his scope of reality. For him, he wanted to engage in the same old pattern of who to identify as the family scapegoat or identified patient. If it wasn’t my mother, then it would need to be me.

It had all been spoken

“Dad. Stop!”

I can name him now. Yes, my father. Why can I name him now? Please continue.

In not being able to control or convince me to side with his viewpoint, he raised his voice and turned the attack towards me. “Don’t you think you have problems?!”

After being in therapy and other healing modalities since the mid-80’s, it certainly didn’t cross my mind to enter into any discussion around this with him. He knew I had been in therapy for years.

And intuitively and cognitively, I knew his patterns hadn’t changed in all that time. His lack of skills to communicate what his needs and feelings were, remained suppressed; and his feelings were again dysregulated. I understood this, and refused to accept them as my own just like years before.

I didn’t have a need to blame nor make him wrong to feel good about my worth or value. I didn’t need to say anything more. It had all been spoken.

Click!

It took no preparation to hang up on him.

I’m grateful that I stayed in respect to myself first. When parents (or anyone) demand obedience as if they are an authoritarian dictator, there is a loss of connection to who they are relating with. It’s as if the other person has become objectified. That is a big pattern in abuse of a child. And I wasn’t a child anymore that I couldn’t take appropriate action.

For me, respecting a person, whether a parent, relative, teacher, or friend, needs to be earned. It isn’t a given when disrespect towards my humanity had been an entrenched family pattern. It would be victim trust otherwise.

This doesn’t mean I’m not respectful towards others, but to me first in keeping with my boundaries. Their reaction to my boundaries, is what makes further communication available or not.

Nothing had changed in his pattern of wanting me to team up with him against my mother…except me. I’m no longer on that team. I no longer need to know love by teaming up against another. I don’t abide by hierarchal teams that pit one against the other.

Love, Compassion and Understanding

I know that my father really loved me at a soul level, but was unable to express or demonstrate love in healthy ways. He never really knew it within himself. He never felt loved by either of his parents who played favoritism among his siblings. Besides, he was raised by a wife-beating, gambling, pedophile father who was run out of the state of New York by the Jewish Mafia, and a mother who had been beaten as a child herself.

In either of the two conversations he attempted to impose prior to this situation, my father never said that he loved me when he called…”Even when he would visit years prior, the first thing he would say was whether I had gained weight or about my appearance.

And I never had an expectation that he could or would say “I love you” when he called. I just noticed how I could be with the love I felt towards myself and for him without needing further engagement.

It had been apparent that his strategy of communication would not change in this lifetime towards me. I felt compassion and understanding from where he was living. And I clearly recognized that his kind of behavior is no longer part of my evolution. He projected that out to me in playing the martyr, persecutor, or victim, in making others wrong. It was a huge coping mechanism. His issues were not my problem, and I would never allow him to triangulate me again.

I was so grateful to watch Avatar after! What a movie of conviction, beauty, strength and transformation! The ones who hold and live the Truth continue their lives at a new and heartfelt level.

The Transition

In December ’18, I had a feeling that I needed to blog about my father. I felt that he would not be around much longer. My beloved paternal Grandmother was showing up a great deal in spirit. Even my dear friend, Sidnee, saw and felt her. This gave me a clue that something was up.

Through my oldest daughter, I received news that my father made his transition on February 5th. I knew what I wanted to do immediately.

I called some close friends, some who knew him personally, just to let them know. They all understood my relationship with him.

I felt no sadness, no guilt, not remorse, no regret. I felt excitement! I wanted to go within to connect with him.

I kept my word in making sure his soul went into Creator’s light. It is really what I wanted to experience for his grand welcoming into pure Unconditional Love.

I sat in deep meditation. I was in awe of who he really is…his light now was brighter though he was disoriented. Then my deceased grandmother appeared with him…so strong and lovingly. I’m grateful he would know her differently than when they were alive together.

My mother moved into view…her light clear and so beautiful. My father would now know her as I have for many years. She played an intense role on this earth plane but had grown spiritually while existing ‘outside of space and time’. She now shone radiantly.

He then apologized to me and attempted to explain himself, but not in any manipulative way. It was a sincere awareness of himself different than his experience on earth. I experienced this like receiving a quickly delivered thought form that filled in what might have been missing in our connection.

And, I had no expectation nor need for this on my part. In him actually seeing me for who I really am–as a soul with a mission to help people understand about healing trauma, forgiveness and LOVE–it allowed the real bond that couldn’t happen on earth.

I asked him if he would like to be one of my guides. He had helped me learn to write as a child in proofreading my assignments, and I could use his help in the present with the writing that is part of my Divine Timing. I was (and am) deeply appreciative to have this experience, to be with him as he merged into his Light body in the Unconditional Love.

I didn’t go to the funeral nor did I have a need to connect in any way with those he related to…many whom had abused me, some who lived in different states of dissociation and denial. And for clarity, my father never violated my physical boundaries in any way sexually though he was emotionally incestual.

Like I said, I knew he loved me even though his earthly behavior showed up differently. He played a role that he created until the final scene ended, and the curtain closed. It’s all a Divine play!

For the Living

We all have an opportunity to be something more than what happened to us…before we die. So consider taking a new road, one that fills your heart with purpose, conviction, truth, joy, and forgiveness.

Let each day of your life be a loving tribute to YOU. No matter what happens, you’ll be on the top of your list with Creator.

With love and blessings,

Judy

I extracted possible ‘theme’ beliefs from the story. Energy test yourself for them, practice clearing them through digging if applicable, and use Creator’s teachings including the ones below if they fit.

I value myself beyond the expectations of my parents (or another).
I can walk away from relationships that attempt to scapegoat me.
I am able to live without being scapegoated.
All calm voices are to be trusted.
I know love by teaming against another.
I can love another and still walk away from their behavior and actions.
I can be with the love I feel for another without needing further engagement.
Another’s issues are my problem.
I stop triangulations in relationships.

Helpful Creator’s teachings/downloads

I know what it feels like to, how to, when to, that it’s possible, safe to, worthy/deserving/good enough, that I can, I do (or I am/am able to be):

To walk away from relationships that scapegoat me
To live without blaming myself for the ways that others scapegoat me
To recognize the intention rather than the appearance.
To discern another’s trustworthiness
To know love by staying anchored within through self love
To love another and know that I can walk away from their behavior and actions
To stay with the love I feel for another without needing further engagement.
To know that love exists even if the form of a relationship changes
To live without another’s issues becoming my problem
To know the difference between blaming others and accountability
To stop triangulations in relationships
To live without feeling triangulated by another’s issues

Trauma Healing Skills Part 1

Tue, 29 Oct 2024 16:07:38 GMT

Trauma Healing Skills Part 1

Reactive or Trigger?

One of the skill sets that are so important in the healing of abuse is the way we communicate towards ourselves and to others. Are we reactive or trigger often? Are we unable to stay present or do things that seem to go over our heads without speaking to it? Do we present an upsetting issue to others much later than when it happened (sometimes months and years) expecting them to remember what occurred? Do we compare outside ourselves as a way to feel better (or less) about what we’ve done or not done?

Do we find it automatic to discuss controversial topics by using sarcasm, put downs, one-ups, self righteous assumptions, or name calling? If so, these are trauma responses. Yes, trauma runs deep in our lives and in the world as we have seen play out throughout modern times and history.

In order to know that we’re even responding in these ways, there needs time for attentive awareness. Do we tune into ourselves after we’ve had a conversation that might have been controversial or difficult?’ What do we feel? Heavy? Tired? Angrier? Balanced? Curious? Open? Do we want to feel understood or feel right?

For me, I wanted to be understood and heard, so I’d needed to learn the language skills that were missing to do this. I’m not perfect, but I really do want to be respectful to others even if they are projecting their feelings or just really o& in what they are presenting. Taking the ‘high road’ feels better than stooping to another’s level of dysregulation. How can we want peace if we are not learning ways to prepare for it by starting with ourselves?

Family

I was raised in a family that felt it was totally acceptable to gossip, compare themselves to others, and compare others to themselves. The ‘adults’ told us, children, what they thought our feelings and actions were to be. Controlling is too kind of a word.’ Their dictates would then be expected to be taken on as our identity.’

If we children ‘regurgitated’ this pattern to others, that was considered being rude and disrespectful. Such evaluations were to be kept ‘private’ behind the family’s closed doors of secrecy.

You can understand the confusion that would have occurred for a child. It was all about appearances and denial.

At 10 years old, I was threatened by both parents to be strapped in a hairdresser’s seat to have my hair cut and ‘permanented’, the horrible smelly ones. I cried hysterically that I didn’t want their threat or their decision of what they thought would make me pretty…it was my hair. The identity of what would make me feel attractive was forced to come outside myself. I never had the ability to decide how I wanted my hair until I was 16 years old. I didn’t feel pretty until I was in my late 30s after being divorced and in therapy.

Respectful communication towards others was limited to carefully crafted language that made things ambiguous in what was said–dangerously threatening, shamed in being wrong, or overtly insulting as a means to get a point across. Respect was, “Do what you’re told and not as I do” modelling. Children were to be polite and well-mannered according to a standard that was set by June Cleaver for the ‘Beaver’ while the parents were deceptive and untruthful.

This pattern was so divisional and divisive. It was also used between the siblings in order to create favouritism, manipulative connections,’ eschewed acceptance of self through others’ perceptions, and a false sense of loyalty and belonging. It’s the same patterns I see that has played out in the world.

If we do as we’re told, we are a ‘good’ person. We are keeping others ‘safe’. We are being considerate and caring about others. We are being an outstanding and exemplary citizen. It’s all a traumatic manoeuvrer for controlling others through obedience training, like a slave.

This starts, again, in the family with members who are going outside themselves. Without learning to check in if we actually feel somatically and emotionally connected to our self, we then take on those outer expectations as a way to live individually, but not individuated from others. It feels like losing a piece of one’s own heart. Where is self love when we live outside our self?

In discussing difficult issues, it starts with saying that there is actually an issue and taking action to do something about it. But in families whose awareness is very focused outside themselves, censorship occurs or ways to shut down the other in naming the situation. It becomes ‘taboo’ subjects, secrets that are shared without the other who is being discussed even involved. It’s so easy for authoritarian figures and institutions to install mandates when so many have been emotionally stifled or abused as children and don’t know these patterns.

Part 2 will look at the battles and power struggles, and how to manoeuvrer through these.

With care,

Judy

Helpful Creator’s teachings/downloads

I know what it feels like to, how to, when to, that it’s

possible, that I can, I do (or I am/am able to be) :

Respectful communication
Emotional intelligence
Living without taking on another’s identity of who I am
Live without being divisional and divisive
Take the ‘high road’ for my own self-dignity
Live without comparing myself to others or others to me

Trauma Healing Skills Part 2

Tue, 29 Oct 2024 16:03:40 GMT

Trauma Healing Skills Part 2

Battles

Do you know that saying, “Pick your battles”?

What if the conversation wasn’t about ‘battles’, but just sharing ideas and information? And then you show up thinking that’s what’s going to happen though others don’t have the skills to meet you there? This is where an attempt to create a battle could occur.

For some, there is an immediate refusal to listen and immediately tell you you’re wrong or on the wrong side, or your disagreement to their perception is taken as a personal offense against them.

At which point do we engage or disengage from their battle? How long can we keep disengaging until the relationship has no more energy for connection? Can the energy of Love still be present in a disconnection?

I believe it can.

What another means

One of the triggers that I see so often is that people don’t ask what another means. They don’t go for clarity of understanding but assume another’s actions are about them, their character, or reputation.

It’s so easy to ask, “What do you mean by that?” in a curious way. And sometimes, even that question isn’t acceptable for others who live from dysregulation.

A person can be mentally brilliant but may not have emotional intelligence. And this is what is being shown to us in the public realms. Many ‘experts’ have their multitude of titles and connections to prestigious learning institutions, the appearances, but their information and discussions are meant to limit others’ perceptions through deceptive and disconnective means. This has shown up as censorship and diminishing others. This is often not recognized due to how the media has been manipulating dialogues, inverted truth, and then normalizing what is false.

Power struggle

Do you know what a power struggle involves?

Imagine yourself pushing your energy against another and they are doing the same thing against you. Then, all of a sudden, you just step out of the way. Guess what happens?

The other falls forward, perhaps to the floor, and there is no one there to be against…except the floor. It’s like pulling the plug out of the socket–disengaged and no energy to run on. The one who let go feels the most balanced because the force and pushing were disengaged.

Some people have beliefs that they have to battle to know they are connected to or disconnected from others. Choosing to disengage with love is a practiced, learned skill. Not everyone is going to resonate with where we live and think from.

There is an easily-applied, simple communication skill when a conversation is going south. It helps us to feel congruent with our intentions or with the energy of the participant/s where a power struggle might occur. I use, “I will agree to disagree,” and then end the conversation.

Even if I am baited to rejoin, which is often a tactic to keep the power struggle dominated, being clear of my intention and not feeling a need to be right, can allow for a sense of my personal empowerment. Inside myself, if I know what my truth is without having to defend it, I can let the ‘struggling’ go and return to my core center where I find calmness.

I remember a relationship group I was part of years ago, where the facilitator said, “No need to bang your head against a brick wall and expect the wall to move.” It’s those simple statements of total common sense that come to me when a conversation isn’t working.

So as our world’s situations show up with intensity and/or struggle, I support all of us to watch for areas that work and don’t work in communication, and see where we can use simple, supportive, and self-empowering skills to disengage or engage to create the shifts that keep us in our calm center.

With deep care for a centered world,

Judy

Helpful Creator’s teachings/downloads
I know what it feels like to, how to, when to, that it’s possible, that I can, I do (or I am/am able to be) :

Ask what another means instead of projecting or assuming
Without having to battle to be understood
Agree to disagree where appropriate
Clear in my intentions
Have empowering skills of engagement and disengagement
Live without power struggles

Releasing Parental Obligations Part 1

Tue, 29 Oct 2024 15:57:26 GMT

Releasing Parental Obligations Part 1

What We Learned from Choosing Our Parents

Do you realize that each of us picked the exact time to incarnate along with the parents or guardians who would teach us the lessons we wanted to learn? If not, keep breathing!

I realize it’s hard to comprehend (for some of us) that we would have chosen our parents or lack of parents. But if you look at what this has taught us, spiritual commitments will have an opportunity to be completed.

Our parents’ ways to teach us about life might have been a bit eschewed (ok, maybe alot) . None-the-less, if we took the baton and really moved it forward, we indeed learned important lessons. We had to take new actions that were hopefully in alignment with our true nature. We gained virtues with the healing. This actually helps elevate our frequencies as part of our soul growth.
If we can recognize and release what our parents or guardians have taught us through their obligations towards us on a karmic level, we can free ourselves from the turmoil of emotions and attachments about them. That’s not such a bad deal…definitely not always so simple or easy though.

Exploring the obligations our lineages have towards us, Vianna (founder of ThetaHealing® technique) has emphasized in the past that it’s a very important time to make a commitment to ourselves to really explore all the obligations that our parents (or guardians) taught us as well as expanding this commitment to our ancestors. They have actually set-up experiences that on some deep level, have taught us both coping mechanisms and truly virtuous skills.

Both can be ‘alchemized’…turned into gems of growth. The Soul doesn’t care how it learns. It just wants to use what is available to evolve itself. I personally think it’s easier, in being in this 3rd Plane reality, to create more alive, healthy and easier pathways for building virtuous skills and relationships.

As we release our parents from their obligations to teach us these lessons (including our souls) , we don’t need for them to even teach us the virtuous ones if we already know them. These are integrated skills and are easily accessible in any situation.

The ‘turn around’ if we spend at least ½ hr per week working on clearing the issues that get in our way, it would transform the issues that block us and how people treat us. If we saw our parents as actors on a stage, we could ask ourselves what role were they playing in how they affected our life, both in caring, beneficial ways and in difficult ways.

We can do a “turn around” and see what we’ve gained from these experiences, what qualities we’ve developed that actually supported us. Then we can release our parents from teaching us whatever it was. This is all done through Creator’s teachings.

Perhaps the coping mechanism was co-dependency, and what we learned was to be true to our own needs. Releasing our parents from teaching us to be aware of our true needs, and that we can do this without them but through All-That-Is, will create an amazing transformation. This is the process of releasing resentment, anger and hatred.

We owe ourselves the opportunity to live without the charges of the past, or it’s hard to create the frequency or energy needed for being present now and in the future. It’s difficult to manifest because so much of the neuro-connections are taken up with these past hurts.

Part 2 will follow next month in a story about releasing my parents of obligations that were tied to them through a letter sent.

With care and blessings,

Judy

I extracted possible ‘theme’ beliefs from the story. Energy test yourself for them, practice clearing through digging if applicable, check if they are your ancestors’ beliefs. Feel free to use Creator’s teachings and I have included some in part 2.

Beliefs:

My parents are obligated to teach me about life in the present.
‘Choosing’ my parents was the worst decision I ever made.
I’m angry at myself for choosing my parents.
I hate my mother.
I hate my father.
Forgiveness needs to be in person.
I feel disempowered around my parents.
I am unworthy of releasing another’s choices, actions and perceptions of my truth to be solid in myself.

Releasing Parental Obligations Part 2

Tue, 29 Oct 2024 15:53:07 GMT

Releasing Parental Obligations Part 2

Release from my Parents
Back in 2011, I wrote out over 20 things that my parents taught me both in developing virtuous skills and in the creation of difficult coping mechanisms. I proceeded to release them of these obligations. I also released myself from teaching them things.

I have had a great relationship with my mother for the last 26 years. Of course, this takes into account that she has been dead for 52 years, of which 26 years after, I had continued to hate her. As many of you who have followed me before know, I went through a profound forgiveness process in 1997 around her, and it changed my life.

I understood why things were the way they were between us, and the charge I had dissipated completely. All I could feel was the deep love and appreciation for her.

The Releases are Forgiveness
People often have the spiritual misconception that forgiveness needs to be in person. This is also a prime example of not needing to have a person alive or in front of you to go through complete forgiveness.

There are also hidden issues in families that don’t necessarily get revealed all at once within our own psyches. Truths often happen like onion peels in how they unravel. If we can feel the experience into consciousness, we can heal it. It’s important to be patient with ourselves as well as knowing that forgiveness bypassing can occur.

Forgiveness bypassing is when people say they forgive the issue or members in the family when they don’t really know what fully happened or processed the feelings. They then continue to feel taken advantage of or fall back into old patterns around their families. The name of the game is awareness, discharge and self-empowerment that is supported by care, self-care, and compassion.

I decided to do my list about my mother anyway because I wanted to clear out all the nooks and crannies in what she taught me even though I felt just love and tenderness towards her. There were only four difficult things left in her obligations to me–to teach me what insanity is, to stop any kind of overindulgence, to stop feeling like an identified patient, and what suffering and helplessness are in a family. These were very simple to release once identified.

When I wrote out the 25 things that were from a caring skill set, I was truly amazed. I could really see some of the wonderful qualities that I have now that came from her. And I released her from teaching me those attributes because I already possessed them. I didn’t need her support or have it attached to her. It was really a process of reclamation of more of me.

With my father, there was much more work. The end result, though, was that I ended up writing him a letter sharing all the wonderful things he did for me. I let him know that I released him from all obligations around them as well as the difficult coping mechanisms I developed due to what occurred at the time.

I gave gratitude to him for playing the role of the father in all that I learned. I then told him our connection was completely over in physical form until he transitioned, and to please not attempt to contact me again. I did this with care, love and with a great amount of clarity in being aware that there might be familial financial ramifications. Inner freedom will always outweigh financial ties for me.

I let him know that I will always love him, and I would be the first one to help him connect with Creator’s love and light when he passed.

I mailed it, and it was done. I felt a huge release and a deeply internal shift.

That letter was mailed in 2011. He died in 2019. I did not talk to him before he died. I fulfilled the obligation to make sure he fully became aware of his connection to Creator’s Love. We then had a chat where he apologized for not believing me though I didn’t need that from him. He said that he was talked out of giving me any inheritance. That made sense. Other family members were involved in swaying him. I was ok with that. Karma has a way of working and his money is not the Source of my financial abundance.

He is very available to me in Spirit. I’ve felt him fulfill many things I’ve asked for in support. I feel grateful for his assistance and spiritual love.

Forgiveness doesn’t have to be done in-person
Forgiveness didn’t mean I needed to choice physical connection anymore than love does. Forgiveness is for me in releasing my attachment to his actions. It means that I experience freedom to move forward unencumbered by another’s choices, actions, and perceptions of my truths, with my own energy solid within myself. Again, this does not need to be done in person to feel liberated!

What You Can Do
Consider making your list of your parental issues, the 3 R’s (resentment, regret, rejection), anger, offended by, hatred, minimized by, and take the time to clear these. If you test the beliefs by adding in the statement at the beginning, ‘on any level’, which would include the genetics, history and soul, the process goes deeper, and you end up feeling lighter and freer.

If you need support, consider a session through our non profit to help you along or if this topic interests you, consider a workshop to support you to do it on yourself or with the help of friends.

With blessings and care,

Judy

Helpful Creator’s teachings/downloads

I know what it feels like to, how to, when to, that it’s possible, that I can, I do (or I am/am able to be):

to release my parents and my ancestors from the obligations they taught me
to forgive my parents in the ways they taught me life lessons
to re-claim myself from the energy of my parents
to feel empowered around my parents
to complete forgiveness without having to be in-person to liberate myself.

Finding Calm In The Fiery Change

Tue, 29 Oct 2024 15:48:55 GMT

Quote for Reflection: “When everything around you is crazy, it is ingenious to stay calm.” ~Mehmet Murat ildan

Difficult Energy

We are in potent and very difficult energy. Saturn is in Pisces in March. Pisces is all about blurring rational thought and often leans into emotions at the expense of facts, but Saturn encourages reality checks. It’s difficult for many to know what is real. An everyday situation could take on the experience of feeling confused… a lot.

Saturn puts us to the task while Pisces wants us to delve into the unconscious. How will we be able to bring balance and take action while keeping our core center? Can we even acknowledge that we have a core center? Can we remember to return to our eternal core center knowing there is a place of calm in connection with All-That-IS?

Core Center

As the fires, the symbolism of purging has occurred recently, I think about how many who have experienced deep trauma and may have difficulty finding a core center. One skill I learned is to touch the chest or heart and breath (with a good air purifier), and acknowledge to myself that who I am, is fully accepted by me and Creator.

You can also use a picture of yourself as a precious child to look at it, and let that part of you know you’re right there with him/her no matter what. Another strategy is ‘faking-it-until-you-make-it’, imagining it even if the feelings aren’t there yet.

Skill Sets to Communicate

One of the skill sets that are so important in healing of abuse is the way we communicate within ourselves and to others. Are we reactive or trigger often? Are we unable to stay present or do things that seem to go over our head without speaking to it? Do we present it to others much later (sometimes months and years) expecting them to remember like the way we have held onto it? Do we compare outside ourselves as a way to feel better (or less) about what we’ve done or not done? Do we find it automatic to discuss controversial topics by using sarcasm, put downs, one-ups, self righteous assumptions, name calling or dissociating?

If so, these are trauma responses. Yes, trauma runs deep in our lives and world.

In order to know that we’re even responding in these ways, there needs time for attentive awareness. Do we tune into our self after we’ve had a conversation that might have been controversial or difficult? What do we feel? Heavy? Tired? Angrier? Balanced? Curious? Open? Do we want to feel understood or feel right?

For me, I wanted to be understood and heard, so I’d needed to learn the language skills that were missing to do this. I’m not perfect, but I really do want to be respectful to others even if they are projecting their feelings or just really off in what they are presenting. Stooping to another’s level of dysregulation is not going to create world peace.

Family

I was raised in a family that felt it was totally acceptable to gossip, compare themselves to others, and compare others to themselves. They told us, children, what they thought our feelings and actions were to be. Controlling is too kind of a word. Their dictates would then be expected to be taken on as our identity.

If we children ‘regurgitated’ this pattern to others, that was considered being rude and disrespectful. Those evaluations were to be kept ‘private’ behind the family’s closed doors. You can understand the confusion that would have occurred for a child. It was all about appearances.

At 10 years old, I was threatened by both parents to be strapped in a hairdresser’s seat to have my hair cut and ‘permanented’, the horrible smelly ones. I cried hysterically that I didn’t want their threat or their decision of what they thought would make me pretty…it was my hair. The identity of what would make me feel attractive was forced to come outside myself. I never had the ability to decide how I wanted my hair until I was 16 yrs old. I didn’t feel pretty until I was in my late 30’s after being divorced and in therapy where I could tune into myself.

Respectful communication towards others was limited to carefully crafted language that made things ambiguous in what was said–dangerously threatening, shamed in being wrong, or overtly insulting as a means to get a point across. Respect was, “Do what you’re told and not as I do” modeling. Children were to be polite and well-mannered according to a standard that was set by June Cleaver for the ‘Beaver’ while the parents were deceptive and untruthful.

This pattern was so divisional and divisive. It was also used between the siblings in order to create favoritism, manipulative connections, eschewed acceptance of self through others’ perceptions, and a false sense of loyalty and belonging. It’s the same patterns I see in the world now.

If we do as we’re told, we are a ‘good’ person. We are keeping others ‘safe’. We are being considerate and caring about others. We are being an outstanding and exemplary citizen. It’s all a traumatic maneuver for controlling others through obedience training, like a slave.

Individualism

At what cost is our free will and individualism being usurped to allow for governmental social ‘new norms’ to take over? It starts, again, in the family with members who are going outside themselves. Without learning to check in if we actually feel somatically and emotionally connected to our self, we then take on those outer expectations as a way to live individually, but not individuated from others. It feels like losing a piece of one’s own heart. Where is self love when we live outside our self?

In discussing difficult issues, it starts with saying that there is an issue and taking action to do something about it. But in families whose awareness is very focused outside themselves, censorship occurs or ways to shut down the other in naming the situation. It becomes ‘taboo’ subjects, secrets that are shared without the other who is being discussed even involved. It’s so easy for governments to install their mandates when so many have been emotioanlly stifled or abused as children and don’t know these patterns.

Battles

Do you know that saying, “Pick your battles”?

Then this is where an attempt to create a battle could occur. For some, there is an immediate refusal to listen and immediately tell you you’re wrong or on the wrong side, or your disagreement to their perception is taken as an personal offense against them.

At which point do we engage or disengage from their battle? How long can we keep disengaging until the relationships has no more energy for connection? Can the energy of love still be present in a disconnection?

I believe it can.

What another means

One of the triggers that I see so often is that people don’t ask what another means. They don’t go for clarity of understanding but assume another’s actions is about them, their character or reputation.

It’s so easy to ask, “What do you mean by that?” in a curious way. And sometimes, even that question isn’t acceptable for others who live from dysregulation.

A person can be mentally brilliant but may not have emotional intelligence. And this is what is being shown to us in the public realms now. Many ‘experts’ have their multitude of titles and connections to prestigious learning institutions, the appearances, but their information and discussions are meant to limit others’ perceptions through deceptive and disconnective means. This shows up as censorship and diminishing others. This is often not recognized due to how the media manipulates dialogues, inverts truth, and then normalizes what is false, unheartful and unhealthy ways.

Power struggle

Do you know what a power struggle involves?

Imagine yourself pushing your energy against another and they are doing the same thing against you. Then, all of a sudden, you just step out of the way. Guess what happens?

There is an easily-applied, simple communication skill when a conversation is going south, that feels incongruent with our intentions or with the energy of the participant/s, and where a power struggle might occur. I use, “I will agree to disagree,” and then end the conversation.

Clear of intention

So as our world’s situations show up with intensity and/or struggle, I support all of us to watch for areas that work and don’t work in communication, and see where we can use simple, supportive and self-empowering skills to disengage or engage to create the shifts that keep us in our calm center.

With deep care for a centered world within and on the outer,

Judy

Helpful Creator’s teachings/downloads
I know what it feels like to, how to, when to, that it’s possible, that I can, I do (or I am/am able to be):

Return to my core center
To experience my core center
Am accepted by myself and Creator
Live from within our self and still be engaged in the world
Ask what another means instead of projecting or assuming
Without having to battle to be understood
Agree to disagree where appropriate
Clear in my intentions
Have empowering skills of engagement and disengagement
Live without power struggles

De-Structuring In Preparation For Birthing

Tue, 29 Oct 2024 15:39:00 GMT

Quote For Reflection: “A strong intention, a relaxed body and an open mind are the main ingredients for an active birth.” ~ Janet Balaskas

Preparation

As a mother of four home-birthed children, now adults, it took preparation to allow for the changes of my body and mind in order to deliver those babies into the world. I adjusted to difficulty in digesting or liking some of my foods. There were hormonal adjustments with headaches and nausea. There was trouble sleeping as my belly grew with mood shifts, and anxiety of how things will go and how to be a parent very different than how I was raised. I was also working when pregnant with two of the children, so I was attempting to keep balance yet feeling tired and stretched (in more ways than one).

There were the appointments with midwives and sometimes with doctors where everyone was having a different opinion of how, when, where, and what. For me, the choices were always clear. No hospitals and no medications. I knew I could do this with support that aligned with me, my intuition and my values. This intuition also brought me dreams showing me the sex of each baby.

Then there was the birth itself. For many, there is breathing deeply and slowly at the different stages of labor with change in positions of the body. For some, there is crying and screaming as the contractions become heavier and more rapid. For others, there is quiet concentration and internal focus.

The transition intensifies the building pressure as the baby comes through the stretching canal. For some, there is the “I don’t know if I can keep doing this” as if the baby will not somehow arrive whether naturally, through forceps or C-section.

Finally, the infant has courageously made it through the birthing rite of passage into the world to exhale first, let go, and then inhale. A cry may announce the arrival from the baby as the parents and attendees shed their tears. It wasn’t easy. It was focused labor, but new life has arrived to bring his or her energy, gifts and human form into this Plane of Existence. A miracle has indeed occurred! How is the baby received?

Trauma Healing-Birthing process

To give birth to oneself is to discover how to receive and accept the gift of you. When there is trauma, the healing is like a birthing process. The discovery starts with the awakening of events that were perhaps not remembered nor connected together as abuse or to one’s life. This starts a de-structuring process.

Internal information will eventually come to the surface to be processed. Each memory and the feelings are opportunities to awaken to the patterns and beliefs we had used to survive, and eventually to know our personal truths in what really occurred in our childhood. Each memory is a birthing process, one that we need to be prepared for when the time aligns with our personal evolutionary path and our willingness to go inward to explore.

When not given attentive care during each awakening to one’s inner truth/birth, the body goes through signaling. There can be hormonal adjustments, headaches, nausea, mood shifts. The body builds up anxiety to get ready to release the memories which can come in different ways. There is often trouble getting to bed at a proper time, the fear of falling asleep, and then ensuing exhaustion.

There can be difficulty digesting what the truth reveals–shock, denial, dissociation, grief, and rage. The breathing, the crying, the shaking, and the screaming as the memory is releasing for full processing, can occur. The somatic and emotional aspects don’t necessarily come with the memories depending on the depth of trauma, and the presence and resiliency of the person. Giving birth to oneself and the truth of one’s life is no easy passage.

Re-structuring

The beauty of the birthing process is that there is re-structuring that is included in the process. This includes building up the virtues, the self empowerment, resiliency, and the re-creation of who you are rather than who you were told you were to be.

You get to reclaim all the fragments of you that shattered all over the Planes. You get to fill your bodies with new growth, new choices, new decisions, new wisdom from the ‘downunder’ and recognize Creator’s love that has always been a part of you.

Like a beautiful piece of clay, you get to mold yourself that fits your core and truth. It can be built on a foundation of your new strength, stability, self awareness and self love. Like a child using Lincoln Logs to build a house, you can bring your curiosity, your skills, your wonderment, your imagination and creativity to experience your life foundation differently. You get to claim all of this!

Ascension process

These new seeds of growth is what is happening now in the ascension process. It’s been fertilized by many who are creatively and inspirationally connected, and who are discussing how to change things in this containment of the ‘lockdown womb’. How do we open our minds and self for this birth even more without fear?

The earth’s Schumann resonance is even in flux. Have you been going through shifts of emotions, somatic pains, digestion issues, dizziness, eyes blurring, ringing of ears, vibrations, sleeplessness, exhaustion or bursts of energy, mood swings, depression, rawness, feeling weak and then anchored, and/or emotionally dysregulated? Our cells and energy fields are changing.

This process is not for us to leave our bodies (unless that is a choice), but to embody and integrate new frequencies of being, ideas and concepts in order to feel more of our Divine or Higher Self in form. This accelerated growth phase is absolutely necessary.

Narrative and focus

Like in any birthing process, we are being told what we need to do in order to make things easier. But there is a different narrative and focus depending on our previous inner work, the rabbit holes we’ve traveled and with the ones we chose that aligns with our Hearts and through All that IS. A new way will happen. How we experience that will ultimately depend on how we focus and whether we release the fears that come up in this process.

There is the ‘viral’ story. The ones who position ‘above’ others along with their well-funded and unjournalistic media, are broadcasting that the authority and knowledge is outside of us. In order to make it through the ‘appearance’, we must all listen to the approved version, a controlled agenda that needs to be followed in order to birth their New World disorder. It is fear-based, lacks free will, and the power is sourced outside oneself.

There is another narrative. It’s one where the birthing process is both a mystery full of new information of revealing the real planetary truths, and discerning what is recognized through our intuition, going within, the understanding of why we are here at this time. There are many dark rabbit holes or canals to go down in discovering some very surprising covert truths and histories. Not all will appear as it is at this time. This is because it’s in the de-structuring phase.

There are many actors playing some of the most brilliant, hated, loved and/or difficult roles. There are twists and turns as humanity awakens in full force, or leaves their body to witness or participate without physical form.

This process is not unfamiliar to me at all. I’m one who has had to unravel my own deep and hidden truths to be able to assist my clients through the trauma release phases of healing.

It all makes sense as it’s the same process—birth is birth. Just like the transition phase of birthing, the de-structuring phase is messy and rough. There is the appearance of turmoil and chaos. Remember that birthing isn’t neat and tidy. With memories, fears of distrust, deception, hierarchy, comparisons, power over, lack, unworthiness and death are hitting the ‘gurney’ table.

We ask, “Can we make it through this?” just like a laboring momma.

We can…if we choice wisely.

New Earth gathering

And we certainly can chose wisely in a way we might never expect for those who want to stay for this New Earth gathering.

Many of us lightworkers, empaths, healers and intuitives have been feeling all of this as a birthing process and recognizing it as such. We have been honing our abilities and gifts in preparation because humanity has been so traumatized through the other narrative, which in reality is now in an immediate ‘wake up’ phase.

Everything is de-structuring from the medias to the banks. Be prepared to listen deeply, connect the dots, digest the truths that are rapidly being put forth, connect with others sharing new ideas and through your hearts without need for judgment. Use your connection with Creator to feel into what resonates in your core to set things into action.

With deep care and in anticipation!

Judy

Helpful general Creator’s teachings/downloads
I know what it feels like to, how to, when to, that it’s possible, to I’m safe, that I can, I do (or I am/am able to be):

To awaken without shock
To remain trusting in the birthing process
To be able to de-structure with support
To feel receiving in birthing myself
To birth my truth and accept it
To separate who I am from who I was told to be
To reclaim all aspects of myself
To vision or build a new foundation that fits my core and heart
To re-structure what you want to create for myself
To integrate new energies in order to birth a New Earth

Is Ignorance Bliss If We Were Made For These Times

Tue, 29 Oct 2024 15:33:50 GMT

Quote for reflection: ‘If ignorance is bliss, is pain, then enlightenment?’ ~Judy

Changes

Many years ago in my meditations, I was told by my guides that I was being prepared from some big changes. I was already going through so much at the time–raising children, moving through remembering and healing childhood trauma and helping others heal.

I think I was naive on one level of what those changes would actually be. I guess it could be called ‘ignorance’. Yet on another level, I knew that the planet was going to present some huge challenges that would be life shifting.

Whatever the changes were, I knew that they couldn’t be as difficult as what I lived through. All my years of dedication to discovering my truth, gaining knowledge about all that occurred within and outside was not going to go to waste. I had a Divine Timing, something I was to give humanity, which hadn’t been fulfilled yet. I knew I needed to stick around to complete this.

I kept hearing within that I was being prepared. I was being ‘made’ for these times.

Ignorance

With all that is appearing on the world stage, there is a great deal that I was aware of for years but didn’t know the full pattern or details. Some has been surprising because we have all been handfed deep levels of deception that has been so well hidden and thus accepted as truths. These had not shown up in my inner world to be aware of thus I again was ignorant of these earthly truths.

People often say that “Ignorance is bliss.” I decided to feel into this old metaphor. I questioned, “But how can ignorance be bliss? What does this really mean? How are the two connected? Are there dots to be connected?”

What came forth was like a channeled experience that I recorded on my phone. I felt into it later as I also did some research to confirm what I ‘heard’.

“Until you are fully enlightened, totally awakened with All that IS (7th Plane consciousness/Unconditional Love), ignorance exists as part of your experience. It is like the veil that keeps you from seeing the Light of who you really are, an illusionary separation of the truth of you.”

Notice that Creator’s definition had no judgment involved. It was spoken to me with gentleness and love yet the words were not words…a recognition through my language.

Ignorance is connected to the word, ‘ignore’ – not paying attention to something. [To Ignore our Brilliance = (Ignor-) + (-ance) = Ignorance]

We can ignore connection from another for different reasons: to avoid an argument, shut down conversations, to keep the peace, to stop any engagement of ‘drama’ or provocation, to protect oneself (from overwhelm, or too deep or intense for the inner capacity available), to warn of a need for separation or a boundary, and that the situation isn’t deemed necessary or important to participate further…like being dismissed.

On an earthly level, communication is the key to grasp the meaning, intention, and usage of the word ‘ignorance’. Ignorance can arise from anyone who lacks connective communication skills in processing information.

If a person comments, “You are ignorant,” it’s often expressed and received as an accusation and an identity piece—‘You are’ this characteristic. There is a feeling of offensiveness/defensiveness in a communication style that can be received as judgmental. Ignorance is then held in comparison and in a hierarchal way attempting to make another wrong, like the other is uneducated or less intelligent. There is no clarity of what they might be ignorant of, and it creates disconnection.

Ignorance can suggest that someone could be uninformed, unaware or misinformed. Perhaps it would be more connecting to ask the other if they are aware of whatever the topic is at hand rather than assuming they are not.

If they’re not unaware of what another knows or understands, they may not be seeing things from the same angle. Sometimes our perspective lies in Truth and other times it’s just another angle of perception on this planetary realm.

“You are ignorant in understanding about this topic,” is a subjective statement, an opinion, an assessment, or judgment, and could possibly be provoking depending on how it’s communicated (i.e. like the tone of the voice and the conversation). We can be open to exploring this more deeply before calling out another as ignorant.

On this Plane of Existence, ignorance can also keep the earthly ‘Truth’ feeling separated or distanced. This could be an absence or denial of what is, of what has occurred or been presented.

At another level, ignorance can be in close connection to naivety. Each person, depending on their age and stage of growth, handles the energy of ignorance uniquely. A child who is ignorant of boundaries, isn’t responsible for being different or correcting the situation until the skills are learned. An adult who acts ignorantly of his/her boundaries and crosses the boundaries of another intentionally to do harm, is responsible for being accountable and correcting the situation.

When one communicates in an uninformed way of what is going on, there could be a lack of presence. The tone and the way it is expressed to and received by another, is what continues or stops the ignorance.

An adult who choses to use ignorance as a protection from truth, can create distance from what is possible to understand at that moment. This particularly shows up when other factors are present like fear, guilt or shame.

Ignorance can eventually lead to an opening or breakthrough if a challenge is ‘applied’ (like an ‘accident’, divorce, lost job, painful injury) or a spiritual revelation occurs. Virtues such as curiosity, can often awaken ignorance into understanding and knowledge if openness and capacity to grow is available.

The somatic experience of ignorance seemed to vary for me depending on what angle or definition I connected to that word and the situations I thought of. The experience felt vacant yet heavy and stagnant, confusing and bewildered, and unknowing to spaciousness slowly appearing. Consider feeling into the different angles for yourself.

Bliss

I then asked, “So what is Bliss?”

I sat waiting for the words to roll out as I felt deeply into my body allowing it to be my guide in connection with Creator.

“Bliss is an ecstatic peacefulness, a deep awakening that is smooth and expansive, spacious and receivable, breathtaking and uncontainable, an intermingling of the Divine expression flowing, overflowing, surrounding, palpable to the senses and swirling with and beyond joy. There is difficulty expressing formed words that would give weight to the weightlessness, that deeply expresses ‘knowing’ to the ignorance, to being here and there altogether…a vast mysterious state that recognizes the openness of Itself…and meets all the needs of those who enter it in that moment.”

Breath. Hmmm…I loved that the description actually allowed a visceral experience and a very relaxed me ready for sleep. I don’t get to feel that too often. I can’t imagine living in a state of bliss on earth.

And bliss on a more grounded level can also be experienced through our senses, like in tastes, smells, touch, visions, and sounds in creating sheer, inexplicable joy.

So is ignorance really bliss? Or is ignorance avoiding bliss?

I think that in an existential experience of bliss, all exists without separation, unknowing nor ignoring…it’s pure presence encompassing itself. I also think that on this Plane of Existence, the energy and acts of ignorance are not bliss. (please feel free to comment if you have had a different experience)

The results of ignorance can lead us to further distancing or disconnection depending how it’s communicated, projected, and received, what stage of spiritual & psychological growth we are at, and the ways it’s used. It can lead to pushing out fear as truth, deception and deceit, disrespectful and confrontational conversations, lack of emotional regulation, denial of what is really going on, intolerance, hatred, loss of sovereignty of our human body, loss of our earthly right of free will and agency, extreme limitation of choices, loss of our freedom to express who we are, and ultimately, war and death.

Every time we change within, take time to work on ourselves or with others, awaken to areas within and in our life which operate through ignorance, we are opening to a vaster Intelligence to move us forward. This change opens up more opportunities to experience bliss on earth through our connection with the Divine Intelligence of ALL and our focused thoughts into action.

Enlarge our Capacities

It’s within each of us to enlarge our capacities, move with life’s challenges to build our virtues, to be willing to see the real truth behind the way that the hierarchal powers implant and disseminate false information, to discern the ignorance and propaganda through All-that-IS. So much will continue to reveal.

We were made for these times, or we wouldn’t be here. It’s no accident, and it’s not random. We were made for these times so that the ignorance of the past opens us to new horizons to participate in the changes as a growing experience of consciousness…and perhaps a state of bliss.

Blessings in this immense shift!

Judy

The Questions … Compassion for Sex Traffickers Part 1

Tue, 29 Oct 2024 15:27:53 GMT

Quote for Reflection: The word courage comes from the French word ‘coeur’, which means heart. True power proceeds not from force, but from love. ~Alan Cohen

The Questions

Questions were asked to an online group of people I was participating with. The group was supposed to have a spiritual focus…at least that is why I thought I was being asked to join initially.

These were important questions, ones that all of us could spend some time contemplating. For me, any response to such deep questions would need to come from one’s truth/personal experience and heart. All else would be opinions or unhealed/unprocessed responses which need discernment. There would need to be a pause to feel into myself, asking within if others’ responses resonated with spiritual principles and virtues that I hold sacred.

The questions were around Compassion:

Could we have compassion towards those who are guilty of sex trafficking?
Are they worthy to be given compassion?
Knowing about what happens in sex trafficking, what would we do with those feelings in order to demonstrate compassion to those who offended?
Should we not even consider compassion?
What is the morally ‘right’ thing?

Punishment

The responses were about the other participants’ need for punishment and revenge. It reminded me of the path of spiritual warrior archetype from the 5th Plane of Existence (Plane of Duality).

What I read from them was an eye-for-an-eye mindset, lack of hope, lack of trust in humanity, lack of possibilities, and no vision of restorative justice. They shared:

“We want this to stop… bring back public hanging.”
“They can’t be rehabilitated.”
“The guilty don’t have compassion so they don’t deserve it either.”
“Hog tie them.”
“Medieval torture.”
“When I get them, they would plead to be hanged.”
“’Forgive them’ and then cause them so much pain and anguish they wish they were dead.”
“Put them down like a dog who bites.”
“Death penalty”

Sex Traffickers Exposed

In the group’s comments, it was shared by most that they wanted the sex traffickers exposed. I was fine with this, but there’s a lot more that this kind of response involves. Depending on who exposes and who is involved, when the exposure happens, and where it’s done, is there personal cost to one’s life? There are other questions that needed to be asked as well.

I can easily say that it’s only recently that these exposures have happened where the media reports it, as they have often suppressed it in the past. There has been either sensationalizing and/or victim-blaming.

What about staying alive if those who were trafficked name their abusers? For many, if they don’t gather with others who are also speaking up and hiring lawyers, it could be difficult territory. I’m sure you’ve heard that some deaths of those who had gone public were determined to have ‘committed suicide’ after with little investigation by police or lack of reporting by the major press outlets.

Survivors Speakers’ Bureau

I was on a Survivors Speakers’ Bureau in the early 90’s where I was asked to share about the abuse I had remembered at that time on a well-known national TV talk show. I had only started my deeper journey in ’87. In what I know now, I was really being brave…and completely naïve…to think I could go public in anyway then!

I know! I know! It could be a toss back to some scene of being thrown into the lions’ den in Rome. I had enough sense, even being very dissociated at the time, to say NO.

I really did wonder why the producer would even ask me to volunteer for such a situation knowing I was abused. I believe that they attempted to use a person’s lack of self esteem and their deepest vulnerabilities to manipulate them. It was the same pattern of being objectified and used for others’ purpose in being trafficked.

Besides, how many of those on the show were traffickers and pedophiles as well?! The entertainment industry is riddled with them. I didn’t know this at the time I was asked to be on the show.

Unless the person has worked the inner healing process for quite awhile including building their inner strength, resiliency, trust within, accepting fully their truth, and feeling deep conviction about it, then more disempowerment, shame and humiliation can occur when it’s premature. I didn’t recognize this at the time, but my gut reaction and spiritual protection served me well.

It would never have been a benefit for me to be sensationalized or set up as a sacrificial lamb. Sharing the truth doesn’t mean to put one’s life in danger, and that would have happened.

True Power

The traffickers’ power structure is perceived by them, by those they victimize and by many in the world as greater than everyone else and even more than All-That-IS. It is embedded in a false premise that keeps the traffickers and everyone that buys into their hierarchal power structure, spiritually, emotionally, mentally, and oftentimes physically oppressed (and obviously in danger if being victimized) .

Also consider, “What is the difference between the traffickers’ power structure and those who rule the world’s countries?” I honestly don’t see much of a difference in the ways I was trafficked and what is being revealed.

I also am able to discern between rulers and leaders. It’s rare to see a world ‘leader’ who isn’t part of a hierarchal power structure and hasn’t bought into it. There are exceptions who have been part of this huge psyop that has been on the world stage for some years, yet we are in great need of true leadership on this planet.

Hierarchal power ends up in the belief systems as, “The perpetrators are greater than All-That-IS.” Or “The perpetrators’ power is greater than my own power.” Thus True Power would then need to be defined and differentiated.

Does the Traffickers have True Power as a virtue?

I often felt that the traffickers couldn’t find or had forgotten their own God Sparks and the true alignment of their Real Power. It seemed they wanted to own the reflection of this by using the innocence, blood and Light of children which seemed the most pure to them. The blood got them high on a physical and psychological level leaving them open for entity and demonic attachments. Adrenochrome does this.

They also thought they could possess this Pure Power and Light through negating or bypassing their virtues, thinking they needed more of the child’s Light and energy or exist with less of it twisting all structures of human morality into a dualistic rationalization while feeling separated from Unconditional Love/All-That-IS.

This is how the ‘lower/heavier’ Plane of Duality (5th Plane) vibrates. If this kind of pattern is repeated over and over, it becomes a program that is driven deep into the unconscious to project into the world. We do not want it to play out any further. This is where the rest of humanity has a part to clear their shadows and do their healing.

Inner World

Doing it this way for years helped me to get through the integration of my different personalities and their feelings. I also journaled all their memories and feelings. I gave full allowance for my inner world to have their day and way (within) in remembering what was done to them. Through a great deal of my early healing, having revenge on the inner helped me to stop projecting my feelings onto others when triggered.

Understanding violence

Some of this goes on for generations in families, cultures and religions. And the cycles continued of abuse, greed, objectifying and dehumanizing. Yet, feeding them hatred and contempt only adds to their energy. It makes them stronger! Imagine my personal energy and power leaching into them. The hatred, contempt and revenge I attach resonates with their energetics thus it feeds them, powers them to continue their misaligned and evil ways.

Part 2 of “The Questions…” will further this topic in answer the group’s questions to understanding about compassion towards those who trafficked and abused me, about my projections towards Unconditional Love, the perpetrating roles from Past lives and the overview from Near Death Experiences (NDE’s). Digesting this three part series in smaller portions felt more comprehensible. So many feelings can arise for others with loaded topics as this. Sometimes it’s important to acknowledge and work with issues more slowly.

With compassion and care in all we experience,

Judy

The Questions …Compassion for Sex Traffickers? Part 2

Tue, 29 Oct 2024 15:23:28 GMT

Quote for Reflection: When Shakespeare’s character, Jaques, in the play ‘As You Like It’ spoke that, “The world’s a stage and we’re all actors,” there were no truer mystic words that resonated to me about the healing journey. ~Judy

Past lives

As a former clinical hypnotherapist, I can trance myself to other ‘past’ experiences and have for years. I’ve experienced many simultaneous realities. From last month’s blog (July ’23), I asked myself several questions around the many past lives or simultaneous lifetimes that I’ve experienced where I played in perpetrating roles, and whether I was unforgivable.

To say the least, not all of those events were aligned with the highest and best intentions, motives or actions. I saw myself act in ways that made me shutter and cry in the present. I would never think I could be so cruel, inhumane, and objectifying as in some of the memories I remembered from other historical times.

For clarity, this is NOT why I went through being trafficked and abused in this lifetime on a spiritual level. Karma doesn’t work like that. It isn’t a punishment or an eye-for-an-eye mentality. Further explanation will be in my up-and-coming books, ‘Moving Beyond Revised’.

Each time after I remembered, I was asked by my 3rd person observer or Higher Self, “What did you learn from that lifetime?”

And I would ‘see’ what I decided, gained, lost, and learned. This was before ThetaHealing® Technique, so I was already delving deep in understanding my motives and finding compassion and forgiveness for the ways I acted towards others and myself.

I stopped doing past life work for a few years until I went through an integration/fusion process in having lived with dissociative disordering with many inner child parts. I felt that my concentration needed to be on the Inner child work and to keep it within this lifetime. It was a good decision for me because in this life’s experience, it’s easy to want to bypass what is so horrific and unbelievable.

NDEs and Divine Justice

In having many NDEs (Near Death Experiences), I remember that Souls are asked what they wanted to learn from their earthly experiences and where they felt they didn’t learn it. This is from the angle of the feelings and experience from others. This is an aspect of Divine Justice after dying.

This actually means that how incarnated Souls affect other beings through their misaligned decisions, actions, and harm of others were all ‘noticed’ on a spiritual level. That can be quite an intense realization particularly in the awareness of being witnessed by Beings of Love and through that All-That-IS energy. Yet there was no judgment like what we might think. Souls are always learning. ‘Outside’ this Earthly Third Plane of Existence, it isn’t by punishment unless that is what the Soul wants to create in their unforgiveness of themselves.

The Light beings and Masters would show me why it was necessary to return, how my absence would impact a great deal of others who were counting on me including future generations of my family lineage. This was not very consoling to me as a child who could hardly bare to live with the tremendous amount of abuse that was being inflicted. Leaving my body to go ‘home’ had become much easier and more comforting than remembering what my mission was.

This Love becomes like a perpetrator

Divine Creator energy, that Unconditional Love that is part of all of us and through everything, gets the wrath by many. This Love becomes like a perpetrator.

Why is this? Many feel that IT abandons, rejects, disappears, punishes, hurts or betrays us. OR were we (and still are) waiting for this Unconditional Love to save us?

All of these identities, beliefs and programs are not what I consider Truths in spirituality. The beliefs and memories block what can be experienced as Divine Love. There are also virtues that are needed like faith and trust to be practiced.

Played the roles

I asked myself often in my process: “How many times have I played the roles of the persecutor/ perpetrator in other lifetime experiences (past lives/ simultaneous experiences)?” I have recalled well over 300 experiences, so I’ve played a lot of polarizing roles.

“How many times was I put in the most heinous positions in being forced to make decisions which entailed either abusing others in order to survive, or be hurt or killed myself?” ‘Sophie’s Choice’ is often a reoccurring theme in trafficking.

“What makes me unforgivable to this Divine Unconditional Love or to myself?”

Unforgivable or Loved?

Even when I projected on and raged at Divine Creator, I was LOVED. Even when I got in my own way…my old beliefs and memories about myself, when I felt shame so deeply that I thought I’d shatter more from whatever core I had. I was LOVED.

In experiencing myself as having been totally dehumanized–of feeling I should be in an abyss, a void, away from everything and everyone, of being nothing/non-existent–I was LOVED.

Even when I couldn’t recognize or feel I could receive this Divine Love, I was LOVED (and am loved). What a landing to now know that I am part of this LOVE, so there was no way I wasn’t being LOVED.

Redirect the Play

When Shakespeare’s character, Jaques, in the play ‘As You Like It’ spoke that, “The world’s a stage and we’re all actors,” there were no truer mystic words that resonated to me about the healing journey. This was really a big shift for me. It helped to rearrange things faster.

Next month, I’ll discuss stopping the planetary abuse and trauma, peace of mind through forgiveness and what that entails, separation of perpetrators from society, and non-dualistic spiritual principles. This will finalize the questions from July’s blog about having compassion for traffickers. Stay tuned!

With deep care in humanity’s choices to create a new paradigm,

Judy

The Questions …Compassion for Sex Traffickers? Part 3

Tue, 29 Oct 2024 15:18:13 GMT

Quote for Reflection: Feeling compassion or forgiveness doesn’t mean the traffickers and abusers can stay in society in the ways they act out. ~Judy

STOP and say ‘NO MORE’

The group that brought forth the questions (from part 1), might have considered at what point do we say STOP and say ‘NO MORE’ to the cycles of abuse and trauma in how they play out. Do we actually recognize these acts? Many don’t as they have not done their own inner work and think that’s how everyone else was raised. We see this in adults discussing verbal abuse and spanking.

In order to become more aware planetarily, we need to go through our own individual, genetic, and collective healing within. It’s essential that we find those places within that are misaligned and need attention to support making the inner changes that can drastically affect the outer. This will help to clear the energetic projections and dissonance and also bring forth our virtues into action.

Horror schlock

Did you ever see the ’59 horror classic, ‘The Tingler’ with Vincent Price? As a kid, I was a horror schlock in what I watched on TV. I was attempting to wake myself up to the real horrors, to know they were true. I even wrote in my diaries in elementary school about all the scary movies that I watched on TV.

Unless you’re around my age or like horror, this movie will not be on your viewing list. The reason I even bring it up is that it’s about a creature that feeds off the fear in people’s spines. If a person is kind, loving, and caring, the creature falls off to die.

Interestingly, this is how it similarly works when we keep these heavy feelings of resentment, hatred, revenge, and fear running into others. The heavy feelings within serves us until they don’t. It’s a process of awareness, releasing and awakening to a new way.

I still look at areas of my life where revenge energy within or projecting outside might sneak in or be unconscious on subtle levels. I don’t know what I don’t know until it’s awakened, acknowledged and explored. But when I bring in Love (with forgiveness), it disengages.

At an unconscious level, I feel that the movie was reminding me of a way out of the horror at the time as well…that LOVE is the way out.

Peace of Mind

Forgiving isn’t about the other person’s peace of mind. It’s about mine! It’s about my energy that I unconsciously put into those who abused me. Sometimes it was to keep distance by creating a boundary. Other times, it was a way to somehow think I could wake them up to their horrific acts of inhumanity and degradation.

In truth, why would I want any part of myself, my energetic power cords feeding into their body, energy, and the ways they dehumanize and abuse?

That is what I actually witnessed intuitively, and I didn’t want any attachment to them.

When I trigger, I can acknowledge what I’m experiencing or feeling, and where it originally comes from. I can then return those energy cords, release whomever hurt me from what I’m learning from the situation, and realign the virtues through All-That-IS.

I learned not to cut the cords as they can grow back, but witness a release back to me washed, rinsed…cleaned through All-That-IS in order to reclaim my energy and true power. We can call forgiving, releasing the other (letting go of) from what they are teaching us at some level. It’s such a high-vibrational word, act, and the greatest protection.

Then I’m able to feel the somatic, emotional and spiritual shifts. That is my empowerment! It’s my healing! This is the purity of ThetaHealing® Technique in what’s taught and how I’ve been supported to shift my reality.

Never being asked to forget

By the way, we are never being asked to forget what happened in order to let go and to forgive. Why would we want to? That’s denying the truth that brought us to the point of release.

I also do not need to allow any of the abusers back into my life in forgiving them. That would be a huge lack of discernment and common sense, particularly if they are still acting out their cruel and inhumane ways.

It has taken me, so far, 35 years to sort through the repressed and suppressed memories to piece together my real history. I own it now…not as an identity piece, but as my truth of what happened to me on this earthly plane. No one can take that away from me in whatever they say or do to the contrary.

Separation to heal their ‘woundedness’

Feeling compassion or forgiveness doesn’t mean the traffickers and abusers get to stay in society in the ways they acted out. There definitely needs a place of separation to heal their ‘woundedness’ and to remember what they participated in. Most of society will want death for them. This motivation is multi-leveled and is important to explore more deeply in how we want to continue into the future with this mind set.

Consider envisioning, though, what restorative justice and rehabilitation possibilities could be. These could include deep therapy and many forms of healing and healing technologies which could be integrated. Perhaps humanity isn’t ready for this now but will be in the future.

And it doesn’t mean that the perpetrators won’t create their own demise, their own suffering through their own misalignment within themselves as the energies they work with are so dense and heavy. Their beliefs create their reality as well. There are karmic repercussions and that is between them, those they hurt, and the Divine Love to work out.

There is deep appreciation in knowing that I don’t need or want to carry that kind of burden in deciding another’s fate. Otherwise, this is where revenge cycles could filter in when introspection and healing isn’t maintained.

Freewill and Choice

My healing has supported me in remembering that I have freewill and choice in the present. It’s my choice to still be able to share what happened to me when it feels appropriate, safe, timely, and authentic to me. I have a voice, and these blogs have been a way of expressing my voice as well as the podcasts. But how I share it, needs a great deal of discernment.

The beauty of the healing is I can make my choices based on being present in the present. That is such a big deal!

Since we are all the co-creators of our lives, we must be conscious of our choices. Let’s use them wisely and with heart-based care and discernment as our world is rapidly changing. It takes courage to stay with that without being righteous.

Non-dualistic perspective

There are many possibilities of healing abuse and the planetary trauma because there is intelligence, creativity, imagination, hope, insight, and the ever-flowing connection of the Divine. So to say the least, I developed my own integrating ways of healing that kept me feeling more in alignment with All-that-IS using the non-dualistic principles of ThetaHealing® Technique.

If we really want to truly understand this level of spirituality, consider reading or re-reading the Basic ThetaHealing® book, the Advanced book and The Planes of Existence. Then add in ‘Moving Beyond Revised’ to read the stories of how people’s trauma is transformed. The philosophy of the cosmology and cosmogony as told in the books are so beautiful and practical if it’s actually felt into, understood, and utilized.

Initial Questions

To sum up the initial questions from part 1 of this series:

Yes, we can have compassion towards those who are guilty of sex trafficking.
Yes, sex traffickers are worthy of experiencing compassion.
The right thing is what lies in our hearts in connection with All-that-IS.

Even though the world is probably in the biggest shift ever, the principles that I’ve shared stay the same:

There is but one energy of Unconditional Love that we are a part of, and we can create our reality from remembering our connection in each moment
There can be core alignment with our deepest Truth through Divine Source
We can take action without revenge but with aligned, core Power through Creator
We can communicate from the heart but use our boundaries and discernment as well
Work with discerning the hierarchal (‘power-over’ or ‘power-under’) opinions from the highest Truth of what is the real earthly undercurrent
The ability to separate our energy and highest Truth from group consciousness fears or projections
We can stand in our conviction without overpowering others
We can remove ourselves from the drama and still participate to de-structure the hierarchal controls into new ways of being starting within

Decisive and discerning actions will move humanity to the next level when LOVE is acknowledged as the deepest inspiration. This is the time!

It’s going to take courage and strength of our Spirit and consciousness. It’s going to take expressing ourselves in ways we didn’t think we could. It’s going to take feeling powered and empowered from within and in alignment with All-That-IS/God of All. Can we do this? Can we change the illusion to support the future generations into true freedom? Can we have compassion for all in the roles that have been played to move humanity forward without allowing harm to come to us or others? Every one of us counts in this decision!

With deep care in participating in a new freedom of thought and action,

Judy

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